Brothers, He's juss soOo mean... Options

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

My brother makes me cry.. ...I don't just don't understand it...it's like he tries to be mean to me and torture me...I mean I try to be nice to him...but he either ends up yelling at me...throwing things at me...punching me...hitting me...and I juss wanna cry...cause it's like what did do to make my little brother soOo mad...I'm 14 and I'm getting pushed around by a 10...sometimes I think he might kill me one day...he needs anger managment cause he doesn't handle his anger in the right way...I kno to some people this might seem lame and why would yu let yur bro push yu around like that...I juss don't kno please don't say all this stuff and yell at me...cuz he already does that to me...and right now I'm crying cuz he juss smacked me in the face and is telling my dad all these lies and my dad doesn't believe either one of us...and it's juss a repeated cycle!!....*tears rolling down my face*....have yu ever felt like you try yur hardest to please someone but they juss can't be pleased...my bro juss doesn't want to get a long w/ me...and I try but all he does he lie and say I'm calling him names...and the thing that bothers me most is when he sits there and lie and says hes not lying....I hate him soOo much...

[*suddenly she*]

i'm completely with xd0rkette. go go go.

show some control. you > him.

[AngelTears]

Yes, punch him.. he needs to know who's incharge, and you are sense your the oldest.

That's sad though, I have a little brother, he wouldn't dare touch me though because he knows I could whoop his scronny little butt.

[blah1234567]

omg thats horrbile!!! wait...your bro is 10 and your 14?

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[WrathOfOnigo]

I know EXACTLY how you feel. You're brother is likethe clone of mine or something! Except my brother is 4 years older than me [17] hes really tall strong and i am so scrared of him . But with your little brother try as hard as you can to ignore/avoid him. When he does get annoying you smack the s*** out of him!!!

[dani41790]

o gosh thats so mean. i b*tch at my little bro if he starts pissing me off.

[nhj_2006]

my brother is 6 years older than me. couple years ago, we'll be fightin everyday over stupid things like food, computer etc. but now im more mature and i'll just leave him alone, i'll lock myself in my room and got my own comp and buy my own food.

[*mzkandi*]

sorry to read about your lil brother. i dont think your lame. even though your brother is younger than you, i can imagine it must hurt that he is mean to you all the time and shows you know love. have tried talking to your parents about your brother? also seeing that he is 10 you may just have to guve him time. i have a yonger brother two and sometimes when i was small i couldnt stand him, i use to wish he was never even bore, but now he is 19 and he is much more mature and LOVE him to death....

[Haruka]

It's not healthy that a 10 acts so violent. He should get some counceling or professional attention. Who knows why he is like that. (it may be somthing overlooked) If you really want to prove a point with your father, then get a tape recorder or an MP3 player with recording ability and record your fights and prove who did what when your parents ask.

Personally, I can't imagine hating my brothers or fighting violenty with them, even verbally. My brothers and I have always been pretty close, even though the one that is 1 year older than me PISSED me off sooooooooooooooooo bad sometimes when we were younger, I love him so much now =] . And the one that is 8 years older is such a sweety, he protects me all the time, and we can talk about pretty much anything.

I think that having siblings is such a great thing, and i feel bad for thoese who lose touch over the years, because it's your family, and sharing with your family is such a great thing. But even right now, sharing with your siblings is so nice, because they will always be there when you really need them.

[cherry_toothpast...]

i totally get what you mean!

i have a little brother too, and he can get *really* annoying. he can start fighting, but he's never gotten too violent.. he's bitten me before though. and he can get a bit crazy.. that's when i run to my room and slam the door.

try ignoring him, maybe? and when he starts to annoy you again, annoy the crap outta him with sweetness. or just try talking to him, and if you do, don't lecture him and make him feel small, but talk to him as an equal.

my parents don't believe me either. and when they do, they tell me that i could easily stop him from hitting me. they've got no idea how strong.

anyway, hope that helps!

[KELLYYY]

He needs anger management class. I don't know how it feels to have a younger sibling. =\ I'm the youngest out of my family, so yeah.

[iheartsimba]

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I completely get your situation...i've been there. except my brothers 16. I've never done anyhting to him either..yeah I guess tell your parents? mine don't do anyhting about it but atleast let them know whats going on. Don't let your brother push you around either. You have to step up and show him your older, your in charge, and you arn't going to let him push you around like that. Because he seems to think he's pretty tough. I would do that..if he wasn't 2 years older then me

[laur3nw]

He's only 10! Take control over him. Be strong and take action. Haha. I remember one time when me and my little brother got into a fight...he started throwing things at me and hitting me, but I fought back and he ended up crying. =X

[Shattered_Hope]

I think you need to umm...do something..like yell...or maybe give him a smack in the face or on the head..if you don't teach him a lesson now...he might think it's OK to do that to people and not think about the consequences. Show him that you can be mean..and then he'll stop making you cry and picking on you. He's four years younger than you...for God's sake....don't let him get out of control.

[misoshiru]

just stand up to him. show him who's "boss"

[justalanna]

I know kind of what you are going through. Same thing but with my younger sister (5 years difference) and I finally after all these years convinced my mother that she has a serious problem and needs help. She's always hitting, punching, throwing things, and just recently pulled a steak knife on me. It's like, where does she come up with all this? Where does she get all this energy. It was pretty scary, I actually left my house for a half hour and wouldn't come back until she had calmed down (my mom was still at work, but she was home by time I came back). If it gets any worse, when he's not around tell your mother or your father or both that you want to talk to them alone. Tell them how you feel and that you don't want to go through it anymore. Good luck. =)

[whomps]

I sorta have the same problem with my brother. You don't hate your brother, you actually love him. But he does shit to you that makes you want to kill yourself and it's bullshit. One day I was tired of his crap and pushed him and it became a fistfight that lasted for 2 seconds until my cousin stopped it.
Why do you just stand there? Aren't you tired of his bullshit? You're his OLDER SISTER, when he tries pushing you just shove his head against the wall. DO SOMETHING.
Does he ask you for favors? Next time he does just don't do it. Be like "Fuck that. I ain't doing jack SHIT for you."

I'm not scared of my brother. We're twins.