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 Mar 13 2005, 06:45 PM
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WONDERWOMAN?  Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636  |
So there's this guy that I think is really cute, and I sort of like him. But the thing is, I don't even talk to him. The only class that I have with this cutie is P.E. I mean, it'd be pretty easy for me to start up a convo if it was a math class cause I can just ask him a math question and we could chit chat from there. But P freaking E. What could I possibly say to him? Argh. My friend sucks. She has like 3 classes with him
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Mar 13 2005, 06:52 PM
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well if you're playing some sort of sport (ex. soccer) just start talking about that or what you guys are doing. just relax.
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Mar 13 2005, 06:52 PM
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it sounds like infatuation to me..but..I guess you could start up a random conversation about sports....anything really...or just...you know..ask him what the coach said to do...ask him what the instructions were...
It'd be so much easier if *cough*you just got your friend to introduce you to him...*cough* |
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Mar 13 2005, 06:53 PM
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hah ...the guy i used to like was only in my PE class tooo! lol.
i just went up n said "hey do we have the test on this unit next block??? omg did u study???".......or "hey ..do u knoe which unit we're doing after this one?".........or "whats ur fav sport?" n if there seriously isn't n e thing to say..jus do what i do...walk up n say "heeeyyy bum!" XD...but then, im overly hyper....n reli unshy...cept when i talk to *him *...........*sigh.....*...........well yea, n e ways *cough* . good luck =D |
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Mar 13 2005, 07:32 PM
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 first step : take a deeeeepppp breath. you CAN do this! Second step: If its in pe just find a common intrest, I have this guy thats in my pe class that I just talk to about everythin' and we are good friends. Find a common intrest (May the convo starter most likely be sports cuz ur in PE.) Third step: Talk to him off an on. DONT BOMBARD HIM WITH THINGS. it will make you obvious, just like talk one day talk a little less the next until your comfortable enough to constantly talk to him Fourth step: Sit back and admire your handy work.  Be patient, this may take time. <3 |
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Mar 13 2005, 09:41 PM
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WONDERWOMAN? Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Mar 13 2005, 6:52 PM) It'd be so much easier if *cough*you just got your friend to introduce you to him...*cough*  Haha. Yea, I told her to introduce me to him, but she doesn't really talk to him so she said she wouldnt. Anyway, thanks for the advice guys. I might actually have the courage to talk to him tomorrow, or at least SOON  Hopefully things would work out and I can get closer to him.
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Mar 13 2005, 10:14 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Mar 13 2005, 4:52 PM) it sounds like infatuation to me..but..I guess you could start up a random conversation about sports....anything really...or just...you know..ask him what the coach said to do...ask him what the instructions were... It'd be so much easier if *cough*you just got your friend to introduce you to him...*cough* she never said that she liked him...she said "sorta"  .anyways, as most people have said: just talk about what you are doing in P.E..... example: a horrid game of capture the flag *idk, we played it last week* " I can't believe that we have to play this! its ridiculus" just keep it casual and fun. don't make it a huge deal |
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Mar 13 2005, 10:40 PM
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WONDERWOMAN? Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 |
QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Mar 13 2005, 10:14 PM) example: a horrid game of capture the flag *idk, we played it last week* " I can't believe that we have to play this! its ridiculus" you guys played capture the flag? HAH. thats not as bad as playing frisbees! yep. that's right. our teacher made us play with frisbees. |
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Mar 14 2005, 06:55 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
talk about whatever. anything u two have common interests. gripe about the game, talk about whatever.
i'm still hungry.. |
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Mar 14 2005, 11:42 PM
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wow..ur story sounds just like mind!
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Mar 15 2005, 03:44 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212 @ Mar 14 2005, 8:32 AM) first step : take a deeeeepppp breath. you CAN do this! Second step: If its in pe just find a common intrest, I have this guy thats in my pe class that I just talk to about everythin' and we are good friends. Find a common intrest (May the convo starter most likely be sports cuz ur in PE.) Third step: Talk to him off an on. DONT BOMBARD HIM WITH THINGS. it will make you obvious, just like talk one day talk a little less the next until your comfortable enough to constantly talk to him Fourth step: Sit back and admire your handy work. Be patient, this may take time. <3  Wow, I have to agree that your situation really sucks. Honestly, I feel sorry for you. I absolutely hate PE, and the thought of *him* watching me play basketball is enough to make me sick. What you can do is try to wedge random conversation in between running the laps and hope that your hair looks presentable. 
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Mar 15 2005, 06:54 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(Eternally_Yours @ Mar 13 2005, 8:40 PM) you guys played capture the flag? HAH. thats not as bad as playing frisbees! yep. that's right. our teacher made us play with frisbees. hahah we had to play ULTIMATE FRISBEE....t'was the lamest class ever. also, another word of advice on "how do i talk to him." by opening your mouth
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