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post Mar 8 2005, 05:30 PM
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Okay.. this is kind of a weird story...... (If you're a homophobe, f*ck off.)


Sooo.... I had seen this one chick in the hall for a while. I always thought she was really really pretty. A couple days before winter break let out, I had come in late and braught a couple presents for my friends. My arms were full and when I walked into the lobby I like.. dropped all my stuff. It was kinda emberessing, but when I got down to pick it up, I looked over and saw this girl, Sky (I didn't know her name at the time), and she smiled. From that point on, every time I saw her walking down the hall, I couldn't keep my eyes off her. I mean, not only is she really really hott and beautiful, she's got her own funky style and I love that. Individuality has always been something that attracts me to people.

So, my friend, Kalif, was talking about how he wanted to go to the dance with this one girl and he was describing her and stuff. And I was like "Ohhhh! That one chick who's got that really funky style but in a good way and she's hott." And he's like "Umm.. I guess." lol. So, basicly, they're friends but he also liked/likes her. He told her that I was bi and that I thought she was hott (which, I didn't mind because I said he could) and she didn't believe me so she IMed me. I confirmed it and she was cool with it. Now we're friends and I like her. I don't only think that she's hott. I also like her. Now... here are some problems.................


1. She's straight
2. My other friend likes her
3. SHE'S IN 6TH GRADE!!!! (I'm in 8th). I feel like a freaking petifile. lol.
grrr... Just.... How should I get over her????
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 05:31 PM
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post Mar 8 2005, 05:34 PM
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wow well ask her if shes BI because if you told me that you thought i was hott i would probaly be alittle freaked out so maybe shes BI also anyways two year diffrence isnt anything but just be carefull how you tell her , so you wont scare her off.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 10:22 PM
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^i agree age doesn't really matter, but you should break it to her slowly cause it might just scare her.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 10:47 PM
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age difference: no biggie.
break it to her slowly. don't be like: i wanntttt uuuu...
ask ur friend about it. o w/e.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 10:51 PM
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haha well ... yeah... intersting . hrmm.... i dont really think u should try anything cuz shes straight and probally isnt interest o_O ; ... look for someone else? haha im stumped sorry ><;
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 10:54 PM
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wow, you're brave for admitting that you're bisexual, props to you my dear thumbsup.gif

you're not a pedophile, 2 years isn't that much of a big deal...if she's straight there's not really anything you can do about it, you can get over it happy.gif
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 12:02 AM
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^^agreed.

there's nothing you can really do, unless you starts to like you back... besides, two years isn't a big difference at all. if it was 12 years of age difference, then THAT would be freaky. luckily, it's not. =) i think all you can really do is get over her..
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 02:02 AM
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Turn her to a gay..
or just focus on other boy,girl.
 
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post Mar 9 2005, 07:29 AM
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Turn her to a gay..
or just focus on other boy,girl.


lol, I'd say bi.. tongue.gif But I would focus on someone else?. Duno?
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 08:35 AM
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It sounds to me like you should leave her alone, or you might have some angry parents of that little sixth grader after you happy.gif
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 09:43 AM
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^^ hahah that's kind of true. but maybe you should leave her alone for a while, i mean after all, she is a 6th grader and in a way, age differences between 8th graders and 6th graders are pretty big.
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 12:46 PM
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Okay... Soooooo................... Little update on Sky. Well, just to make it clear, she knows I think she's hott. Yesterday she wasn't feeling very confident and said she was ugly and I asked her if I should list all the reasons I think she's hott and... she said I could so I did. mellow.gif She doesn't care that I think she's hott at all. When we chill and see each other in the hall, I act normal around her and I don't really treat her like I think she's hott because I don't like to freak my friends out by acting weird around them. But.....

Last night, I was talking to her online and when she had to go she was like "xoxoxoxoxo" and I was just kidding and I said, "Prove it." She's like "I will." Now, being the little naive sixth grader she is, I didn't think she knew what I means so I said, "You don't get it.. I was coming on to you." She's like, "I know." My jaw dropped then. lol. I was like, "umm... Sky? Are you straight?" She's like "Yeah.. I think so." Imediatly after she said that, she signed off so I couldn't say anything back. So... yeah.......

Now I'm dedicated to someone. I'm not dating her because it's a long distance thing, but we made a promise to each other that we wouldn't do things with anyone else. So yeah... We're practicly dating. I mean, I'll still flirt and stuff. But, my normally provocative attitude will not come out.


Also, I don't think the two year age difference is a big deal. But, most sixth graders aren't exactly what you would call very... "matrue." But, Sky is different. She's very very mature for her age. So it's not that big of a deal. But, yeah......
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 04:56 PM
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1.) age doesn't matter
2.) tell her that you like her..but then again....maybe her parents won't like it that they;re daughter is dating let along dating a guy who is two years older than her at that age. They'd think you're a pervert. And they'd be furious if they knew....but if you like her that much...go for it.
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 06:07 PM
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QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Mar 13 2005, 5:56 PM)
1.) age doesn't matter
2.) tell her that you like her..but then again....maybe her parents won't like it that they;re daughter is dating let along dating a guy who is two years older than her at that age. They'd think you're a pervert. And they'd be furious if they knew....but if you like her that much...go for it.

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post Mar 13 2005, 06:13 PM
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This is interesting. Does your friend still like her? Maybe you should tell her that you really like her and see what she says.
 
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post Mar 14 2005, 12:25 PM
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if ur bi n she isnt then u def. need to move on dont waste time on bein lead on...u deserve better most likely...n im sure she doesnt kno wat she is yet..ur gonna be a freshman soon like me...find older bi's...itll make the experience more fun most likely...lol...dont haste in grief if Sky doent like u..
 
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post Mar 14 2005, 09:34 PM
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wow. she's only in 6th grade. give her more time to figure out her sexuality.
 
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post Mar 15 2005, 06:55 PM
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*its pedophile

and i think its pretty hard to say that you know your sexuality even in 8th grade, but definently NOT in 6th. just leave her be and find someone your own age thumbsup.gif
 
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post Mar 15 2005, 07:00 PM
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QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 13 2005, 8:35 AM)
It sounds to me like you should leave her alone, or you might have some angry parents of that little sixth grader after you    happy.gif
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Good point. Sixth grade is pretty young to be dating anyway. And to come out as bi that young? I'm sure her parents would be angry and blame you. But I don't know her parents. I'm just guessing...
 
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post Mar 16 2005, 06:32 PM
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Mar 15 2005, 7:55 PM)
*its pedophile

and i think its pretty hard to say that you know your sexuality even in 8th grade, but definently NOT in 6th. just leave her be and find someone your own age  thumbsup.gif
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lol. I knew it was pedophile. lol. Not really... But I duno why I spelled it that way. huh.gif But... Yeah.... I figure it's best to find someone older. Trust me, I don't want to like a 6th grader. It just doesn't feel right. But I can't help my feelings. I'm not falling for her or anything. Hell no... But, I really like her. Which isn't cool..... ermm.gif
 

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