low self esteem:(, if ur a mean bitch, don't reply Options

[lila200098]

ok i have really low self esteem. not cuz i think im fat, but becuz i feel like i dont have real friends. like when we have to do something at school when u choose a partner or something, i almost never get picked by one of my friends. And, there's this gayrod boy in my class that is really stupid, gay, retarded, and gay. he pissed me off on purpose, and when i do something about it (if u no what i mean), then he tells and the retarded teacher really cares! how gay is that! "Angie, ur gonna get sent to the office if i hear u say that one more time!" uh! that ugly bitch! it pisses me off so bad i start 2 cry . expecially whenever my other friend are over there having a blast and im stuck with a dumbass. and trust me, i only cuss when im mad. so anyways, does and one no how to fix the self esteem prob and the gayrod prob? ps. If i spelt something out, dont point it out, just get a life:)

[Jasminluvsu]

i hav low self esteem 2.....cuz how my body is........i am flat chested and i hate it.....and im not really goin wit nobody so that makes it worse

[jennyjenny]

Hahaha, I have medium self-esteem.

Not that I care about my body or anything, I really can care less.

But it's the drama with my school and stuff.
I really feel like I have no friends and that like, everyone hates me. When we have partners, it seems like everyone already has their own little friends and I'm left out and get the person no one likes as a partner. The only friends I really have is like the poeple no one likes, and we're not all "omg, best friends!!" I really have no best friends.

There are guys in my school who annoy the heck out of me, but no one ever tells on each other. Whatever.

[potmonkeyjd]

I think the key to low self-esteem is relizing that everyone has it, Even friggin super models. Some things you can't change about your body. Just be glad that you have some things that other people don't (legs arms eyes) Be happy adn Proud to be who you are, In the whole entire world there is only one person who looks like you! Your unique, dont become generic like all the people on t.v. And as for your friends, sometimes you'll be sad when they're happy adn you'll be happy when they're sad Just Remember...
True Friends Will:

1. When you are sad - I will help you get drunk and plot revenge against the sorry bastard who made you sad.
2. When you are blue - I will try to dislodge whatever is choking you.
3. When you smile - I will know you've finally had sex.
4. When you are scared - I will rag on you about it every chance I get.
5. When you are worried - I will tell you horrible stories about how much worse it could be and to quit whining.
6. When you are confused - I will use little words.
7. When you are sick - Stay the hell away from me until you are well again, I don't want whatever you have.
8. When you fall - I will point and laugh at your clumsy ass.

[girlpower65]

I have two friends at school: One who I think is real and another whos betrayed me before so I cant trust her. Most of my friends are younger than me, and all but the two mentioned above live out of state. So I rely on IMing for cantact with good people.
And pretty much no one else in the entire freakin school likes me at all. Not one bit. Except for possibly, just maybe, this one boy. But thats another story. Anyway I am most CERTAINLY not one of the "popular" people, and I really dont give a crap. My friend says I have low self esteem because I say no one likes me. What she doesnt get is that its actually TRUE.
But anyway I just thought you'd like to know that some people have it worse off than you do.

[--x who0ps]

uhmm i cant help you on the low self esteem thing cause ive been working on mine for like 3 yrs now, and its barely improved. & its the same reason as you. not cause of my body or anything. my friends knows what to say to make me feeel soooo bad. so they do that when i accidently did something "wrong" or wtevr

but for your "gayrod" problem, why dont you jst tell your teacher that he keeps bothering you ? and ask for a seat change or something. do to him what he does to you (:
or ignore him cause most of the reason they keep bothering you is cause you care. at least thats what my mom says o_o?

[inthemudhole]

Stop using the words "gay" and "retarded" as insults.

And judging from your post, you sound somewhat conceited....and most conceited people don't have a real issue with self-esteem, so I say you're fine.

[cooki_2006]

Well low self esteem is common with teenagers and It is literally just a phase! I wish you all the luck...

[Nicolatofu]

maybe those people are considered your friends, but they don't find you interesting or very fun, so they don't want to get stuck as a partner with you. I'm not being a bitch, just stating possible reasons. Why don't you try talking to other people and getting other friends so you don't get stuck with the "gayrod"?

