long written confusing problem, hope u have the time =( Options

[cewinee]

ok i know i know.. this is a damn long story.. if u wanna skip the information then try reading just the very last paragraph.. if u need to know the details then yeah read everything.. sorry for the longness i talk alot D; hahah

ok well some of you may have read my topic on how i needed tips on how i could ask my dad about letting me go visit the philippines(my home town, bf's there too) during my spring break (april-may) well i've FINALLY (after 3weeks) got to talk to him tonight with my mom..

ok two problems.. firstly, while i'm in the philippines, my friends and boyfriend want to go to Boracay (amazing beach in philippines) for a week to celebrate graduation and all and jus for fun u know? so hey one step at a time.. first, permission for going to the philippines.

however tonight as my mom and i saw my dad's reaction on letting me go to philippines to visit, we realized that we shouldnt even ask him to let me go to Boracay beach cuz he would have definetly said no. cuz it was already so hard for him to say yes bout the philippines thing haha. plus no adults are coming with me and my friends to supervise, nothin.. (i'm almost 18 so i can take care of myself but my dad doesnt see that yet.. he's one of those dads lol -_- )

so thats problem #1; having to hide from my dad bout going to the beach. the ticket to go to the philippines is only $470 and i can pay for that with my allowance that i've been saving up so yey the boracay trip is another $200 (room prices, boat trip n everything included cheap!!). my dad will give me "pocketmoney", hahaha probably more than that amount lol cuz he usually gives me big pocketmoney when i travel so i can jus use that for the beach trip hahaha perfect huh?? my mom and i only figured that out whilst talkin to him lol..

ok ok problem #2; id always tell my bf bout alot of good news that would come up that would be of great benefit to the both of us, so we'd get all psyched up and happy, getting our hopes up too high.. then the nxt thing we know it ends up not happening anymore. that happens alot with us. well for once i thot id have the guts to ask my dad to let me go visit him for once (well after a long time) to suprise my bf cuz he's been really down lately bout some complicated things. so then i did something pretty dumb one day when he was realy down a couple weeks ago, i told him that i was visiting him for sure during spring break, i hadnt even talked to my dad OR my mom bout it i jus said it right there to cheer him up n he was happy all over again n hasnt been down since..

of course i had to talk to my dad for sure soon bout it.. but my mom kept saying to wait for the right time cuz he's a really moody person n lotsa shit stuff has been happening lately, thats why tonight was the best night.

so.. my bf the whole time thot i was waiting this whole time to talk to my dad tonight bout the BORACAY thing cuz he n his friends needed to know if i could go.. thank god my dad said yes about visiting the philippines. we can forget bout the boracay thing. atleast my mom's letting me so she can help me hide from my dad while im at the beach n all.. we've done it before so its ok.. its jus wat do i tell my bf? hahaha SOO sorry this story had to be so long n it all comes down to jus that question, its jus i wanted to get the story clear so i can get the best advice on wat to tell my bf =( i dont wanna lie to him and say that "oh yeah talked to my dad tonight! he said yes about the boracay thing! so lets go!" main reason is because i just dont want to lie to him =/ so yeah the answer is to tell him the truth but how? how do i say it =( im not very good at expressing myself to the ppl i love most when i make mistakes n stuff.. cuz when i explain it comes off really bad =8 so help mee =( plss