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 Feb 25 2005, 11:29 AM
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that typing of thinking will kill your relationship..because it gets annoying to the guy after while...we hate it when you girls put yourselfs down espcially if your our girl.....
 just try and be yourself and try and be comfortable around your boyfriend...you don't have to impress him everyday you see him lol...it's not a test.... |
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Mar 2 2005, 10:42 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
hahahha "impress him every day you see him" hahahah
i guess i should feel better.. and i do.. thanks everybody! |
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Mar 3 2005, 02:45 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Ive never felt that way but if he says he loves you , then dont push him away.
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Mar 3 2005, 09:26 PM
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yeah what someone said on a page back or so, its the inside what counts ^_^
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Mar 4 2005, 12:52 AM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Dec 25 2004, 10:05 PM) Well. I guess it's just a case of low self-esteem. Does he think you're too ugly for him? If he does, get rid of that bastard.  LOL, ha, I found that funny. Sorry this is seriouse *puts on seriouse face* 
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Mar 4 2005, 12:57 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
QUOTE(x shootingstar x @ Dec 25 2004, 7:02 PM) your bf you knoe he likes hot girls (and yes every guy is shallow) and all that before he liked you. the reason he liked you was becaues you are the only one who can really talk to him and stuff. yall have things in common. after yall go out.. you really love him. Yet, you feel that you're not the type he wants.. and yall talk about this. You told him how you felt.. and he said that he loves you because of who you are. This is the problem.. these days.. i feel that i'm too ugly for him.. and all those things.. i feel that i'm not good enough for him or anything. sigh* plz tell me what to do.. Nobody's ever not good enough for someone. But the point is that if he dosent love you because of you then dump his ass. And if you keep feeling like that just try to talk to him about it. |
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Mar 6 2005, 02:06 AM
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 iMmA reAl gUrL Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,191 |
not the same problem for me mai bf loves me for everything i am mai looks mai way mai attitude he doesnt care...he can talk to me about stuff and he can also relate things ..... he just doesnt care if i have a bad hairday ....therez always sumthin good inside of a grl...he always says...he loves me for who he is and i love him for who he is...i just have to deal with it...
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Mar 6 2005, 12:15 PM
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 you kissed my bliss away Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,695 |
If he says he loves you for you..Then accept that>>your apperance and personality makes you yu<<
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Mar 6 2005, 12:28 PM
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 1000 Words..Have Never Been Spoken Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,204 |
erg! well..i can sorta relate. I told my guy that I was gunna get braces soon and I asked him if he would still like me, and he said "We'll see." i got sooo pissed, now I'm beginning to think he doesn't like me for me, just cuzza my loox
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Mar 9 2005, 12:02 AM
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Heart | broken -Once again. Group: Member Posts: 260 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,092 |
i hate guys like that!
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Mar 9 2005, 02:59 AM
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QUOTE(x shootingstar x @ Dec 25 2004, 7:02 PM) your bf you knoe he likes hot girls (and yes every guy is shallow) and all that before he liked you. the reason he liked you was becaues you are the only one who can really talk to him and stuff. yall have things in common. after yall go out.. you really love him. Yet, you feel that you're not the type he wants.. and yall talk about this. You told him how you felt.. and he said that he loves you because of who you are. This is the problem.. these days.. i feel that i'm too ugly for him.. and all those things.. i feel that i'm not good enough for him or anything. sigh* plz tell me what to do.. you know what, sometiems I feel exactly the same way, except the difference is I don't have a boyfreind, but tha'ts beside teh point. Somtimes I really feel like I'm the ugliest person in the world, and I sjtu can't stand looking at myself and I go into deep depression fro a day etc. lol, I'm pathetic. anyways, it's all low selfesteem, even the ugliest person can think they are pretty, or at least like themselves for who tehy are, and know what's inside counts most. WhatI finds cures my depressions is dressign ymself up in my best outfit, straightening my hair, putting on a bit of makeup, and shaving my legs. not joking. I dont' usually shave my legs so it jsut makes me FEEL pretty. jsut looking at myself after that I realize I am pretty, even if my face is too wide, my eyes are too close together (everyone denies that except me, lol, I'm vain) and my nose is jsut a tiny bit too big. suddenely I see pats all that, and all I'm seeing is the good stuff on my face. like my smooth skin, my beautiful fair complexsion, and the nice shape of my face when I tilt it to the side. another great cure is...SMASH ALL THE MIRRORS IN YOUR HOUSE lol, that was myt freinds suggestion...havn't tried that one yet 
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Mar 9 2005, 06:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
yea guys are goin to be like that...but not to be shallow or nething...I'm hot myself soOo I wouldn't kno...I'm prolly the guy in this situation...
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Mar 9 2005, 06:57 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
^ stuckup?..
anyway, aww don't worry about it, because i think thats great that he loves you for your personality. and if he cares so much about looks and you are supposidly to "ugly" for him, why would he be going out with you! he has to think you are pretty cute =] when people look in the mirror, they see their imperfections way before their perfections |
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Mar 11 2005, 02:11 PM
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this other guy and i.. we were never "official." we never really wanted to because we're in different grades and all. he doesn't have same ethnicity. i never really cared, but my parents did.
 we knew that in the future we'd almost never see each other.. and i just didn't want to hold him back from people he'd find later and maybe like more.to many girls, including me, he passed with flying colors in the beauty meter and i. didn't. so i guess i could relate to you, in terms of self esteem and such, maybe? we were "unofficially" an "item" for almost a year. we hadn't seen each other for ages and he found another girl. who dumped him after a month. fun memories, eh? i don't know, we're still really close friends who can talk about almost anything, because we've got all these things in common. i just don't want to keep him caged.  enough of me.. if he says he loves you, then believe him. don't repeatedly ask, because it'll get annoying. it's a trust thing. |
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Mar 11 2005, 08:30 PM
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 Hey my name is Jessica. I'm abnormally happy! Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,911 |
If he really, truly loved you, he wouldn't compare you with others. He'll love you for who you are in the inside. Not on the outside. (not saying that you're ugly.) But guys like that are hard to find.
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Mar 11 2005, 11:01 PM
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 i am mrs. brock <3 Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,456 |
i was looking on my friends xanga and this is what i found:
QUOTE The Perfect Guy~ He wants to hold you instead of make out with you He calls you beautiful instead of hot He leaves you notes in your books telling you how much he loves you As soon as he leaves, he calls you and tells you that he already misses you He takes less time in the mirror than you He thinks you are just as beautiful even when youre at your worst or without makeup on He always opens the door for you He would do anything in the world just to make you smile He always shows you off to his friends He doesnt try to buy your heart He shows up with flowers on a random day. You asks why. He says just cuz. For valentines day, instead of spoiling you he dedicates a song to you on the radio(although a flower or teddy bear would be nice) He admires you when you prove him wrong He stays up with you until 3 in the morning on the phone when youre crying Why can't all guys be like this? so so true |
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