Does it mean that its over..., if i stil think him |
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 Mar 6 2005, 09:39 PM
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When you say you are over somebody, and you still think about them. But when you think about them, you don't have any feelings at all. That person just POPS in your mind. Does that mean that yuo are not over thet person?
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Mar 6 2005, 09:44 PM
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 Huggles for Everyone! Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,606 |
It probably means that you're not over them. But it takes a while. It took me 2 months to get over my crush when I decided he was a total jerk.
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Mar 7 2005, 02:32 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,337 |
When you are "over" someone, you dont here them in yur head, or have them come into your head. The only way they would get "into" your head is if yur made yur head thing like that. XD no sense...it just means yur not oer them.
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Mar 7 2005, 06:16 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i dont' think you're over him yet, give it time
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Mar 7 2005, 02:01 PM
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Miss Lia Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,759 |
If your still thinking about someone even if no feelings are involved, then you probably are not over them all the way. It took me so long to get over my ex-boyfriend of 4 years, and I am still working on it because we are still somewhat friends, and I have to deal with him, and his shit sometimes, but I have a new boy, and I am happy, so when I think about my ex, it's normally because I think of all the stupid shit he has done to hurt me, or because someone started talking about him, and that is when you see my pretty eye rolling going on.
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Mar 7 2005, 02:27 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
well you probaly are if you think you dont have any feelings for that person.
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Mar 7 2005, 04:07 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i think your over him cuz ur not feeling n e thing. u care about him but not so much as some u wanna b with but as a friend. they're just memories. its ok to think of memories but i think ur over him. well thats my opinion
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Mar 8 2005, 12:42 AM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
depends.. i mean i think of alot of ppl all the time (;
and i definately dont have crushes on any of them. so it depends, maybe you`re jst forcing yourself to think you`re not feeling anything. or perhaps you jst dont feel anything. lol.. does that make sense ? |
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Mar 8 2005, 12:46 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
believe me, u're over when u dont have feelings for that person
 . common sense? i think so.
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Mar 8 2005, 02:35 AM
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 i <3 giraffes & hamsters Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 |
[FONT=Arial][SIZE=2]oo this kinda applies to me. anyways, i don`t like my ex anymore but i still think about the times when we were together, so i`m not over him? i don`t know.
i think you just miss the memories |
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Mar 8 2005, 03:45 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Mar 8 2005, 5:07 AM) i think your over him cuz ur not feeling n e thing. u care about him but not so much as some u wanna b with but as a friend. they're just memories. its ok to think of memories but i think ur over him. well thats my opinion I agree with you. While you were in the relationship, he probably pops in to your mind a lot everyday. Now that you've broken up, you probably just think of him out of habit. As long as you don't feel anything when you think of him, you should be well over him. Here's an example of not-over-him-yet: You think of him. Your stomach tightens. You wonder what he's doing right now. Over-him-already: You think of him. You stare blankly at your pencil. You continue to finish your English homework. I think of a lot of people everyday. And I do not have crushes on all of them. Sometimes, I just think of someone.. and analyze them in my mind and stuff. If that makes any sense. |
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Mar 8 2005, 08:48 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
yea my ex jus pops into my mind at stupid times n i most definately do not like him
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Mar 8 2005, 09:25 PM
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QUOTE(K!$$ @ Mar 8 2005, 12:45 AM) I agree with you. While you were in the relationship, he probably pops in to your mind a lot everyday. Now that you've broken up, you probably just think of him out of habit. As long as you don't feel anything when you think of him, you should be well over him. Here's an example of not-over-him-yet: You think of him. Your stomach tightens. You wonder what he's doing right now. Over-him-already: You think of him. You stare blankly at your pencil. You continue to finish your English homework. I think of a lot of people everyday. And I do not have crushes on all of them. Sometimes, I just think of someone.. and analyze them in my mind and stuff. If that makes any sense. i completely agree. so it really depends. |
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Mar 8 2005, 10:02 PM
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 Why is life such a burden? Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,737 |
That could mean u MIGHT still have feelings for him...it took me a long time just to get over my past gf when we were over...i always said i hated her...and thats how i wanted to feel about her...but...my HEART told me otherwise...and after awhile, i realized i still loved her but i never bothered to talk to her because i felt i lost her for good...but we eventually started talkin again and after a few days after we started talking again...we got together again...ya i know its weird to get back wit your ex but i still did LOVE her...and she told me she did too...
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Mar 8 2005, 10:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
you still might not be over him yet
it'll take some time...i mean when i tried to get over my crush because he got a gf, the next day i was falling for him sooo hard don't force yourself to get over him, you will naturally and eventually get over him |
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Mar 8 2005, 11:00 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i can't believe that so many people said that it means you're not over him
 my god, you have no feelings for him and he only pops in your head once in awhile QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Mar 7 2005, 4:07 PM) i think your over him cuz ur not feeling n e thing. u care about him but not so much as some u wanna b with but as a friend. they're just memories. its ok to think of memories but i think ur over him. well thats my opinion i agree with this you're supposed to remember good things, no one wants to forget a happy memory even if that part of their life is in the past. your mind wanders, you can't control it, besides, he used to be your boyfriend, you can't really forget him |
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