if a girl..., thinks something thats not true? |
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 Feb 27 2005, 09:35 PM
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the girl ive had a huge crush on for over 2 years now suddenly doesnt talk to me anymore and tries to avoid making eye contact with me now...
 i think she thinks i like someone that i really dont like (thanks to my friend's joking around) im not sure whether she hates me now, or is just shy around me (which i doubt) cuz she used to be really nice to me and we got along great. but now everything sucks. sigh... just wanting some advice or comfort lol...
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Feb 27 2005, 09:49 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
the only thing you can do now is maybe tell her that your friends were just joking..and maybe tell her how you feel..who knows maybe she feels the same way too....but there's always the possibility that she sees you as "just a friend"....it's a risk...but if you like her enough...I don't think you'll have a problem figuring this out?
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Feb 27 2005, 09:50 PM
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well its ok! (comfort part)
Now heres the help. Just ask her whats wrong. annddddd also tell her who you like. only good comes out of it. Unless she hates u even more. 
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Feb 27 2005, 09:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
lol. thanks.
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Feb 28 2005, 04:17 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Comfort
You know.. if she suddenly stops talking to you because your friend said something, it might (MIGHT) be that she suddenly realizes her undying passion for you, and is too shy to admit it.  Help Like Shattered_Hope and UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212 say, tell her. Talk. |
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Feb 28 2005, 05:15 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
yeah maybe she's getting over you & found someone new, but you can't be so sure of that since you don't exactly know--so don't give up hope. if you like her so much, start a conversation & ask her if she likes anyone to be sure... or ask her friends.
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Feb 28 2005, 06:17 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
one of two things: either she likes you too and she is embarassed or she found out that you like her and she is freaked out. or maybe she just doesn't like you anymore? that is what one of my friends did. i liked her all through 7th grade and then in 8th, she just didn't talk to me!
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Feb 28 2005, 06:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,476 |
what the girl do is what i do when i have a crush on a guy....
may be its for me only... |
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Feb 28 2005, 08:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
i tried talking to her online but she seemed to not want to talk..
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Feb 28 2005, 10:19 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
ask her why she`s avoiding you (: force it out of her !
 and its okaayyyyy, dont worry, things will get better soon! promise! =]  (:
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Feb 28 2005, 10:25 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
QUOTE(lexaa621 @ Feb 28 2005, 8:51 PM) i tried talking to her online but she seemed to not want to talk..  You have to confront her face-to-face! That way she can't leave or not answer! Clear things up with her and make sure she understands that your friends were just joking. But don't be sad!! Things will be the way they were once you confront her and you will all be all happy and YAY! 
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Mar 1 2005, 03:32 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
well ask her if shes hear something..
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Mar 1 2005, 09:28 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,257 |
She' problemly found out dat u did something bad but...Srry
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Mar 1 2005, 09:31 PM
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 soUp Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,754 |
does she know you like her? tell her STRAIGHT UP. tell her you dont like someone else, that your friends were joking. im gonna tell someone... eventually.
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Mar 1 2005, 10:23 PM
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 so give me all your posion and give me all your pills Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,345 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Feb 27 2005, 9:49 PM) the only thing you can do now is maybe tell her that your friends were just joking..and maybe tell her how you feel..who knows maybe she feels the same way too....but there's always the possibility that she sees you as "just a friend"....it's a risk...but if you like her enough...I don't think you'll have a problem figuring this out? i agree.. im sorry.. that has happened to me before.. we are still friends =D |
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Mar 2 2005, 06:39 AM
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 go go power rangers<3 Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 |
I'd just say talk to her. That's it.
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Mar 2 2005, 10:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
awwww that is sweet.. the whole situation. =]
but as everyone says.. ask her.. and tell her. come back to tell us the ending! |
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Mar 2 2005, 10:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Just go up to her & say, "you & your friends was just joking around" or ask her why she's avoiding you.
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Mar 2 2005, 10:58 PM
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I kinda went as the same thing as you...not really the same..but kinda...
im not sure if i can help..cuz when i help i often screw everything up...lol? but try and ask...if it screws up, blame it on me... |
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Mar 2 2005, 11:17 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
wow wow wow.
That's something that happened to me too! My crush flirted with me before.. and now just ignores me. I don't know what's wrong with them. But I think that he found out that I liked him.. and he probably got scared. Maybe the girl found out that you liked her and she was just suprised.. but who knows? She could be just shy.. :] |
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Mar 2 2005, 11:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
wow ok i didnt even do anything and she started talking to me again and being nice and all... but im sorta scared/jealous she might like someone else =/ for now im just getting to be friends with her... we're also gonna do community service together teaching little kids to play violin
i just hope everything turns out good for me lol... thanks for all the comfort too. keep posting. haha. |
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Mar 9 2005, 08:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
and me being a nosy person, i want to know more on what's going on. =P hahaha
anyways, good luck! |
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Mar 10 2005, 12:05 AM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
If she's ignoring you now.. you should just tell her how you feel..
Because if your worried about her not talking to you, isnt she doing that now? So your nothing short of what you have at the moment. And if she tries to run when you talk to her, shove her into a corner and say, "Listen damnit!.." lol |
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Mar 10 2005, 12:07 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
why dont u just talk to her and find out.
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