If a girl asks you out..., What do you think? |
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 Apr 13 2004, 02:07 PM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Mar 1 2004, 6:00 PM) It puts the pressure off of guys. Or at least that's what some guys tell me O_o yea it does... specially if u were gonna ask her out as well. 
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Apr 13 2004, 02:13 PM
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why does it matter? people who say that guy should ask her out are creating a double standard, for women and themselves. I mean, if i'm into the girl and i'm planning to ask her out but she does first, that's a great thing, i mean at least i know that our feelings are mutual. If a girl were to aks me out then i know she is an optimist and goes for what she wants, and that's something else i really appeal to in women, optimism.
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Apr 13 2004, 05:22 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
QUOTE(Dr_Robotio @ Apr 13 2004, 2:13 PM) why does it matter? people who say that guy should ask her out are creating a double standard, for women and themselves. I mean, if i'm into the girl and i'm planning to ask her out but she does first, that's a great thing, i mean at least i know that our feelings are mutual. If a girl were to aks me out then i know she is an optimist and goes for what she wants, and that's something else i really appeal to in women, optimism. yah, I guess that's ok. But to many girls have been turned down at my school by guys because they asked them out. So I guess, that's why most people I know are scared to.... |
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Apr 13 2004, 05:46 PM
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 Retired Member Group: Member Posts: 879 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,843 |
QUOTE(dat_da_busit_hai @ Feb 23 2004, 10:21 PM) its fine!! cuz i'm a kinda shy guy myself  so i udly dont ask alot of girls to da movies n stuff... so they ask me n i dont have a problem sayin yes exactly!!! i'm an azn too and i'm kinda shy myself |
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Apr 14 2004, 03:53 AM
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 Fizzle Ma Nizzle Group: Member Posts: 1,019 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,978 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 23 2004, 8:20 PM) I find it perfectly fine i also agree with u..
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Apr 14 2004, 11:34 AM
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 pain is good Group: Member Posts: 812 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,846 |
tehres nothing wrong wit it......
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Apr 15 2004, 06:37 AM
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Retired Member Group: Member Posts: 879 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,843 |
QUOTE(SeoulJah4God @ Apr 13 2004, 2:07 PM) yea it does... specially if u were gonna ask her out as well. i know! tell me about it |
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Apr 16 2004, 05:05 PM
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 i'm too cool 4 school Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,421 |
i don't think i would ever ask i guy out. I feel as though guys should ask girls out, I'm just old fashioned about that. Some people say well the guy is shy, but if he really liked you he would gather up the courage to ask you out.
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Apr 16 2004, 11:08 PM
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 jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
I think most guys like it when girls actually do the asking out. It makes it a lot easier for em. And I think it's mean to label a girl a "slut" if she asks a guy out. It's the 21st century, if we're accepting gays and lesbians(no offense) in our society why can't we accept the simplicity of a girl asking to be with a guy she likes?
Okai I think I'm going off topic o.O |
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Apr 17 2004, 05:02 PM
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full time emo kid Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,945 |
i get weirded out
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Apr 17 2004, 05:31 PM
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 teach me korean... i'm serious Group: Member Posts: 918 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,427 |
holy cow, i thought you guys would think it's gay
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Apr 17 2004, 05:35 PM
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QUOTE(Stupid_Fat_Boy @ Mar 19 2004, 5:14 AM) u know, i think thats rare. But That would be cool I think girls like that are very kewl  wow! so i'm "very cool"...wow...
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Apr 17 2004, 11:36 PM
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 -_AzN-KiLLa-DrGN {PRODUCTIONZ} Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,850 |
lol... shouldn't guys ask gurls ? .. because i think the gurl would be scare that the person mite not like her or the guy wouldn't go for her? ...
and if the gurl did .. it would be so much easier in the world  LOL!
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Apr 17 2004, 11:36 PM
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if its a situation like that girl in ushers video "yeah" then im all for it
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Apr 18 2004, 04:58 AM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
everyone in this world deserves a chance.
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Apr 18 2004, 09:59 AM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
i think it should go both ways because both sexes are scared of the rejection part so if we both try it sometime than maybe the opposite sex will become more comfortable and self-confident
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Apr 18 2004, 03:15 PM
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QUOTE(cleec @ Apr 18 2004, 9:59 AM) i think it should go both ways because both sexes are scared of the rejection part so if we both try it sometime than maybe the opposite sex will become more comfortable and self-confident  wise person indeed! |
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Apr 26 2004, 10:28 AM
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Silver Hawk Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,909 |
in my opinion boys wont appreciate gals dat take the 1st move....so it is the boys' job to take the initiative.agree?
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Apr 26 2004, 11:03 AM
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I'd be happy and honored...
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Apr 26 2004, 01:13 PM
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Nice n' Slow Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,451 |
thats pretty desperate
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Apr 26 2004, 05:03 PM
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 繁體中文版 Group: Member Posts: 613 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,840 |
lol i agree wit all u guys.....its fine wit me....
 QUOTE grls should be askin guys out...i mean its "equality" aint it??... no i'm not a guy... yea.....this is true.....lol
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Apr 26 2004, 05:04 PM
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 x mar muffins *yuuuum Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620 |
haah thats funny, guys at our school think that when a girl asks out a guy, they think its really sexy, how weird..
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Apr 26 2004, 09:33 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,178 |
it would actually depend on who that is.. i mean if it's someone pretty damn ugly.. no efence but, u noe? it's not like u would.. so dont complain.. i would make an excuse.. but if it was someone aiite.. i'll just say.. uhh sure.. but just for dat day.. or something.. i duno i never really had any experience.. (yes i'm still a virgin -_-;;)
but on the other hand.. if it was someone hot.. i'd be like.. do you really have to ask? shouldn't u already noe what the answer's gona be? or something like dat.. 
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Apr 30 2004, 12:22 PM
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xaprilu Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,579 |
isnt that desperate?
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Apr 30 2004, 12:38 PM
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i really dont care if i get asked out byut id rather ask out the girl and im a "guy"
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