[iheartsimba]

aw =[

well I can see what you mean...a lot of..like "non ugly" people are sort of.."dorks"...just because of the whole issue of not having very many friends. You just need to take that extra step, and maybe meet a few people. I even used to be like that...but opening up is really the best thing you can do.

Oh and that Gargod kid or w.e...next time he does something just tell him to STFU and slap him.


..and how is she conceited for having low self esteem?

[Looow]

I agree with "Despise" (Brie). Yeah you sounds conceited so you probably don't have a low self-esteem.

Think of us as mean bitches. We could care less. =]

[EmmalieV]

Dont worry , life will get better. Trust me.

[michelina0kudelk...]

Count me in as a mean bith...sounds like you just want attention...seriously who calls people gay now, I know a lot of people that sound just like you they think they are all that and they are extremely sensitive thank god my friends aren't like that...I don't really care what anyone says....and that would be why I'm NOT depressed..

[michelina0kudelk...]

Count me in as a mean bitch...sounds like you just want attention...seriously who calls people gay now, I know a lot of people that sound just like you they think they are all that and they are extremely sensitive thank god my friends aren't like that...I don't really care what anyone says....and that would be why I'm NOT depressed..

[swe3ttemptasian]

I say find friends who make you feel like you're friend worthy...

[Shattered_Hope]

find new friends...or tell them the situation.

[ilauqh]

don't worry so much... things will get better. you don't really sound like you have such a low self esteem but i dont think you sound so conceited like others said. i have friends in my english class and we had to do a thing wit a partner and my good friend picked a girl she used to not like over me and i was really upset and had to work with some kid that needs a 'one on one' or whatever. and i had to do all the work myself so i complained to the teacher and she said i could work by myself, it was better that way. see if you can work by urself or if you are doing all the work, complain. even if the kid is annoying, try to stand together and don't yell at him and whatever so you get in trouble.

[HoodieObsessed]

i hav low self esteem 2.....cuz how my body is........i am flat chested and i hate it.....and im not really goin wit nobody so that makes it worse

wow, I didn't know ppl hated beign flat chested so much....

....I ahve low self esteem too sometiems, but not casue of my flat chest (I DO have a flat chest) but casue of my FREAKIN UGLY HAIR!! no oen understands either all my my freinds have gorgoues hair..everyone but ME...and osme arn't that pretty, it's jsut that, well, I am kidna good lookking with striaght hair, but with my own hair I'm ont he brink of UGLY...god it annoyes me...I dont' ahve the item to striaghten my hair for 30 minutes each day either, not to mention it burns my hair...grrr my life long sorrow..

...anyway, I bet this isn't helping much telling you about my problems, so, well, I don't kwon how to fix yours but jsut, I donno, be confident and don't worry if people don't chose you first, I'm sure your a lovely person and it's your freinds that have the problem, not you, be yourself, it'll make oyu feel better

[tarachangsays]

i have really low self esteem too. i've always thought i was fat (maybe kuz my family started telling me i was when i was about 8-ish?), but my friends tell me i'm not. i guess the way i work things out is trying to put aside my looks or faults. okay yeah i'm only 15. i'll admit i'm not the brightest person alive, but what i've noticed is..friends come and go. true friends are the ones you can be stupid with, without getting in trouble, you can joke around with, without them getting pissed off, you can make fun of eachother, without taking it too serious, you can just be yourself with, without having to change yourself for them. honestly..right now i say i only have maybe 5 true best friends. michelle (mishyerr) is one of them. she gives good advice. she's always there to guide me so maybe you can ask her? =) i'm always here if you need. i know you don't know me, but sometimes getting an outsiders opinion can help. you can leave me messages or AIM me. (tarachangsays) i wish you good luck. and for that a-hole. he's probably jealous of you. they always are........ lol

[Spirited Away]

It's all psychology. If you think you're worthless, then why should anyone else make the effort to look at you differently... unless they're nice?

It's not easy, but you have to believe in yourself. Flat chested or not, that's not going to hold you back from getting A's on your report card. What do physical imperfections have to do with how smart you are... or can be? If your shallow classmates really want to discriminate you based on looks, LET THEM. Why would you want to feed their egos by thinking that what they say is right?

