Do you compete?, when your crush starts liking someone |
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 Mar 11 2005, 09:44 PM
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No, I let them like whoever they want. I won't stop them. If he likes me, then cool. But if he likes the other girl, I'll be bummed, but I get over it.
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Mar 12 2005, 01:02 AM
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nope. i have never competed, but if the guy's really worth it, sure.
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Mar 12 2005, 10:54 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
QUOTE(laur3nw @ Mar 11 2005, 9:44 PM) No, I let them like whoever they want. I won't stop them. If he likes me, then cool. But if he likes the other girl, I'll be bummed, but I get over it.  thats what i was doing at first but then i was thinking of competeing so then i asked you guys on your opinion ^_^ |
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Mar 12 2005, 02:03 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i do..only it was my boyfriend not...some crush.
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Mar 12 2005, 09:34 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
yeah. if this girl likes the guy i like [as long as she's not like a good friend..] then IT'S ON BISNITCH! ;] you know how it goes.
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Mar 12 2005, 10:11 PM
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of course
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Mar 12 2005, 11:30 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
Sure. Challenges gives me more motivation. But if its a lost cause, i wont waste my time
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Mar 13 2005, 12:15 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Sometimes...depends on the person I'm supposedly competing for.
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Mar 13 2005, 12:50 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
sometimes but yea it really depends on teh person because sometimes there not really worth it
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Mar 13 2005, 09:57 AM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
hmmmmm.....*thinks to self* is my guy really worth it? yesssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Mar 13 2005, 02:16 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
sometimes...i start to hang out with him more
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Mar 15 2005, 09:49 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
omg!!!for some reason he doesnt like that girl anymore...yay!!! well i guess you guys dont have to help me out anymore ;)
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Mar 16 2005, 01:47 AM
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 Syaoran...kawaii... Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,627 |
I'm the kind who would just back off and then brood continuously over it...until i forget or until it becomes a fading memory...that's what i would do...but everyone is different...if you feel that you really can't cope with it, then talk it out with him...you don't want this period of awkwardness to drag out...if he says really likes the other girl then wish him all the best and start thinking of him as a friend...if he says he likes you then just kiss him...hehe
But whatever you do, just make sure that you will have no regrets, because 'What ifs' can sting you worse than a box jellyfish can...just think about it carefully...follow your heart (I know it's cliche...but cliches are appropriate too you know!) All the best! |
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Mar 16 2005, 11:06 PM
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 Chrissy:)***** Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,274 |
if he didnt like me i wouldnt try to change or anything
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Mar 17 2005, 12:04 AM
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ask him yourself if he lykes the new girl or if he still lykes you. if he lykes the new girl. try to move on but still keep your heart open to him. if he lykes you tell him how you feel so that its not too late.
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Mar 17 2005, 12:07 AM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Mar 12 2005, 11:30 PM) Sure. Challenges gives me more motivation. But if its a lost cause, i wont waste my time yeah, same here. I love a challenge 
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Mar 17 2005, 12:54 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Yes I do. Because I like the person and I become selfish and want to be with that person and also because it's out of jealousy or just because I don't realize that I'm doing it. But yeah, like others said, I like a challenge. It makes things more interesting. And I think you said he liked you before or something so if that's true then usually when people have liked someone a part of the feeling (whether big or small) is still there. So stick it out and COMPETE! haha
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Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
DUH you compete!! you dont just give up like that, at least put up a fight. i'm not saying fight nasty, i'm saying fight fair and win him over with your girlish charm.
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Mar 20 2005, 11:27 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i dont compete, because it would just make the relationship between me and my crush (this is a hypothetical situation) and he might start hating me for competing against his crush and making her feel uncomfortable or w.e. or he might just think that you're... err... possesive
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Apr 18 2005, 04:35 AM
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I just let it go if he likes someone else, but if another girl likes him, and I find her a threat, I let it be known that I want that, and for some reason almost every girl has backed off, they find me intimidating.
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Apr 19 2005, 01:12 PM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
Random people just come up to me trying to start a fight with me because some boy they like said he likes me. I didnt have a clue i was like i have a boyfriend! lol
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Apr 19 2005, 04:06 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(wind&fire @ Mar 9 2005, 8:24 PM) if he like some one else i give up.. if he doesnt like me now then hell never like me...and him liking someone else just confirms that he isnt interested yaya, I agree. but I mean if he still likes you than I would still try to flirt and stuff...like maybe he jsut likes you both, I donno..mayeb he's flirting and not realizing it, maybe he just wants to get to knwo her but he doens't really want a "relationship" with her. I'd give him some space but don't give up all together 
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Apr 19 2005, 04:17 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i dont compete but, i dont like it. he's gonna like who likes
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