Question on Sex!, Does it hurt the first time? o.O |
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 Mar 12 2005, 09:30 PM
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it depends on the girl but it also depends on the guy. if the guy is big and your small it will hurt even if u have broken your hymen.
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Mar 12 2005, 09:34 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE i dunno but ppl keep making sound of moarning or scream when sex happen =P so yes i think it must hurt first time! lol..umm the moaning and screaming isnt cuz it hurts.. |
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Mar 12 2005, 09:39 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
um well depends how stimulated the girl is , if shes stimulated enough it wont hurt as much.
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Mar 13 2005, 03:30 AM
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 my pet rock doesn't like you Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,866 |
Break the hymen? But what if you use tampons - Doesn't that do it?
Anyway - how is this pg-13? |
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Mar 13 2005, 07:42 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
I wouldn't know, but I heard it hurts. ><
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Mar 13 2005, 02:26 PM
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Well I think if you have someone whose inexperienced it would hurt cuz he doesn't know how to position it yet...and if you have someone more experienced they would understand...and I think it doesn hurt the first time cuz yur tissue down their rips!!!...but once you do it it feels good and yu keep on doin it...cuz yu have done it b4 and the tissue would already been stretched and healed...and it won't hurt unless the nexx guy is bigger...hehe
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Mar 13 2005, 04:26 PM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
My first time having sex did hurt alot. I didn't bleed at all during sex, so I didn't have to worry about any 'mess', but becausemy vagina had only been used to small, tampon size stretching it, having a larger object (penis) stretching it caused most of the pain. Though after maybe 20 minutes, it wasn't so bad.
The next day though when I went pee, it stung a little peeing, and I had little spotting of blood, but other than that, it wasn't so bad as everyone had said it would be. But then again, everyone's body is different, and handles things differently |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:32 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
QUOTE(bad_girl @ Feb 13 2005, 9:02 AM) um.. idk. diddo?? isnt it ditto?  yeah its ditto Well it probably depends if your body produced some type of liquid or something.. like if you were raped... it hurts b/c your body didn't produce the fluid to make it go smoother and less painful..(heh... thanx to health class..im just so educated) |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:32 PM
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 sO seDuctivE Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,009 |
The first guy I had sex with, didn't hurt at all. However the second guy...did. very much so. His shlong was a lot bigger though.
But yeah...all depends on size, if your hymen is torn already and...I had to be like, disgusting how wet you are. I mean, if it's slippery...it'll go in without having to be like...forced. |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:44 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(brainxdamaged @ Mar 12 2005, 3:49 PM) yea it does da first time (if ur a grl)...unless ur hylm (spelling?) has already been broken somehow.. have you even had sex? im sure 1/2 the people who answered in this topic have never had sex. everyone is different. my first time didn't hurt really at all, the day after i was a bit sore but oh well |
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Mar 13 2005, 05:03 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Feb 13 2005, 9:59 PM) If you have sex, you will die...Havent you seen Mean Girls lmao, i saw it, and i agree. Virgins for life... or non virgins w/o a life  lol jpFrom what i have heard, it depends on you. Also it depends on the guy. If he makes sure ur relaxed, and hes not rough, than it shouldnt hurt alot. But if your tense and worried, and ur muscles are tight, then it would prolly hurt more Hope that helps 
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Mar 13 2005, 05:08 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(x3chrissyx3 @ Mar 13 2005, 4:32 PM) The first guy I had sex with, didn't hurt at all. However the second guy...did. very much so. His shlong was a lot bigger though. But yeah...all depends on size, if your hymen is torn already and...I had to be like, disgusting how wet you are. I mean, if it's slippery...it'll go in without having to be like...forced. That's why you buy lubricated condoms, hello. It's not entirely soaked, but enough so it lessens the friction and lets it in easier. |
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Mar 16 2005, 03:15 PM
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 shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
I havent had sex yet, but i have a pretty good understanding about it, most likely if it hurts, its just your mind making you think that it hurts..or your doing something wrong..or its how the guy likes to do it.