Anyway, from what you're describing, I would have to agree with a few others that you're simply seeking attention. Looks isn't the only thing that matters in life. If you look bad, balance it out with brains or with some kind of skill. It's no use if you think you look bad and fail everything else because you're too focused on your looks.

[FireArrow]

Wow that person is really "gay" and "retarded", and you're getting taught by a retarded teacher? Amazing... Also.. why is your teacher still teaching if he/she's is an ugly bitch? I mean... a teacher cant teach if their "ugly"

Call me a mean bitch, then I'm gonna cry just like you

[xTINAA]

First off, stop using the words "gay" and "retarded" as adjectives. Also, don't call someone a bitch just because you didn't like their response (what your teacher said). And you do sound conceited in your post, acting like you're higher and mighter than others and therefore that kid is a "dumbass." Oh, and judging by the way you wrote your post, I can see why you don't have many friends. It's because of the way you act. I mean I wouldn't want to be friends or partners with someone who refers to everyone as a "gay retard". And the obvious thing to do is to get some new friends. And just because your so called friends don't pick you as their partner and you get stuck with someone else, doesn't mean they aren't your friend. Maybe you have a control issue and they know this so they don't want to work in a group with you. Maybe you don't work hard in groups so they don't want to work with you. Whatever the case, you should bring it up to them before you go complaining and ranting and saying they aren't your friends. And what grade are you in? If you are in middle school then WHO CARES? I promise you that the people you were friends with in middle school most likely won't be your friends in high school or will be distant friends. If this is high school, then it's the same concept because in high school friends fluctuate so much due to drama and crap. But yeah, anyways, just get new friends or talk to them then stop using "gay" and "retarded" as adjectives and your life will get better. Haha..

And you can call me a mean bitch; it's okay. I call myself a bitch too, because well we all are at some point or another.

[lila200098]

First off, stop using the words "gay" and "retarded" as adjectives. Also, don't call someone a bitch just because you didn't like their response (what your teacher said). And you do sound conceited in your post, acting like you're higher and mighter than others and therefore that kid is a "dumbass." Oh, and judging by the way you wrote your post, I can see why you don't have many friends. It's because of the way you act. I mean I wouldn't want to be friends or partners with someone who refers to everyone as a "gay retard". And the obvious thing to do is to get some new friends. And just because your so called friends don't pick you as their partner and you get stuck with someone else, doesn't mean they aren't your friend. Maybe you have a control issue and they know this so they don't want to work in a group with you. Maybe you don't work hard in groups so they don't want to work with you. Whatever the case, you should bring it up to them before you go complaining and ranting and saying they aren't your friends. And what grade are you in? If you are in middle school then WHO CARES? I promise you that the people you were friends with in middle school most likely won't be your friends in high school or will be distant friends. If this is high school, then it's the same concept because in high school friends fluctuate so much due to drama and crap. But yeah, anyways, just get new friends or talk to them then stop using "gay" and "retarded" as adjectives and your life will get better. Haha..

And you can call me a mean bitch; it's okay. I call myself a bitch too, because well we all are at some point or another.

ok um, i only use "gay and retarded" and all those other words cuz i was angry. duh. and maybe i feel like usin those words. and i do work hard. i pretty much do the whole damn project 4 ur info cuz my partner ussually doesnt wanna do nufin. . how am i concieted? i do not think im all that. i think that im average. im not a dork or anything. im just okay. everyone hates that kid and he gets on peeps nerves on purpose. he has friends and they're just like him. if i did, then i wouldnt be pissed. duh. and i can use any words i want to when i feel like it and i promise u, that is not the reason why i feel like this and to stop using those words does not make my life better. and the reason i didnt want bitches to reply was because i wasnt in the mood to read 15 million posts talkin about how dumb this post is or whatever. i dont have time 4 that. get a life.

[silver-rain]

Yeah, I have low self esteem too- and sometimes I feel like I have no real friends either. But sometimes, you just have to have more confidence in yourself.

[LoST SouL]

i have a low slef eseem as well ive been workin o it since i was 12 im now 17.. so idk i dun is it possible 2 fix a low self esteem?