Scared of being out in the real world?, That's been happening to me lately. Options

[Brneydgrl]

yeah, i posted that thing about not feeling your age. i know i'm only 20, i got 2 1/2 years left of college. and i'm just really really scared of leaving college.

all my life i've been waiting for my life to 'start'. i was really shy when i was younger, no friends, didn't go out. i still don't go out like i want. too busy or my friends are just as lazy or shy as i am.

just feel like your life stops after you graduate and you get a real job. like that's it, party's over. get into the 9-5 thing and before you know it your life is boring and you're 50

like ppl my age have all these stories to tell of ppl they know, things they did, parties they went to, etc. i don't have those stories.

it's really depressing, and really freaking me out lately that i have to get a job soon.

::le sigh::

[korbana05]

heck yes im afraid

im about to go to college and i still dont know what i REALLY want to be in life... i know ima major in pharmacy but i feel like thats not it... that im not prepared for life beyond these safety walls called home... :(

[inthemudhole]

I'm scared for my future.
I want to be in a band, but what if my band doesn't make it? - Then what do I do?

I don't even know what I want to do with my life, so I don't know which classes to start choosing. >_<

[imafreakinazn]

*thinks about it*
i guess that would be scary.
it's be a refreshing shock, i know that
being thrust into the world after like what, at least 16 years of school?
that'd be so......sudden.

[*salcha*]

yeah, life passes by really fast if you're not watching carefully.
i dont get out much anymore, thanks to my high school workload.
but hey, you still have 2 1/2 years left. get out there and have some fun.
it's not everyday you get to live life to to the fullest.

[*Azarel*]

The real world is going to kill all of us in more than just one way.
I think we're all afraid of the future to some degree; just some more than others.

[ItzOnlySydney]

yea. i wanna get into the magnet performing arts program at a high school here but there is no garuntee i'll make it in hollywood so many ppl don't....itz scray so what other classes do i take? i'm not shure. what am i qualified to do? i don't know. itz confusing and scary and i hate thinking about it.

[Just_Dream]

I guess it really depends.. Sometimes I do have cold feet about my decisions in life and where I'll be headed. It is true that we don't know what the future might bring, but don't lose hope. You never know.. you might find the job of your dreams! Sure sure, there's a chance you might go to a deadend job or get a high-paying (yet boring) job where you work 12 hour shifts.. But remember that you can always save up that money and go on vacations.. Or when you're older you can go travelling! My half sister works 12 hour shifts, but that doesn't mean she doesn't have fun. She goes to different places every few months and has people to take over at her work during the summer when she goes to Vietnam, China, etc. I guess it really depends.

I, too, lived a sheltered life. I am scared that I will have to make my own decisions and whatnot in the future, but I realized that there is so much MORE to life than that. I realized that I can also have fun too. It's all about maintaining and stabilizing your life, imo. Plan ahead, too.

[--x who0ps]

yeahh im scared ot the real world ! im frckn` shedding hairs here !
and im only in eigth grade *faints*

[Brneydgrl]

yeah, i'm too damn responsible

like i have a set schedule, and when i stray from that, i feel horrible.

i didn't go to my bio class cuz i was too tired, felt dirty all day

and tomorrow i'm driving back home to see my friend. i don't usually do that on weds. i don't have anything else to do, or homework, but i feel like i'm doing something wrong straying from my normal schedule.

i'm a dork

[*stephinika*]

i'm afraid and i can't wait at the same time...i'm still only 16 but i'm graduating next year...i can still remember my freshman year like it was yesterday...

[WhiteLotus*]

yeahh im scared ot the real world ! im frckn` shedding hairs here !
and im only in eigth grade *faints*

Yeah, me too.

I'm afraid of failure..and I'm afraid I'm just going to crash and burn after high school. I have VERY little common sense.

Plus I want my Mommy to make me dinner every night.

[toodlepops.]

yes, i'm scared.

[angel-roh]

Yeah it sometimes scares me too. Even though I'm still a junior at a high school and I still live with my family, but it worries me what will happen when I turn 18. It just scares me what's going to happen to me when I step into the new world that I haven't went.

[Nicolatofu]

Well, I still have a few years of high school, but it scares me to think what will happen. I already know what college I want to go to, where I want to live once I graduate, and what I want to be. But what if I don't get selected into the college i want? then I have to settle for some other college in some place where I'll be unhappy? it sucks to think that, but life is tough at times, and remember, it's not about partying or even being cool, because that won't make a difference in the real life.

[gelionie]

I've been scared of the "real world" since I was 11... I can't really see a very clear picture of my future. I'm trying to do some planning beforehand but it doesn't seem to help much.

[micron]

yeah, i posted that thing about not feeling your age. i know i'm only 20, i got 2 1/2 years left of college. and i'm just really really scared of leaving college.

all my life i've been waiting for my life to 'start'. i was really shy when i was younger, no friends, didn't go out. i still don't go out like i want. too busy or my friends are just as lazy or shy as i am.

just feel like your life stops after you graduate and you get a real job. like that's it, party's over. get into the 9-5 thing and before you know it your life is boring and you're 50

like ppl my age have all these stories to tell of ppl they know, things they did, parties they went to, etc. i don't have those stories.

it's really depressing, and really freaking me out lately that i have to get a job soon.

::le sigh::

haha parties are overrated..

im a sophomore as well, and im actually excited what the real world might offer me. its more about actively making your life the way you want it to be rather than sitting back and waiting for it to hit you.

[misoshiru]

i'm scared. i'm scared of graduating from hs actually even though i hate school. i'm in denial.

[ElusiveDreams]

It's ironic that when I was a teenager I couldn't wait until I was grown and out on my own. But now that I am grown, I wish I was still a teenager with less resonsibilities.

[EmmalieV]

actually i cant wait , im dying to get out into the corporate world , pick a career that you will be sure to follow it will make your life much easier and understandable.

[lovescream]

I'm scared just thinking about growing up and becoming an adult.
what if I don't even make it to college? What if I live to be like poor.. and can't handle my taxes and can't handle the house?

Just thinking about me.. eh.

[to-devastate]

I still have like 5 more years till going to college. But yeah. I don't want to graduate and leave all my friends behind. Besides, I don't know what the heck I'll do in life.

[xSTEPH]

I cant wait to get out of this house. Im not scared at all.