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 Mar 3 2005, 12:46 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again..  Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981  |
well i had a fight with my friend's friend...she starts ignoring me and i dont know why..and then her friend (and my friend) tells me shes ignoring me b/c im becoming friends with her friends and they seem to like me better...
so my question is would u have done the same thing as her? should i make new friends and leave her group of friends alone?(im already friends with her friends..) and what should i do about the friend's friend thats mad at me? |
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Mar 3 2005, 05:53 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
i think your friend's friend has no right to assume that her friends like you more than her. From what i understand, she's plain jealous. It's not your fault that you're a better person than her.
You shouldn't leave this group of friends just because of one girl. It's not like she has a good reason to be mad at you anyway. If she chooses to ignore you, her group of friends should realize her unreasonable-ness and stick with you instead. 
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Mar 3 2005, 02:54 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
explain to her that thats not the situatiion
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Mar 8 2005, 12:44 AM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
whhhattt ?
could you give them like fake names or something? very confusing  but based on the comments and stuff, i think your friend thinks your paying too much attention to your other friend ? if so, i went through the same situation! jst ignore the that girl cause thats her problem. |
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Mar 8 2005, 01:06 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
ditch her. make her a loner. she's not a good friend, she cant even trust her own friend in making friends with someone else. she doesnt deserve to have a friend.
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Mar 30 2005, 09:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
I think she's just selfish/jelous. You should be allowed to be friends with anyone you want. Who cares what she thinks.
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Mar 30 2005, 10:02 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Use the Eye For an Eye code: ignore her too.
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Mar 30 2005, 10:21 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
kinda confused.. friend's friend friend.. gets kinda confusing.
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Mar 30 2005, 10:35 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
well. why did she get mad at u in the first place?
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Mar 30 2005, 10:41 PM
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 New Type Group: Member Posts: 145 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,960 |
Can't call her a friend can you. Just hang out with someone you like better. Completely ignore her until she talks to you, if there's anyone to blame, she said she'd ignore you first.
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Mar 31 2005, 09:31 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,063 |
who cares what she thinks. do your thing it shouldn`t matter if she likes you or not as long as the ppl you hang out with are cool with you theres no big deal. she`s just jealous that`s all. brush her off just do you.
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Mar 31 2005, 10:05 AM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
she's being selfish. is it a crime to share the same friends? if she thinks this is some sort of competition, then in my opinion, you should just keep away. she sounds somewhat dramatic and you don't wanna get caught in the middle of all that.
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Apr 1 2005, 11:08 AM
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The rapture or the anguish -- you decide! Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,572 |
Is it awful to share friends? Didn't think so. If anything, this is a petty reason to avoid someone, and both of you will either get over it or move on.
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Apr 1 2005, 01:29 PM
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QUOTE(K!$$ @ Mar 3 2005, 4:53 AM) i think your friend's friend has no right to assume that her friends like you more than her. From what i understand, she's plain jealous. It's not your fault that you're a better person than her. You shouldn't leave this group of friends just because of one girl. It's not like she has a good reason to be mad at you anyway. If she chooses to ignore you, her group of friends should realize her unreasonable-ness and stick with you instead.  I agree whole-heartedly. I couldnt have put it better! 
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Apr 1 2005, 01:49 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
haha. That happened to me once. I tell you this. She will get over it. If she wants to ignore you fine, but that shouldnt change who you are friends with. Anyone who wants you to choose for their benefit, is selfish and not a good friend. Besides, if shes telling people why shes mad at you, she obviously is trying to get attention. I say ignore and she'll probably get over it. I personally would smack some sense into her, but shes not MY friend...
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Apr 1 2005, 04:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
tsk, people need to learn how to be more independent..
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Apr 1 2005, 04:31 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
she jealous. theres a girl i know that got jealous when her "friends" started liking me more than her. but it turns out that they didnt like her to begin with. now she's trying harder togain acceptance. anyways...
her reaction shouldnt change who you're friends with. it seems like she doesnt want you to have any other friends besides her. |
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