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 Mar 17 2005, 12:02 AM
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my friend had sex with her boyfriend. and she is only 12 years old. her boyfriend just told me everything. they 69ed and then did unprotected sex. my friend ( the girl ) wont say anything about her and her boyfriend. i know that they slept together but i didnt know that they had sex. i'm realllly scared for my friend. what should i do?
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Mar 17 2005, 12:05 AM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
they had unprotected sex as in no condoms or anything?
well, uhhhh, if she hasn't had her period yet than I wouldn't worry too much about getting pregnant  other than that, I don't know....I've never had sex...
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Mar 17 2005, 12:09 AM
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geez. 12 year olds should be studying in school, not getting boyfriends.
anyways, maybe she should get tested..? |
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Mar 17 2005, 12:21 AM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
^yes, definitely get tested..there are places out there that can help your friend or her bf that will remain totally anonymous.
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Mar 17 2005, 12:22 AM
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QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Mar 16 2005, 10:05 PM) they had unprotected sex as in no condoms or anything? well, uhhhh, if she hasn't had her period yet than I wouldn't worry too much about getting pregnant other than that, I don't know....I've never had sex... Whether or not you had your period, you still can get pregnant. And yes, she should get tested.... |
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Mar 17 2005, 12:24 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
wow TWO 12 year olds doing it? geez it's almost as bad as imagining two OLD people doing it
 but anywho, get a test! |
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Mar 17 2005, 12:27 AM
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 Umm its that thing you should call me...... Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
QUOTE wow TWO 12 year olds doing it? geez it's almost as bad as imagining two OLD people doing it Boy that brings a bad picture to mind.... Anyways. Bad descision on her part. She shouldn't even have a boyfriend untill at leats 14. Girls that young shoud be more focused on school and stuff than boys.
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Mar 17 2005, 12:28 AM
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^ more like 16 if you really want a strong relationship :p
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Mar 17 2005, 12:58 AM
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 oh sweet pestilence Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 |
Girl you have a lot of problems...or should I say, "interesting" things going on in your life.
Kay well, she should get tested (which will be really embarassing because she's so freakin young) and then she should put a lock on her crotch like Robin Hood:Men In Tights. |
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Mar 17 2005, 01:04 AM
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 omgah_itsmaggiex=new username. Group: Member Posts: 785 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,467 |
a 12 year old having unprotected sex is kinda..bad.
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Mar 17 2005, 01:13 AM
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QUOTE(FoOd @ Mar 17 2005, 12:22 AM) Whether or not you had your period, you still can get pregnant. And yes, she should get tested.... I think she means her friend hasn't gone through puberty yet. At least, that's what I got from it, not that she hasn't gotten her period for the month. 1. Talk to your friend. Let her know that her boyfriend told you this information. 2. Somehow, you and her need to find an older relative/friend/companion to help her out. Take her to a clinic to get tested (how old is her boyfriend anyway?) 3. Have her look at plannedparenhood.org so she can be more aware of her having unprotected sex. I'm sure she's naive on this, help her out, be there for her, even if you're clueless on the topic. 4. Convince her to talk to her mother, if she has understanding parents. |
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Mar 17 2005, 01:27 AM
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^^
agreed. good advice...but yeah umm...interesting friend. wow.  12!? yeah go talk to her.
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Mar 17 2005, 02:27 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
wtf. daang. shes way too young. maybe u should find a way to get her to tell you and if/once you do, talk to her about it. hmm maybe her bf might be lying. you never know
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Mar 17 2005, 02:27 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
wow that's scary....
12 years old?? i think you're supposed to go to a gynecologist (sp?) when you've started having sex... so tell her to do that. i'd really worry about her though
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Mar 17 2005, 04:14 AM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
12 year olds and already doing those kinds of things.. -__- the best thing to do right now is to get tested. because it'll only be useless to be afraid of a false alarm. it was a bad decision on her part but i think, if everything does go wrong, she really needs a friend and hopefully you can help her makeit through.
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Mar 21 2005, 12:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It's not good for twelve year olds to have sex...much less unprotected sex
 . Just talk to her about it and tell her to get tested. At this point, there's nothing you can do except tell her to get tested.
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Mar 21 2005, 12:28 PM
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uhh...you might wanna talk to your friend...cuz guys have ego trips and like to brag..even about stuff that hasnt happened. so he could be making all that up. Just to start something maybe? Expecially if you friend hasnt said anything about. Cuz that is some extreme stuff for a 12 year old. so yeah...ask her, and make sure she knows what hes told you.
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Mar 21 2005, 12:41 PM
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 ::.im an attractive little jelly bean.:: Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,101 |
in my opinion ... i think she should have never had sex. she is only 12. how does she know that her boyfriend might of just wanted to do it to tell all his friends. this incident might spread a rumor around school for her now. why dont you call her and tell her how you feel and while your at it look up places to get tested and tell her about them. tell her you'll go with her if she feels uncomfortable. be there for her ... everyone makes mistakes .. even if this one was a big one .
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Mar 21 2005, 01:12 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,840 |
isnt she soo young!
damn. i want it n im still a virgin
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Mar 21 2005, 01:52 PM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
For some reason, it doesnt really surprise me.
I still think its bad. But as for shocking me no way. Girls are waaay to focused on guys and how they seem them and being liked and having a boyfriend at that age.. it seems like its an easy thing to not focus on. But I mean, in my own experense every single one of my friends has had a boyfriend before.. not me though, it makes you feel like your weird. Maybe he threatened to breakup with her if she didnt? Maybe not. But whatever it was, she still made a bad choice. Its really sad soo many girls focus is on having a boyfriend. I know people who dont care if they even like the boy they just want to have the status of being taken. And I agree with everyone, she needs to get tested! |
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Mar 21 2005, 02:17 PM
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 im lina Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,370 |
oh wow.. you've horny friends
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Mar 21 2005, 02:30 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
unless she had sex without a condom , dont be worried.
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Mar 21 2005, 02:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
^ she said tehy had unprotected sex...so yeah she should be worried
if she does not have her period....then you shouldn't worry |
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Mar 21 2005, 03:00 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
i hope she gets std.
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Mar 21 2005, 04:17 PM
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that is just wrong, 12 years old? get her to the clinic asap
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