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baybeexlien
post Mar 5 2005, 10:00 PM
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ok two guys just asked me out and i dont know who to choose, and i both told them ill give them an answer later, and i both like them both!. HELP PLEASE!

guy 1: he is cute, but then he is not that type of person i could talk anything with him. like if im crying i cant call him and tell him why, hes just not the type of person i could connect with

guy2:hes not cute at all, but i could talk to him about anything (its the exact oppsite as above) and he has a great personallity
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 10:03 PM
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well i think you should go with guy 2, it's better to go with someone who can connect with you, then go with some one that's only cute, but you both have nth in common.
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 10:04 PM
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i would go with guy 2...
and so would any girl in the right mind.
don't be so shallow...
looks aren't everything.
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 10:32 PM
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well it depends. i dont mean to sound shallow, or mean or anything. but there are some people who i think are horribly ugly, and it scares me to look at them. i avoid them at all costs. itf guy #2 fits in this category, i wouldnt pick him. but i also wouldnt want a guy i cant talk to..so if hes not scary looking, i would pick guy#2. i can deal with ugly..but not scary ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 11:23 PM
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You kinda make it sound like we should pick number 2. =)
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 11:36 PM
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If you pick guy one... you're shallow... but HEY, if it means you can hang on the arms of a hunk... go for it.

If you pick guy two... you're not going to be bored with anything he has to say... but if he's really ugly... then you're going to have a hard time showing him off to your friends....

Pick no one and live a sex-free life.

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post Mar 5 2005, 11:41 PM
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if guy two isn't extremely ugly i'd pick him... definitely.
 
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post Mar 5 2005, 11:57 PM
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Well I would pick guy 2- it's better to have someone you feel comfortable talking to and around than someone that you don't. And anyways, after a while, he'll look cute in your eyes.
That was like me- my ex was hot, but not someone I really connected with. My current boyfriend, I didn't really think of anything of him, but we were able to talk about anything, and now I think he's the hottest guy I've known.
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 01:54 AM
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Did you change your avator, fae? o_0

Don't pick any. If you're unsure, you don't like any of them.
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 03:36 AM
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guy two ! whats the point of a boyfriend if you cant even talk to him ?
i mean would you make a regular friend if you couldnt even relate to them? couldnt start a convo with them ? couldnt even talk to them ?
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 03:46 AM
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i'd say good personality before looks n e day


before.. i mostly liked guys for their looks... even WITH them being nicne n all that...

but the guy right now.... he sin't cute ...nor hot....but hes soo ncie n funny n all of that...n thats what caught me... i told him i liked him...n he said he did tooooo=)
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 09:17 AM
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It's not fair to guy 1 to let him think you really like him for who he is when really it sounds like your just in it for his looks. Guy 2 sounds ideal, except for the looks. For me, I usually find that if I like someone, then they are good looking no matter what. Í can't help it.
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 01:24 PM
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I wouldn't go w/ either one of them cause I would wait till the guy w/ both characteristics would come along...but if you realli need to choose pick guy number one...and you never kno maybe his true side will come out and you'll be able to see that!!!...but don't always go w/ what is easy I wouldn't want a easy relationship that is all laid out...but if you wanna be on the safe side choose guy number 2!!!...hope I helped girly!!!.... _smile.gif
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 09:24 PM
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guy 2.
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 09:38 PM
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guy 2
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 09:43 PM
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I would say guy #2. Okay he might not have the "look" but atleast you can conect with him and know that when you need someone to talk to he will be there. Who knows eventually you'll find the cuteness in him, LIKE think he is good-looking. biggrin.gif
 
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post Mar 7 2005, 07:05 AM
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how about, neither.

cause u like both of them. so its not fair to either one. to find out that u said, "i'll give u an answer later." and then have them find out u decided to go out with someone else.

i'd pick guy 2 tho in ur situation.
 
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post Mar 7 2005, 11:23 AM
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man ur dumb haha. sorry. who to pick to be my boyfriend....? The guy who looks good but i cant connect with at all or a guy that isnt as attractive but he will be there for me when im crying and need someone to talk to and someone i can connect with,.. i wonder...
 
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post Mar 7 2005, 01:42 PM
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Pick number 2, looks aren't everything. If you have a connect with the second guy, that should be your pick.
 
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post Mar 7 2005, 03:56 PM
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trust me u'll find the good looking side of guy two if u get to know him better. u dont have to be attracted to him. attraction isnt love or caring even. it's just...pple getting it on u know? n there's no point in being with guy 1 if u cant even connect with him n be comfortable around him.
 
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post Mar 7 2005, 08:58 PM
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Obviously guy #2..because..Looks f a d e..
 
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post Mar 7 2005, 08:59 PM
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Guy #2...looks shouldn't compare to emotions. If you want a boyfriend who you just have for the looks, but you can't confide in him for emotional support then why have him?
 
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post Mar 7 2005, 09:01 PM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Mar 7 2005, 11:23 AM)
man ur dumb haha. sorry. who to pick to be my boyfriend....? The guy who looks good but i cant connect with at all or a guy that isnt as attractive but he will be there for me when im crying and need someone to talk to and someone i can connect with,.. i wonder...
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Ur dumb? What the f**k? You don't even know the qirl. Shut the f**k up before you start sayinq shit about people you don't KNOW, dumbass.
 
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post Mar 7 2005, 11:15 PM
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QUOTE(espionage @ Mar 6 2005, 1:54 AM)
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post Mar 7 2005, 11:36 PM
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QUOTE(baybeexlien @ Mar 5 2005, 10:00 PM)
ok two guys just asked me out and i dont know who to choose, and i both told them ill give them an answer later, and i both like them both!. HELP PLEASE!

guy 1: he is cute, but then he is not that type of person i could talk anything with him. like if im crying i cant call him and tell him why, hes just not the type of person i could connect with

guy2:hes not cute at all, but i could talk to him about anything (its the exact oppsite as above) and he has a great personallity
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If you pick guy 1 then your really shallow... But if you pick guy number 2 you could have a more intimate relationship... Theres no point in choosing someone over looks...
 
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