what would u do? |
 Mar 4 2005, 03:33 PM
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 i love you <3  Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,884  |
 well this story is a lot longer then this but ill try to make it short...i was going out w/ this guy named kevin and we went out for like 5 months or sumthing and then he broke up w/ me and we didnt talk for a lil while then he said he liked me and wanted to go out w/ me again....but then he said he was confused and didnt really want a relationship..so from then we were just friends..i guess.. but i really liked him and now he comes over all the time and we like make out and stuff and we talk on the phone all the time but i dont knoe if we are just like friends w/ benifits or wat...and i would ask him..but i guess im just afraid..my friends just keep telling me to give up but..i duno...hes driving me crazy.. wat would u do if u were in this situation?
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Mar 4 2005, 03:37 PM
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you ask him. duh.
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Mar 4 2005, 05:16 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I wouldn't be in this situation period..
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Mar 4 2005, 05:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,598 |
wow...just ask him...cuz thats kinda...weird..
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Mar 4 2005, 06:34 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ i agree.
no harm asking him. |
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Mar 4 2005, 06:50 PM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
1. Ask him.
2. Stick with being friends. |
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Mar 4 2005, 11:03 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
ask him magdammit. or he could just be using u cause ur actually willing to go along with it. hope u don't get hurt or anything tho.
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Mar 4 2005, 11:11 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Well, if I were you, I'd ask him. That's what I did last night with my, what I like to call, "hook-up." Yeah... I don't really like him too much like that. But, he's my boy toy.
 Plus, I had fun with this other guy at the movies tonight. 
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Mar 5 2005, 02:19 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 4 2005, 11:03 PM) ask him magdammit. or he could just be using u cause ur actually willing to go along with it. hope u don't get hurt or anything tho.  Wow.. again, I hafta agree with dahding on this. He took the words right outta my brain. |
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Mar 5 2005, 02:23 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
one of my best friends went through this kind of situation..
i suggest you ask him straight away.. if he says no to having a relationship with you again then ask him wat the hell have u been doing? (the making out thing) like wats it supposed to mean? it only shows disrespect for him to come over when he wants to make out with you n ur jus 'friends'.. im not saying he's completely taking advantage of you but dont let him get used to it if u guys arent in a relationship. he's just playing with ur mind n feelings =/ if he's not ready for a relationship then tell him not to be in one and confuse you into wanting to be in one. he'll just drive you nuts and you'll get hurt in the end trust me.. good luck lemme know how it goes k? 
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Mar 5 2005, 12:46 PM
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i love you <3 Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,884 |
thanx guys 4 the help
...i think ill just ask him
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Mar 5 2005, 01:24 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Making out!? Dude, if you're amking out with him, you two aren't just "friends". Ask him, period.
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Mar 5 2005, 04:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
why does he all of a sudden want you back anyway?
ask him that ... and if he has a good reason then yeah don't give up. |
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