i like my bf cuz of who he is. not his looks. but, other girls r being retarted.. |
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 Mar 18 2005, 08:16 PM
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i like this guy. he's not "hot" n that stuff. but he's SOO nice..so funny. hard working, sensative. n fun to be with. i went up to him first and told him i like him. he says he likes me too. so everything's perfect and all right?
one day..this girl.. not that much of a "friend" but i just know her. went up to me and said "hey are you going out with ___?" and when i said "yeaaa..." she said "EWWW" and gave me this disguisted look. ...like wtf? she doesn't even know him that much. she's just judging him by his looks. but what was she THINKING, saying that infront of ME???......other people had less dramatic responses but there is till negavitity... i always hear girls say "omg i like that guy yea, cuz he's soo damn hot"... how shallow are we all? |
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Mar 18 2005, 08:23 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
personality before looks. looks are only an added bonus. i hate shallow ppl. "oh, i don't like those kind of people." what the hell is that supposed to mean. aholes.
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Mar 18 2005, 08:24 PM
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Tu es laid. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,675 |
well maybe there just jealous cuz you have something that they want.. its like this girl i knew.. my friend use to like her but he moved on since she didnt like him and he goes out with another girl and the former girl always be muggin and spreadin rumors so i think that she truely likes him but too scared to admitt it.
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Mar 18 2005, 08:41 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
don't worry, most girls are like that, they just want to put you down because your boyfriend treats you good...while their "good looking" boyfriends are probably cheating on them all over the place. you're the one dating him not those other b*tches, you have something great with this guy, don't let them make you think otherwise.
besides, other people's trash is someone else's treasure  i used to think that my boyfriend was ugly as hell...but now i can't keep my hands or lips off of him 
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Mar 18 2005, 08:42 PM
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I want a lover I don't have to love. Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,900 |
It's human nature to be attracted to people who are generally good looking.
It's how we were brought up. Society taught us that the beautiful are beautiful and that's who we sway towards. It doesn't make us shallow. And as for those who are saying "ew" (or something along that line); it's their opinions. You can take it as whatever the hell you want but everyone is entitled to their opinions. P.S. You're what 14? 15? Chances are this won't be the guy you'll be spending the rest of your life with. Don't stress. |
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Mar 18 2005, 08:57 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(May @ Mar 18 2005, 9:42 PM) It's human nature to be attracted to people who are generally good looking. It's how we were brought up. Society taught us that the beautiful are beautiful and that's who we sway towards. It doesn't make us shallow. And as for those who are saying "ew" (or something along that line); it's their opinions. You can take it as whatever the hell you want but everyone is entitled to their opinions.  agreed. |
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Mar 18 2005, 09:14 PM
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yehh i can see where you coming from, kuz i liked this guy that wasnt rele good looking but nice at heart and soo sweet, so people wud awayz say that hez ugly and that i should lyk sum otha dude.. i waz lyk f*k outta here, i lyk this guy...now im w/ sumone, thaz good looking but i dnt regret lykin a guy thaz not good looking...
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Mar 18 2005, 09:16 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
QUOTE(May @ Mar 18 2005, 5:42 PM) P.S. You're what 14? 15? Chances are this won't be the guy you'll be spending the rest of your life with. Don't stress. how negative. |
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Mar 18 2005, 09:27 PM
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I want a lover I don't have to love. Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,900 |
QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Mar 18 2005, 9:16 PM) how negative. No, just being truthful. Relationships during high school don't usually last long. All I'm saying is have fun while they last. Don't stress so much. |
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Mar 18 2005, 10:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
lol i get where ya'll comin from
i used to like guys..that were... somewhat "cute" too... i dont know what happened to me. ...i doubt the other girl secretely has a crush on him =). u know.. my bf right now has never had a gf before. lol and i think its soo cute becuase he's soo shy and all..his friends thought he might be gay since he never said he liked anyone. and when people asked him if he liked a certain girl he'd always say "no". just a hard working guy . ......who likes to play basketball.. =) i guess people who like other ppl only for their looks..are just... immature. maybe not shallow. but immature =) and...yea...i DO realize its only a highschool thing. but.. i've seen relationships last 6 years =). i aint stressin . in fact.. im enjoying every living moment right now because of him. im smiling everday..and i dont know if i've ever been happier...well maybe the time i was in disneyland XD |
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Mar 18 2005, 10:55 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
that is soo disgusting. if anyone ever says anything similar to that, just say, you're not the most attractive either, but i dont complain. and then ignore them forever because they dont deserve to talk to you. and also, kick them in the shins. from what you said, your guy sounds awesome. personality always enhances the looks, and they probably dont know him like you do anyway.