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Mar 16 2005, 03:41 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(xo_rock @ Mar 16 2005, 3:15 PM) I havent had sex yet, but i have a pretty good understanding about it, most likely if it hurts, its just your mind making you think that it hurts..or your doing something wrong..or its how the guy likes to do it. You can understand sex a bit, but you can't understand it 100% until you've had sex. It DOES hurt your first time having sex, that is unless you use dildos/vibrators, and have already gotten used to larger objects being put into your vagina. |
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Mar 16 2005, 10:31 PM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
lols [: i just noticed that the question was if the first time hurt, but then we changed it to how to spell "ditto / diddo" . but it is ditto [:
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Mar 16 2005, 10:48 PM
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QUOTE(ch33sylici0us @ Mar 13 2005, 12:30 AM) Break the hymen? But what if you use tampons - Doesn't that do it? Anyway - how is this pg-13? Tampons don't usually break your hymen, I've worn tampons for a year and my hymen isn't broken, plus all my freinds I knwo wear tampons and they havn't broken their hymen, so ya, I think ti's rpetty rare to break your hymen that way... |
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Mar 16 2005, 11:09 PM
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 Chrissy:)***** Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,274 |
it really depends on alot of things like the guy and how u are on the inside like how your bulit everyone is different
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Mar 16 2005, 11:26 PM
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QUOTE(x uHoH iTs Lo x @ Feb 18 2005, 8:40 PM) Yes. it does. I was 6 when I did it. Hurts like a mothereffer you were six?!?!? ...okay, you gotta be joking  or maybe a spelling mistake?  ...I really hope you meant 16...umm, otherwise, that's kidna scary  EDIT ahh, good, you were joking *phew* |
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Mar 16 2005, 11:45 PM
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Feb 17 2005, 6:08 PM) what the f**k, they cant make it illegal for you to have sex if your under 16. it is considered stagitory rape or whatever if your under 16 and the person is over 18 but other than that there can't be laws making it illegal for you have sex. hmm, well I don't know....my mom once read a list out of the newspaper about which countries have laws about sex and how young you're allowed to have sex...I have no idea why she was reading this to us, it was really embarrassing, umm, maybe she was trying to give us a lecture or something, I donno...anyway, I don’t' remember exactly what the list said but it was something like, country #1 sex illegal below 18, Country #2 sex illegal below 16, country #3 sex illegal below 14, country #4 sex illegal below 13. At the country #4 my mom was like "omg, I can't believe they let children have sex 13 and above, that's just horrible, I can't believe it, it's just so blah blah blah etc." hmm, ya, she got kinda worked up... ...that’s what I remember anyway, I could be wrong, it might not have been laws just kind of what’s acceptable or something... |
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Mar 29 2005, 05:34 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE Tampons don't usually break your hymen, I've worn tampons for a year and my hymen isn't broken, plus all my freinds I knwo wear tampons and they havn't broken their hymen, so ya, I think ti's rpetty rare to break your hymen that way... you can TELL if your hymens broken ? i dont think you can, not that i know of. its just a little skin unless your sticking our finger up there to check if your hymens still intact .. how would you know? its not really rare. thats how a lot of girls break their hymen before sex. and yeah pretty much what other people have said. it hurts the first time if your not wet or lubed cos it feels like hes forcing it in. and if its bigger it hurts more because your vagina has to expand more and all that. |
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Mar 29 2005, 05:38 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
QUOTE(actionrobot_go @ Feb 13 2005, 11:34 PM) DON'T HAVE SEX! EVER! You'll die a thousand times if you do, and burn in hell with Satan himself  LMAO. i heard it hurts. i dunno though. i never tried |
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Mar 29 2005, 05:38 PM
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QUOTE i dont think you can, not that i know of. its just a little skin unless your sticking our finger up there to check if your hymens still intact .. how would you know? its not really rare. thats how a lot of girls break their hymen before sex. uh yea.... how do u kno if its torn???? 
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Mar 29 2005, 05:56 PM
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Dude, I'm in like Middle school and half of the girls at our school arn't virgins anymore. This girl just started going out with this dude and they had sex within the first few weeks they were going out, then like the next day shes like "Oh The first time hurt so bad".. and it was just sick.
They arn't even togetther anymore.  It sickens me.
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Mar 29 2005, 08:58 PM
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For some girls, it hurts as much as a hiccup. For some, it causes them tremendous pain. Even if their hymen has been broken by some other means (tampon, strenuous physical activity), it could still hurt a lot for them. In addition, it also depends on how gentle the guy is. Usually, its a little less painful for the woman to be on top the first time, because she gets to control how much of the guy's equipment can go in. Some people never even fully insert it inside the first time because it could be so painful. But you just gradually get used to it, and it becomes a lot better.
Don't worry though, every girl varies. |
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Mar 29 2005, 09:00 PM
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my first time did hurt and i was soar all the next day but it was worth it
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