Brothers, He's juss soOo mean... |
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 Mar 9 2005, 08:03 PM
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My brother makes me cry..
 ...I don't just don't understand it...it's like he tries to be mean to me and torture me...I mean I try to be nice to him...but he either ends up yelling at me...throwing things at me...punching me...hitting me...and I juss wanna cry...cause it's like what did do to make my little brother soOo mad...I'm 14 and I'm getting pushed around by a 10...sometimes I think he might kill me one day...he needs anger managment cause he doesn't handle his anger in the right way...I kno to some people this might seem lame and why would yu let yur bro push yu around like that...I juss don't kno please don't say all this stuff and yell at me...cuz he already does that to me...and right now I'm crying cuz he juss smacked me in the face and is telling my dad all these lies and my dad doesn't believe either one of us...and it's juss a repeated cycle!!....*tears rolling down my face*....have yu ever felt like you try yur hardest to please someone but they juss can't be pleased...my bro juss doesn't want to get a long w/ me...and I try but all he does he lie and say I'm calling him names...and the thing that bothers me most is when he sits there and lie and says hes not lying....I hate him soOo much...
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Mar 9 2005, 08:05 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
wow thats so mean
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Mar 9 2005, 08:11 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I know what you're going through- my brother is just like that. He's 2 years younger than me, but he's so much bigger, and he's really annoying. He can get really mean sometimes too, but he doesn't make me cry, unless he hits me, he just gets me really mad. Yeah, I hate my brother too.
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Mar 9 2005, 08:15 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
why are you letting yourself get bullied by your little brother??? he's FOUR years younger than you...
 as you said, your father doesn't believe either one of you so why don't you give your little brother a taste of his own medicine and kick his ass or find someone else to. i doubt that talking will help him, he needs a good ass whooping 
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Mar 9 2005, 08:17 PM
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Punch him.
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Mar 9 2005, 08:17 PM
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 you kissed my bliss away Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,695 |
~AWW MORGAN I LOVE YOU~I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BABE<<I LOVE U AND IM HERE FOR U. DONT LET HIM PUSH YOU AROUND>Put him in check & and prove to your parents that hes lying..BEAT HIS ASS LIKE I TOLD U TO!
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Mar 9 2005, 08:18 PM
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 Soft drinks are my high Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,149 |
My brothers like that too.
He's 9 nd hes skinny but he can hit real hard. My parents always believe me cuz they sa him hit me & throw a stone at me once. Once I started yelling at him and doing stuff like twisting his arm around his back (not really hurting him) he kinda eased down. You just need to stand up ferr yourself. |
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Mar 9 2005, 08:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Cmon, use the power of you pms-ing times to get back at him.
 Fight back! If he fights back, fight back even harder! Don't let him control you. |
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Mar 9 2005, 08:23 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
QUOTE(purestkiss101 @ Mar 9 2005, 8:17 PM) ~AWW MORGAN I LOVE YOU~I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BABE<<I LOVE U AND IM HERE FOR U. DONT LET HIM PUSH YOU AROUND>Put him in check & and prove to your parents that hes lying..BEAT HIS ASS LIKE I TOLD U TO!  haha mer. Like you told me, they're like little devils... 
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Mar 9 2005, 08:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
I think you should go kick his ass... seriously
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Mar 9 2005, 09:00 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
smack him in the head (hard) see what he does.... maybe he'll be scared of you from then on
 or you can give him a letter telling what you told us... it might work. and talk to your dad about it too
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Mar 9 2005, 09:32 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
sounds like a total dickhead that needs to be punched in the head. That'll set the little *bleep*er right...
Thank God my brother isn't like that. |
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Mar 10 2005, 01:01 AM
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Hadas Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,359 |
OMG I'M SO SORRY! thats really mean.
its awful how mean people can be...my brother is like that too, but not all the time. but he really does want to make me cry sometimes, so i know how you feel. i hope you feel better soon! |
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Mar 10 2005, 02:26 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
kick him, punch him.
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Mar 10 2005, 03:57 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
push him back. u'll win cuz u're older x] he has to get a taste of his own potion. n arent brothers/sisters supposed 2 hate eachother??
