i got this new boyfriend., and my best friend is a guy Options

[BrokenHeartsKILL...]

okay. yesterday i started going out with this guy. who i liked for a while now and my best friend jacob already knew about. well yesterday jacob didnt really talk to me at all. normally we spend hours talking a day. then this morning i got online and he was on and it was a wierd conversation. and normally when we sign off . its later BFF today he goes. later best friend. then at school. we sat together in lunch. and he just rested his head down and staired at me , looking into my eyes. after lunch we were walkign together, and like i saw my boy friend. i gave him 2 hugs and jacob stayed by me. my boy friend asked for a hug and walked away. then , jacob standing there i go ill see you after civics ! and he was like brittany and i was like yea and he goes can i have a hug ? so i gave him one.

i dont kno whats going on. but this is my first boyfriend i've had since last juy. when i wasnt even close with jacob. do you think these signs means he likes me? should i stay with my boyfriend til i figure this out with jacob. i feel him getting closer. but loosing him at the same time . what do i do ?

[EmmalieV]

it seems as if you kinda like jacob too but give your new bf a chance come on,,

[Aesirus]

They both want to have sex with you.

[DanielleMaria05]

I think your best friend likes you, and I feel that your kind of being selfish. Dont' ignore your friend just because your boyfriends around. I dont' care if you've never had a boyfriend. Friends first, boys second. Always

[Aesirus]

That way, boys will compete more for your attention, so you get both in the long run.

[heyyfrankie]

hello! duh! it is obvious that your guy-best-friend has feeling/emotions for you!
if he didn't, than he would be moping around the place begging/asking for affection from you. i mean this in the best way possible, your best friend needs to get over it. i mean, did your guy-best-friend make any kinds of signs making you think that he liked you? if he didn't, it is his fault that you got with anther guy.

[_sarcastic_]

hello! duh! it is obvious that your guy-best-friend has feeling/emotions for you!
if he didn't, than he would be moping around the place begging/asking for affection from you. i mean this in the best way possible, your best friend needs to get over it. i mean, did your guy-best-friend make any kinds of signs making you think that he liked you? if he didn't, it is his fault that you got with anther guy.

i agree
maybe he did show you emotions or hints of him liking you, but you just never noticed. but hey, you've got a bf already and you do like him right?

[YaWeaveIzOnFiyah]

They both want to have sex with you.

I think that you want your new boyfriend to qet jealous of you in a way, so you're acting real close to your best friend?

Give your new boyfriend a chance and don't give him the wrong idea.
Your best friend also may be developing feelings for you JUST NOW because he thought that before he could have you all to hisself because you weren't taken. Now that he sees that you have a boyfriend he feels like he lost something, and is developing feelings and trying to draw you back?

[Chii]

well...i think he's trying to protect you. he's your best friend he doesn't want you to get hurt, he's just checking out your boyfriend to see if there's anything wrong. he's a guy, he'll know these types of things. big whoop if he changed his goodbye thing on AIM, stop being so paranoid

and Aesirus will you stop doling out the dumb advice?

[*stephinika*]

hello! duh! it is obvious that your guy-best-friend has feeling/emotions for you!
if he didn't, than he would be moping around the place begging/asking for affection from you. i mean this in the best way possible, your best friend needs to get over it. i mean, did your guy-best-friend make any kinds of signs making you think that he liked you? if he didn't, it is his fault that you got with anther guy.

agreed. so just try to make him feel better, but he has to realize that he's only your friend so yeah...good luck.

[CUTEBUNNY160]

it seems as if you kinda like jacob too but give your new bf a chance come on,,

yeah what she said

[*instantmusic*]

okay. yesterday i started going out with this guy. who i liked for a while now and my best friend jacob already knew about. well yesterday jacob didnt really talk to me at all. normally we spend hours talking a day. then this morning i got online and he was on and it was a wierd conversation. and normally when we sign off . its later BFF today he goes. later best friend. then at school. we sat together in lunch. and he just rested his head down and staired at me , looking into my eyes. after lunch we were walkign together, and like i saw my boy friend. i gave him 2 hugs  and jacob stayed by me. my boy friend asked for a hug and walked away. then , jacob standing there i go ill see you after civics ! and he was like brittany and i was like yea and he goes can i have a hug ? so i gave him one.

i dont kno whats going on. but this is my first boyfriend i've had since last juy. when i  wasnt even close with jacob. do you think these signs means he likes me? should i stay with my boyfriend til i figure this out with jacob. i feel him getting closer. but loosing him at the same time . what do i do ?

ha. im in jacobs situation right now... yeah. he likes you. youre killing him. seriously seriously killing him.

