"do you like me?", why you can't just say that Options

[expoised]

everytime i'm stressing out over whether a guy likes me or not, guys always tell me to just go ask him "do you like me?"
and when i'm like "NO!"
they're like "what's the worse that can happen?"
and i'm like "HE'LL SAY NO!!!"

and to tell you the truth, i'd rather spend the rest of the week or month infatuated with this certain guy and playing out whether he likes me or not in my head, rather than hear from him flat out "no". even though he might say yes... if there's a chance that he'd say "no", i wouldn't take it.

and anyways... that's not the worse that can happen!! if he says "no", i'd be embarrassed to death that i asked and i'd probably turn all red and try to brush it off, and in doing so, make myself seem like a complete idiot. it'll probably make me lose all self confidence.

so yeah... why you (or anyone who can relate) CAN'T just go up to a guy and ask him whether he likes you or not.

[LittleLulu]

yesterday .......yea he found out from my friend.
n i confermed it online
n his answer wasn't clear....its still 50/50 hhahaha it was weird
but we're still friends, even after this long ass akward conversation XD
but yea...........................i guess it COULD have been worse.

[aznhunnie6o1]

I can tell a guy I like him just like that. I'd rather have him know that he likes me and maybe if he liked me back, he'd be able to ask me to be his girlfriend rather than having him might like me and not tell him and let him slowly loose hope of ever going out with me.

What I did with my current boyfriend was we made each other guess who we liked and we gave each other clues.

[pink_tootsie]

i can totally relate right now, cause im kinda 'infatuated' with this guys for the past month or so and i just fear that he'll say no and reject me like a loser, you know?...what a shame it is but im just too shy for it right know..lol

[nevernothere]

I don't know. There's these 2 chicks that everyone says likes me, but I haven't the guts to even ask them if it's true. *looks embarrassed*

[StarlitxFrosT]

actually I did just that. lol
i was straight forward. He admitted to liken me so it worked out fine.

[mistaken_identit...]

Yeah, it's real hard. But when your emotions get real strong I guess you'll tell the guy that you like him. Well, I did. I felt like if I didn't then I wouldn't have a chance cause he might just be feeling the same way as I have.

It wasn't great though, I asked him who he liked and he was like 'nobody'. There were a couple of awkward moments after that but it sort of got the same (like before) after a couple days. It's screwing me up......I still don't know the truth and I'd LOVE to have the courage to go up to him and ask him straight away.

[annxmakoolet]

a lot of my guy friends actually like it when a girl goes up to them & tell them that she likes em. hahah but then again, maybe my guy friends are just weird

but yep, this situation is very hard.

[y0urelectrikk]

haha your the same as me.. I think its more fun to wonder if the guy likes you, than asking him. Thats kinda what i did w/ my current bf. I liked him for 2 years and never asked him out, but he finally asked me

[sheddingtears]

yeah, if it was that simple enough for me to go up to the guy i like and ask him. i don't know, sometimes i just feel like i'm not good enough, but then sometimes, i end up finding that i overestimated them.

... but then sometimes you'll never know if you don't ask the question, meaning that all that time you thought about him was just a waste of time.

& that's happened all my life so far.

[kikyoudefender]

It's good for girls to ask the guys out. It's nothing wrong with it, but most girls are afraid their crush will say no.