Internet, Is internet relationships ok? |
 Mar 9 2005, 05:37 PM
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Theres this guy i met. Name is Paul. I met him through Xanga actually. Turns out he lives SUPER close to my house, should i take a chance and meet him? hes already my boyfriend and there a good chance we could end up not liking eachother afta!
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Mar 13 2005, 12:52 AM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
if ur gonna meet up with him go with a friend or something so your not alone
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Mar 13 2005, 01:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,606 |
no. dont go
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Mar 13 2005, 01:24 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
I'd be really careful. Over the internet, you can be whoever you want... Just don't go anywhere with him privately until you've seen each other more and established a trusting relationship. He may try to take advantage of you..
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Mar 13 2005, 01:36 AM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
get a few friends to go with you and tell him to bring a few friends. ^^
that way, everyone can keep their virginity (: |
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Mar 13 2005, 01:44 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
QUOTE(say_what_you_mean @ Mar 9 2005, 2:54 PM) Man that is kind of wierd. His already your boyfriend ? What the eff man.. you should at least meet him before you start a relationship. If you meet him bring someone with you.  Agreed. |
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Mar 13 2005, 01:05 PM
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 my pet rock doesn't like you Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,866 |
go to see him with a group of friends - preferably some guys included. This way you'll have some backup incase he does turn out to be a looney.
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Mar 13 2005, 02:50 PM
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You know, there are all those things about people being like 50 year old men trying to rape little girls thru the internet
And than there are the exceptions, like most the people here on Createblog. Seriously, if you really want to meet him, go with a big group of friends. And internet relationships are like flings, they die pretty fast. It's hard to really get to know someone over the internet... People usually have split personalities from their real, people personality and their typing personality. |
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Mar 13 2005, 02:59 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
you'll never know, it might be a 60 year old woman trying to rape you.
just meet up at a place where there's a lot of people. don't meet each other where both of you are alone. it's dangerous. |
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Mar 13 2005, 05:22 PM
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 it's just me Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,630 |
It's not a good idea. You have no idea if this person is really who he says he is. It's so easy to lie and make things up on the internet. I wouldn't meet him or anything like that, but that's just my opinion.
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Mar 14 2005, 01:39 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,268 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 10 2005, 6:57 PM) no sh*t he hasn't raped her, it's a long distance internet relationship, what can he do to her?  wow big deal, 3 years of telling some person over the internet, "i love you  how was your day baby?" and all the while that person is probably messing around with other people...i think it's just stupidLOL. He came to my house every weekend. WHat do you think? He is a good guy. Dont judge one by first impression.. first impression always decieves bitch. You think it's stupid cause you dont have the same feelings <3 |
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Mar 14 2005, 02:56 AM
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bring mace and a machine gun
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Mar 14 2005, 04:38 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
If you decide to meet him, don't go alone.
Personally, I wouldn't go coz it's really dangerous. |
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Mar 14 2005, 12:21 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
personally, I do not think it is a good idea. There are too many factors that could go wrong. Even if you think you know the person pretty well, the relationship is based on the internet, so there is no way of knowing the complete truth about that person.
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Mar 14 2005, 03:02 PM
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he's your boyfriend already and you haven't even met him.....ok a lil to weird for me so i am leaving now
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Apr 12 2005, 10:08 PM
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[quote=jordanriane,Mar 9 2005, 5:57 PM]
1.) If you think you two won't hit it off, don't borther. You've never met him before, and you're not really losing anything but someone you talk to, who claims that you're his [only] girlfriend. 2.) If you really do want to meet him, bring a guy friend with, and meet him at a public place, say a coffee shop, an eatery, or a mall. Never go to his house, etc. 3.) Bring a cellphone with, if you can, for precaution. [/quote] Thats exactly true Yeah best to be safe then sorry, make sure you meet him the day in a public place. You never know he could be some 60 year old biker guy. Be careful. [quote=wind&fire,Mar 14 2005, 2:56 AM bring mace and a machine gun [/quote] LOL 
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Apr 12 2005, 10:31 PM
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i went out with a girl be4 we met she lived close to me too we met on xanga and i found out that shes cousin in law with a guy at my school and so i met her at a school football game and our relationship lasted bout 2 months h
hmmmmmmmmmmm so go for it why not just be safe .:tony:. |
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Apr 12 2005, 10:33 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
he could be just pretending and maybe its a 30 yr old man behind the screen.. waiting for someone innocent to go *meet him* i hope u didnt give out any PERSONAL info.. maybe if u want you can call him but dont give out ur phone number.. u never know.. and if u can listen carefully.. i suggest u not to .. wht goes on the computer.. stays on the computer
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Apr 12 2005, 11:58 PM
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only if you thuink he really loves you and you love him...
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Apr 13 2005, 05:40 AM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
If I met someone on the internet I'd find it weird taking my friends coz well.. it's just weird
 As long as you meet in a public place with loads of people around and always stay in a public kind of place then you should be fine. If you do decide to meet him. |
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Apr 13 2005, 07:32 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
thats pretty dangerous. if he lives super close to you, do you know anyone that goes to his school or anyone that you know that could possibly know him? maybe you should ask around to see if anyone knows him because it could be extremely dangerous to just come outta nowhere and meet with him because it could just be one of those "online posers". be careful and if you really want to meet him in person, go with a few friends.
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Apr 13 2005, 10:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
thats the most dumbest thing ive ever heard of ... pshh people need a life if they do that kind of sh*t... thats just retarted
 -- i mean if you mean gf/bf things... if its just for being friends, sure.. but gf/bf things, then thats whole diff. story.....
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Apr 14 2005, 02:28 AM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
Whats wrong with meeting someone over the internet who happens to live in your neighborhood? You could have met him in the mall. It wouldnt make any difference as long as he's not from across the country. He have xanga. So you can read his entries. There is nothing he could lie about when talking on AIM. Its there on his xanga. So if you so desperately want to meet him. Go with a group of freinds. Perhaps to the mall and go shoppping together, get to know him better. That sounds like a safe idea right?
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Apr 14 2005, 07:24 PM
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u nvr know if that guy is a messed up freak sitting on the computer thinking about gurls and looking at porn! lolz
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Apr 14 2005, 07:46 PM
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 Litt0 Mi55 T@rA! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,734 |
i would say no...it's not safe....
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Apr 14 2005, 07:49 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
if you have seen him on web cam, I could see meeting him, but only if you have a lot lot lot of people with you. There are a lot of sickos out there. I have a friend I met thru the internet and I have known him for 6 years now, he wasnt a freak, but he could have been. just please be careful.
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