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 Mar 8 2005, 05:30 PM
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 Live Your Own Party  Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489  |
Okay.. this is kind of a weird story...... (If you're a homophobe, f*ck off.)
Sooo.... I had seen this one chick in the hall for a while. I always thought she was really really pretty. A couple days before winter break let out, I had come in late and braught a couple presents for my friends. My arms were full and when I walked into the lobby I like.. dropped all my stuff. It was kinda emberessing, but when I got down to pick it up, I looked over and saw this girl, Sky (I didn't know her name at the time), and she smiled. From that point on, every time I saw her walking down the hall, I couldn't keep my eyes off her. I mean, not only is she really really hott and beautiful, she's got her own funky style and I love that. Individuality has always been something that attracts me to people. So, my friend, Kalif, was talking about how he wanted to go to the dance with this one girl and he was describing her and stuff. And I was like "Ohhhh! That one chick who's got that really funky style but in a good way and she's hott." And he's like "Umm.. I guess." lol. So, basicly, they're friends but he also liked/likes her. He told her that I was bi and that I thought she was hott (which, I didn't mind because I said he could) and she didn't believe me so she IMed me. I confirmed it and she was cool with it. Now we're friends and I like her. I don't only think that she's hott. I also like her. Now... here are some problems................. 1. She's straight 2. My other friend likes her 3. SHE'S IN 6TH GRADE!!!! (I'm in 8th). I feel like a freaking petifile. lol. grrr... Just.... How should I get over her???? |
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Mar 8 2005, 05:31 PM
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Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Sorry for the double-posting but I gotta 'enable email notifications.'
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Mar 8 2005, 05:34 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
wow well ask her if shes BI because if you told me that you thought i was hott i would probaly be alittle freaked out so maybe shes BI also anyways two year diffrence isnt anything but just be carefull how you tell her , so you wont scare her off.
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Mar 8 2005, 10:22 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^i agree age doesn't really matter, but you should break it to her slowly cause it might just scare her.
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Mar 8 2005, 10:47 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
age difference: no biggie.
break it to her slowly. don't be like: i wanntttt uuuu... ask ur friend about it. o w/e. |
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Mar 8 2005, 10:51 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
haha well ... yeah... intersting . hrmm.... i dont really think u should try anything cuz shes straight and probally isnt interest o_O ; ... look for someone else? haha im stumped sorry ><;
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Mar 8 2005, 10:54 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
wow, you're brave for admitting that you're bisexual, props to you my dear
 you're not a pedophile, 2 years isn't that much of a big deal...if she's straight there's not really anything you can do about it, you can get over it 
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Mar 9 2005, 12:02 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,400 |
^^agreed.
there's nothing you can really do, unless you starts to like you back... besides, two years isn't a big difference at all. if it was 12 years of age difference, then THAT would be freaky. luckily, it's not. =) i think all you can really do is get over her.. |
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Mar 9 2005, 02:02 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
Turn her to a gay..
or just focus on other boy,girl. |
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Mar 9 2005, 07:29 AM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
QUOTE Turn her to a gay.. or just focus on other boy,girl. lol, I'd say bi..  But I would focus on someone else?. Duno?
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Mar 13 2005, 08:35 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,294 |
It sounds to me like you should leave her alone, or you might have some angry parents of that little sixth grader after you
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Mar 13 2005, 09:43 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^^ hahah that's kind of true. but maybe you should leave her alone for a while, i mean after all, she is a 6th grader and in a way, age differences between 8th graders and 6th graders are pretty big.
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Mar 13 2005, 12:46 PM
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Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Okay... Soooooo................... Little update on Sky. Well, just to make it clear, she knows I think she's hott. Yesterday she wasn't feeling very confident and said she was ugly and I asked her if I should list all the reasons I think she's hott and... she said I could so I did.
 She doesn't care that I think she's hott at all. When we chill and see each other in the hall, I act normal around her and I don't really treat her like I think she's hott because I don't like to freak my friends out by acting weird around them. But.....Last night, I was talking to her online and when she had to go she was like "xoxoxoxoxo" and I was just kidding and I said, "Prove it." She's like "I will." Now, being the little naive sixth grader she is, I didn't think she knew what I means so I said, "You don't get it.. I was coming on to you." She's like, "I know." My jaw dropped then. lol. I was like, "umm... Sky? Are you straight?" She's like "Yeah.. I think so." Imediatly after she said that, she signed off so I couldn't say anything back. So... yeah....... Now I'm dedicated to someone. I'm not dating her because it's a long distance thing, but we made a promise to each other that we wouldn't do things with anyone else. So yeah... We're practicly dating. I mean, I'll still flirt and stuff. But, my normally provocative attitude will not come out. Also, I don't think the two year age difference is a big deal. But, most sixth graders aren't exactly what you would call very... "matrue." But, Sky is different. She's very very mature for her age. So it's not that big of a deal. But, yeah...... |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:56 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
1.) age doesn't matter
2.) tell her that you like her..but then again....maybe her parents won't like it that they;re daughter is dating let along dating a guy who is two years older than her at that age. They'd think you're a pervert. And they'd be furious if they knew....but if you like her that much...go for it. |
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Mar 13 2005, 06:07 PM
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Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Mar 13 2005, 5:56 PM) 1.) age doesn't matter 2.) tell her that you like her..but then again....maybe her parents won't like it that they;re daughter is dating let along dating a guy who is two years older than her at that age. They'd think you're a pervert. And they'd be furious if they knew....but if you like her that much...go for it.  Umm... I'm not a guy.  
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Mar 13 2005, 06:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 726 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,137 |
This is interesting. Does your friend still like her? Maybe you should tell her that you really like her and see what she says.
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Mar 14 2005, 12:25 PM
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 I Am Elle Hear Me ROAR!!!!! Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,085 |
if ur bi n she isnt then u def. need to move on dont waste time on bein lead on...u deserve better most likely...n im sure she doesnt kno wat she is yet..ur gonna be a freshman soon like me...find older bi's...itll make the experience more fun most likely...lol...dont haste in grief if Sky doent like u..
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Mar 14 2005, 09:34 PM
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WONDERWOMAN? Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 |
wow. she's only in 6th grade. give her more time to figure out her sexuality.
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Mar 15 2005, 06:55 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
*its pedophile
and i think its pretty hard to say that you know your sexuality even in 8th grade, but definently NOT in 6th. just leave her be and find someone your own age
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Mar 15 2005, 07:00 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 13 2005, 8:35 AM) It sounds to me like you should leave her alone, or you might have some angry parents of that little sixth grader after you Good point. Sixth grade is pretty young to be dating anyway. And to come out as bi that young? I'm sure her parents would be angry and blame you. But I don't know her parents. I'm just guessing... |
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Mar 16 2005, 06:32 PM
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Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Mar 15 2005, 7:55 PM) *its pedophile and i think its pretty hard to say that you know your sexuality even in 8th grade, but definently NOT in 6th. just leave her be and find someone your own age lol. I knew it was pedophile. lol. Not really... But I duno why I spelled it that way.  But... Yeah.... I figure it's best to find someone older. Trust me, I don't want to like a 6th grader. It just doesn't feel right. But I can't help my feelings. I'm not falling for her or anything. Hell no... But, I really like her. Which isn't cool.....
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