[Skyline Drive]

Aw, I feel sorry for Jacob

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

I do to and i do think they want to have sex with you but yea know .. give the new dude a chance to spred his wings :-D

[AngelTears]

I think your best friend likes you, and I feel that your kind of being selfish. Dont' ignore your friend just because your boyfriends around. I dont' care if you've never had a boyfriend. Friends first, boys second. Always

Agreed. You shouldn't ignore your best friend since you have a boyfriend now.

He probably does have feelings for you, havn't you ever seen When Harry Met Sally? Guys and Girls cant be best friends without some sort of tension going on.

I dont belive that but it just kind of fit the problem.

[shortiiex]

Your BFF is either jealous or sick of the love or having a bad day and kepping a secret from you

[BrokenHeartsKILL...]

but you see. jacob; he is in love iwth one of my other best friends rachel. have been since like november. and i m maen today he like glabbed my wrist and was like you need to eat tody and like said pleas. he didnt grob them hard though. like a soft gentle touch. and like today. he wanted me to stay after and eat wit him and i was like sure okay ! and then he looked at me and was like nevermind got up and threw away his tray without finishing lunch was like what was that for. and he was like you gotta see bud. and im not ignoringjacob by any means ! but i use to like him l; and he knew that. and never did anything about that. then i stopped and stuff. ad everybody thinsk me and jacob are going out. seriously. and it gets annoying. and i relaly really like bud. my boyfriend, and im not ignoring any of them..

[someflipguy]

Signs are obvious the boy likes you...!!!

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Yeah, poor guy. he likes you

[sadolakced acid]

any guy who's best friends with a girl has at least considered the possibility of a romatic relationship.

[x shootingstar x]

guys have to stop being so shy and all that.. it's getting annoying. they should just say what they f**king want to say. giving mix signals aint nice. and you already have a boyfriend, he should just eff off. if he likes you, TOO BAD, because he already know before and didn't do a shit about it. If he doesn't like you, then ask him what's wrong or some shit.. just ask him what's going on and why is he acting this way.

it seems like you still have a lil bit feeling for him.. i'm not sure.. that's just what i'm thinkin by the way you said it.
i think he likes you, too.
i think you should sit down and talk to him about it, after that.. you sit down alone for a week or less or more.. and think about it.

[yukichan]

hello! duh! it is obvious that your guy-best-friend has feeling/emotions for you!
if he didn't, than he would be moping around the place begging/asking for affection from you. i mean this in the best way possible, your best friend needs to get over it. i mean, did your guy-best-friend make any kinds of signs making you think that he liked you? if he didn't, it is his fault that you got with anther guy.

i agree..

[dani41790]

its pretty obvious he likes you. i think its hurting him alot that you're going out with another guy

[gossipgirl]

so...
u liked yr frd.
and i feel u luved him
much more than your bf
come on,
give him a chance
love ya*muah

[BrokenHeartsKILL...]

hmm. maybe. but like today. i use to have his id card infront of my wlalet. but my boyfriend gave me his and i put his in front. and jacob saw that. and like he took his id card. and after i begged for it back he was like omay just hold on. and he wrote i love rachel on the back. but told me never to show anyone. and like last night h e was all like you have everything i want. someone u love and loves you back. and stuff. and hwen i was signing off. he goes. okay good night n sweet dreams . and i was like you to. and he goes "i love you bye" . and then today. he skipped class and hung out with me. it was wierd. and at lunch u just saw tears in his eyes. and he would never tell me why. its confusing. i use to like him. but now i find it a lil annying how he is acting like this. going up to my bf askign hwere im at and that he needs me . and stuff. and talkingto m bf online not telling me what they say. eh.