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Mar 18 2005, 11:18 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
screw them I always put personality in front of looks.
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Mar 18 2005, 11:47 PM
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who gives a fu** about wat they say.. as long as u love him for who he is.
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Mar 18 2005, 11:55 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
well i think you should just ignore her comment because im the exact same way..my boyfriend of 4 years isnt the hottest thing in the world..but hes sweet, kind, has a great career, education, etc. and i love him for it..a lot of people tell me the same thing and i just brush it off because who cares..its not like SHE has to be with him..so whatever..
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Mar 19 2005, 12:46 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
*shrugs*
That happened to me. Ignore them. That's what I did. |
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Mar 19 2005, 12:57 AM
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 rawr. Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,529 |
who cares what other people think, as long as your happy to be with him. they're probably all just jealous. personality is the most important in a guy. who wants a hot guy when all they do is look at themselves in the mirror 24/7?
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Mar 19 2005, 01:05 AM
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If a girl said that to me, there would be a WWF Smackdown at that spot.
 Don't give shiz nips of what other people say. As long as you like him, it doesnt really matter what other people say. 
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Mar 19 2005, 02:03 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 18 2005, 3:23 PM) personality before looks. looks are only an added bonus. i hate shallow ppl. "oh, i don't like those kind of people." what the hell is that supposed to mean. aholes. ya me too...i used to like a guy b/c of his personality but some ppl didnt see that and they were like ewww....that really irratated me... |
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Mar 19 2005, 02:03 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
Thank you! I love my boyfriend for his personality as well. He's not the best looking guy in the world, but I think his heart surpasses all that.
I hate it how girls are always like that. ::sigh:: |
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Mar 19 2005, 05:34 PM
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 Ever played dumbass says no? Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,456 |
haha thats tight... right now im 14... but i havent grown and im still "cutie" soft cheek you know.. and not like tall and all that.. so if i grow up to be less than hot. i know i got hope, hahaha.
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Mar 19 2005, 05:38 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i'm not the most attractive person on the face of this earth so i usually don't judge/talk about people because of their appearance. but most people are really shallow and all they care about is how hot their partner is. but usually, the sexual attraction is what causes you to be attracted to someone and then you fall in love because of who the person is...okay, i need to stop before i make myself sick...too late...
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Mar 19 2005, 06:26 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
Forget those poeple. Just telll them to fcuk off! Then go hang out with your bf. Hmm wel yeah i do hate those kind of poeple who only like someone because of their looks. Their pretty stupid if you aks me.
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Mar 19 2005, 08:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
QUOTE(mownkay @ Mar 19 2005, 5:34 PM) haha thats tight... right now im 14... but i havent grown and im still "cutie" soft cheek you know.. and not like tall and all that.. so if i grow up to be less than hot. i know i got hope, hahaha. LOL...hahah my bf...used to be soo chubby when he was around 12..he showed me some of his "chubby" basketball pics. and i just thought it was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE!! now he's 14 and 5"10. haha i always tell him he has no butt. since he's just super skinny. he eats soo much but he still never gains any weight!..  makes me jelous.but yea. my point is. that it doesn't matter what you look like. as long as your not a jack*ss there will always be someone for you=). besides. some girls like the teddy-bear type guys
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