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The longest time, it ever took you to get over someone
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:48 PM
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How long was the longest time it ever took you to get over someone (they could be a lover, a dead relative, etc)?

What type of relationship did you have with them?

What I mean by "getting over someone" is: to stop missing them, or to fall out of love with them.

xo, Pauline
 
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Chii
post Mar 17 2005, 10:49 PM
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let me see...maybe a month at tops...i always go cold turkey when i need to get over someone, i don't see him, talk to him, i try not to think about him, nothing
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM
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Ugh, about 3 months.
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM
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hmm, my grandmother died last year, and I'm still not over that.
I still feel kinda guilty cuz I never really got close to her...she's been in a hospital for as long as I could remember.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:51 PM
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im still trying to get over someone...but i know i'll eventually get over it...
but when my grandfather died...it took awhile...i still kind of miss him from time to time...
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 10:58 PM
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about 10 months...or a year....time seems to blend together...bleh
 
EmmalieV
post Mar 17 2005, 10:59 PM
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I dont get over them until they leave or I never seem them again.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 11:02 PM
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Hmm, well about a year now...
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 11:04 PM
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Um, well not that long really. I'd say around a couple months. Yeah, nothing serious really happened to me.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 11:09 PM
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a year; not terribly long.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 11:09 PM
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a year and a half or so.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 12:00 AM
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crushes: longest - 4 years
deaths- 6 of them. i havent gotten over any. one of the deaths was a current boyfriend. i still love him. all of the deaths were friends. nobody i knew in my family has died
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:39 AM
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one year six months. i hope.

i sure hope i get over her now. i think i am... i'm going to go listen to yellowcard's one year, six months.


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post Mar 18 2005, 01:44 PM
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well i still havent gotten over him. and we broke up almost two years ago. but we talk on the phone almost everyday and he still isnt over me either. and we havent fallen out of love with eachother. so i dont really know. yea im lame, leave me alone.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:46 PM
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cry.gif It took me a while to get over my ex-boyfriend, about six months. It sucked.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:52 PM
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well i feel completely head over heels for this one guy in november of last year and everytime i think i am over him i see his face and it's back to square one. cry.gif
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 02:09 PM
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I'm still not over them so I can't say. At times months have gone by and I've tried desperately to convince myself that I'm over them, but I know it's not true. But yeah, I guess it would be like 3 years now. Pathetic, I know.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 04:45 PM
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I never completely get over people who have made an impact in my life in some ways. There was always that reason why i liked them in the first place, and that doesn't go away just because maybe we didn't work out or something.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 04:47 PM
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ugh, even if you think you're over it, sometimes its just not the same anymore and you still get jittery around them even if you dont like them anymore. at least thats how it is with me and my old crush. and i dont think i like him anymore..
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 11:01 PM
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Like 2 months.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 02:21 AM
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about 2 years to get over/stop liking a crush.... that was the longest ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 02:23 AM
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honestly..its been about 17 years..i met him in preschool, we were best friends, had all the same classes throughout elementary, middle and high school..we went out 7th-9th grade..we broke up and i havent gotten over him yet..but i also think its because of the fact that he was my first love..and you never forget your first love..
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 03:23 AM
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it took me about 2 days to forget him. he was a jerk.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 03:34 AM
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this one guy took me around ... seven months. he really did turn into a jerk. man i still remember those times in elementary school when we were best friends. but everyone changes so, whatever.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 03:49 AM
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Um... a guy... never really been with him, but I've been trying to get over him for more than 4 months... still going.. _unsure.gif
 
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