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Mar 10 2005, 04:00 AM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
I admit, thats how I am with my brother
 I would push him around and all that, but when someone starts messing with him its like oh hell naw! He fights back and stuff, but I still pick on him.Yeah, fight back, don't get pushed around by some 10 year old... |
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Mar 10 2005, 07:19 AM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
ok i have an older brother that doesnt even do that to me....but when he does SLAP HIM UPSIDE THE HEAD AND TELL HIM TO STOP...thats what i did to my older sisters and my little cuzions....if he hits you, hit him back, if he bites you, BITE HIM BACK....dont just let him keep hitting you...and if you dont want to do that....go and tell your mom or dad... theyll talk to them
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Mar 10 2005, 07:26 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
I'll tell you what my friend had to do. when her parents wouldnt listen to her (her brother was older, and he was like, the *perfect*child) she would just fight back. And I mean fight. It was sad, but you gotta teach him that he cannot get away with that kind of stuff. Make him cry. Make his sad. Its dicipline. You shouldnt have to teach it to him, but obviously its not coming from anywhere else. So its just like a kid has to learn that fire is hot and it hurts when you tough it, he needs to learn that when he hits, you'll hit back and it will hurt. I'm sorry that you have to go thru this. I'm an only child, so I never had to deal with it. BUt I suppose thats the best way. OR try and ignore him. This is also hard to do. But he gets some kind of reaction out of you, weather its tears or yelling or whatever...so try just ignoring him. Don't talk to him and avoid him. If you see him, walk in the other direction. Ignoring works well on little kids. Then see if maybe he'll be nice. And if he starts acting like a brat some more, ignore him for some more. just be consistent. So he understand the reactions for every action he makes. If he dislikes the consequences enough, hell learn not to do what causes them. Also, try sitting down with your dad when ur brother is like, in the bath tub or something like that, and talking to him calmly about it. Make it clear that you arent tattling on him, you just dont like how hes acting. See if your dad will try to pay closer attention to you two, and maybe he can interfere. Hope everything works out.
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Mar 10 2005, 08:52 AM
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 .:gossipgirl:. Group: Member Posts: 156 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,300 |
i think itz reali mean ~!
anyways, boyz are like that, leave them alone'' Love ya*muah |
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Mar 10 2005, 01:08 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(FoOd @ Mar 9 2005, 9:20 PM) Cmon, use the power of you pms-ing times to get back at him. Fight back! If he fights back, fight back even harder! Don't let him control you. basically come on hit him back , so what if hes a guy wtf...and tell your rents or guardians. |
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Mar 10 2005, 03:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,407 |
OMG my brother is like that too. Once he spit in my face because he ran out of things to say and he was really mad. Even things that doesn't involve him, he just goes crazy and starts throwing things at me. He hits me like I'm his punching bag. He always says really hurtful things like oh fatty and you so stupid, you're a waste of human flesh. He's acting like he's my father. And my brother is older than me so is that like child abuse? Anyway, I think you should tell a parent or maybe a school counsler. They have like these little anger management books. Hope things work out!
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Mar 10 2005, 04:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 527 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,735 |
Yea, my sister is like that, shes 11 and im 13. And she overreactes when i do anything. i waslicking a butter knife and she yelled at me. She annoys me and embarrases me. and i try to be nice to her when she hits me i dont tell mom but when i barely touch her she runs to mom and tells her some fake story and MY MOM BELIVES IT. I hate her. And she sent me this letter...
Well you know what you a-hole? f**k YOU!!!! Thats right i just said f**k YOU!!!! And i'll say it again you MOTHER f**ker who has nothing better to do with their lives then hang out with their so-called "friends" that are really just useing you to cheat off you and get good grades so they wont have to repeat 8th grade for the 5th time! so f**k YOU!!!! You know that all you think about all day is getting-it-on with you crush **************.. and right now you a-hole, your probely thinking: "that a-hole read my letter" well you know what... f**k YOU!!!! well i got some f**king news for you dipshit... he doesnt even know you f**king exist!!! So keep dreaming and maybe you be f**king lucky and have a 6th or if you lucky, a 7th grader ask you out you motherf**king, NIGGER, DIPSHIT, LARDASSEY, a-hole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hehe.. that was pretty damn good.. i just made that off the top of my head.. if you want to send it to any one you hate.. go ahead! lol. :P bty.. hope i didnt offend any one.. and i didnt mean that about you its just i wanted to send a hate letter to someone... :P And then she says shes sorry. I hate her. SOO MUCH. |
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Mar 10 2005, 04:46 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
awww, tha'ts so mean!! I have two older brothers, and I lvoe the one that 2 years older, jeremy, my pal
 he's so nice and caring a sweet and handsome and..right, this probably isn't helping.......as I was going to say, my eldest brother gets on my nerves sometimes, actually, all the time, but in a different way. He doens't lie or hit, he's more like a girl int he way he attacks me, lol. He hums ALL the time, plays horible peices ont he piano, tells me to do the dishes when I jsut aBOUT to do them (I never tell HIM to do teh dishes, blah) and then he insults the good job I did washign the table and he won't move stuff off teh table when he's cleaning it on cause it must be ALL MY STUFF (YA RIGHT) ...grrrrrr... hmpf ah well, I lvoe him anyway...even in his own perverted way  but my 16 year old brother is really sometihng...everyone should ahve a simbling like that, I really relate to him in a lot of ways, I'd probablby be like identicle to him if he was a girl, haha, yup. such a sweetheart....and that's not to say he never gets on my nerves, soemtiems he does, but not hat often, and never, ever, hits me or liek gets angry at me for no reason (some tiems he has reasons tho, lol) sorry I can't help you  maybe when your brother grows up a bit he'll be better
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Mar 10 2005, 04:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
you are the older sister...so smack the shit out him....be mean and tell him that...ot you will NEVER buy a bithday/christmas present to him ever
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Mar 10 2005, 04:58 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
me and my brother actually have a good relationship.
Smack him. Tie him down. And tell him who's boss.  .. or just be mean to your brother then. What goes around; comes around. |
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