What kind of mother would you be? Options

[inthemudhole]

Eck, I don't want kids..
I'd be a horrible mom.
I really don't like kids, so it's better off if I just don't have any.

[KissMe2408]

I think i would be a pretty good mom I would always want to be there for my kids ya know? If they have a soccer or basketball game i always want to show up. I would want to spend lots of time with them. As for punishments and stuff, I dunno yet. Each kid is different. I would want them to have the best childhood too, the best life i could give them. I wouldn't want them watching all this trash and stuff on tv, and would want them to grow up in a home where there is peace and no fighting. I would want them to feel like they could talk to me about anything. and have a really close relationship. I would want them, and my husband to be so inlove with God. lol and Gods going to really help me with being the best mother i possibly can be, cuz apparently its not easy hehe

[gossipgirl]

i thk i'll probably
be the coolest mum ever.
i mean,
i'll let my children date at the age of 10,
as long as tthey got a target.
and let them have sex at the age of 11,
as long as they dont get pregnant..!
their grades,
....juz dont get fail then itz okay.
Love ya*muah

[jenika]

hmm..i dont live with my parents...i live with my grandmother so...iernoo...but im definitely not going to be a typical korean mom (wanting there kids to have perfect grades and want you to study right from when you come home to like the next friggin day) like when i came home with a 98 test she'd be like "where's the other 2 points?" it's so discouragingg...sighh

[parallel]

Haha what a cool topic...anywho..I would be strict yet cool..erm..hard to explain kinda..but I want to be the kind of mom who freaks out when her child gets a C or something..my kid would have to have a B or higher..if not..then..no computer, TV, video games, phone..and all that good stuff...heheh..but then I want to be close with my kid(s) so they don't hate me or anything..all I know is, is that I like handling little kids and I think that I'm a good teacher..like if my kid was to say something foul..then I would be all, "NO! Only mean kids say bad words like that! And your not a mean kid!"..Yup..I actually have it all planned out..

[twelveislands]

- Allowed a boy/girl friend whenever they want.
- Wear make-up more publicly when she goes to secondary school (11/12) but not too much
- Curfew ~ Younger then 11 = 8pm, 11 - 14 = 9pm, 15/16 - 10/11pm. After 16 - whenever as long as they tell me the time they'll be back.
- Punishment ~ Younger than 13 = Grounded. 13/14 + = Stuff they enjoy doing taken away.
- Schooling ~ Public school. Doesn't bother me.
- Piercings ~ Depends on what ones. Ears = Any age. Navel = 11 + Facial piercings = 14 +
- I'll go shopping with them to help decide their clothes.. and make sure they don't choose something too extreme. They can choose their own clothes when they're 13/14 but I'll decide whether they're appropriate enough for wearing.
- They can drink alcohol at special occasions, when they're 15 they can drink with their friends.
- Smoking not tolerated at all.
- Can try drugs but not make regular use of it to become addicted otherwise I'll kick their ass out of the house.
- Sleepovers allowed. Opposite sex's allowed to sleep over when they're 15.
- Bf/gf can sleep over from 15. They can sleep in the same room. They can be sexually active as long as they practice safe sex and don't disturb me.
- Grades ~ As long as their in the top 2 sets for the subjects and I don't get no bad reports home, I'm fine with them.
- Pocket money every week. Amount varies on what they've done throughout that week.
- I'll give them the things they need when they ask. I won't give them stuff just for the sake of them wanting it.
- Tell them that fighting isn't acceptable but if the other person hits you, by all means hit them back.
- I won't bring them up religiously as I myself aint religious but if they choose to be than they can, as long as they don't start saying "I can't do that because the bible(or something else) says I can't.
- Make sure they're active from a young age. Maybe join a sports team in junior school.
- I'd prefer it if she didn't start being sexually active before 13. I'd also prefer it if she didn't have sex for the first time before she was 15.

Damn, A long list. I'll probably edit it as well.

[nicky04033]

i'll try not to be authoritarian... and let them do what they want if they arent illegal........ sure i'll let them date, maybe after 14=)

[GodsBrokenAngel0...]

- my kid would be able to be friends with and/or date whoever they want.
- dating age=12/13
- curfew: 12 to 15- 8pm, 16 to 18- 11pm, if they're still living with me AND going to college or working= whenever...as long as it's decent...like they can't stay out until 3am when they have a 8am job/class
- grades...80's would be nice...it wouldn't really matter, as long as they're trying
- makeup: whenever...as long as it's not too over the top
- punishment: i'd make him/her write me a long letter about what they did wrong so they recognize the problem and how they will improve...taking things away will just get make them worse
- wear whatever they want to wear...as long as it's not slutty
- friends can stay over...but friends of the opposite sex can't stay in the same room unless there's a group of the kids mixed together

[weirdness]

IF i have children, i would try to do whatevers best for them? i dunno... it depends on the kid i guess.
i don't hate my parents, i guess i would probably be like my parents when i grow up. heh.

[iheartjohn]

All of the sacrifices I've made for my daughter, and all of the hard work I've done just to give her a good life, I know I'm a good mommy.

[bravodancer04]

Umm..lets see..these would be my only rules:

~Have grades above 70%, and if they have missing assignments, then they would have to study with me =)
~No bedtime
~They can wear makeup
~They can wear whatever they want, as long as they don`t look too slutty
~They can have boyfriends/girlfriends as long as they aren`t druggies/alcoholics if they are under 17
~Curfews: 12-15: 10 pm, 16-18: 12 pm.

thats about it..

[surfhottieoffcoa...]

SOCCER MOM BABY.....woudn't be strick but i'd have rules...

my friend says shes gonna get a mini van with spinners and hidrolicks

[xOx_aGnEs]

+ they can like date whoeva they want az long az theyre like not druggies er nethin
+ dating age= like 6-7th grade
+ curfew: 12 to 15..9pm.. nd den l8er like 11 o clock
+ grades...80's would be nice...it wouldn't really matter, as long as they're trying
+ makeup: whenever...jus not too much
+ punishment: i guess like longg lecturez nd make dem stay inside 4 a while until tehyn realize wuh they did wrong
+ tehy canb wear w/e they want az long az itz not TOO slutty
+ friendz can stay over buh like friendz of tha opposite sex cant stay unless itz like mixed w/ both grlz nd boiiz
+ girlfriends or boyfriends ccant spend the night.. @ least not til theyre old enough

[inlonelinessidie]

I think I'll be a good mom . . . I hope.
Date at age: 16
Wear makeup/ Dye hair at: 13
Her/his grades: Don't really care . . . =p
Punishment: No going out. And if they hate studying I'll make them study, LOL!
Curfew for a young teenager: 7pm, since they can't drive.
Curfew for an older teenager: 11pm
Clothing: Don't want a slut or a gang member.

[pinayprincess]

i would be the mom that would allow my child to do anything i couldnt do .... but then again i wud be ova protective on who SHE is dating [[yes i want a daughter lol]]