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[Skyline Drive]

I'll try my best to word this..

There is this guy who I have a major crush on. I don't really speak to him that much. I just have this strong feeling this guy is for me. I'm sure he has no clue I am crushing on him. I went to visit my good friend who works with him as an excuse to see him. I just don't know how to approach him about this. This is the first crush that I have ever had that I have just kept to myself, not even my best friend knows. He is the first crush that I have ever had that I actually want to start a relationship with.

I know that he has a girl on his mind right now, but the chances of it being me are very slim. Now I feel like I'm too late.

How would you react if someone you consider a friend ( but you don't really know them that well ) were to have a crush on you ?


How do I approach him..? Any feedback. Thanks.

[Shattered_Hope]

Why don't you just go up to him and tell him how you feel? I think if you like him this much...you should just get this over with. And your question : How would you react if someone you consider a friend ( but you don't really know them that well ) were to have a crush on you ?.....My answer would be that I don't know for sure...it kinda depends on the person....

[heyyfrankie]

if i found out a friend liked me, i would be happy.
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i guess....um...gosh...this is hard!

i guess you could just try to tell him easily. but don't come right right out and say "I LIKE YOU! I REALLY LIKE YOU! EFF ME!". just tell him slowly.

good luck!

[Skyline Drive]

if i found out a friend liked me, i would be happy.
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i guess....um...gosh...this is hard!

i guess you could just try to tell him easily. but don't come right right out and say "I LIKE YOU! I REALLY LIKE YOU! EFF ME!". just tell him slowly.

good luck!

Thank you frankie

[Nicolatofu]

Well, I don't know if I'd tell him right away. Since it sounds like he has his mind on a girl that you say you doubt is you. Maybe try talking to him more, and try visiting your friend at work to try and talk to him. After you get to know him a little, you could let him know that you like him.

[Ombra]

hmm.. well i would tell them how you feel if i were you. if your shy you can just blurt it out with a big smile on your face. but if your out going like me, i would do something really wacky. like lets see here the way i got my boyfriend. was i bought those washable paint sticks that you can write on cars with and i wrote on his car, "RYAN, I REALLY LIKE YOU, GO OUT WITH ME THIS FRIDAY AT JIMS PIZZA BOX AT 7? -MEG" it hooked him and made him laugh. lol. just what ever way you do it. make sure your comfertable.

[dahding]

hint that u have feelings for him. since u don't talk to him that much, telling him out of nowhere would seem a little awkward. flirt, talk, spend time with him. after a while, let him know how u feel. ease him into knowing how u feel. and think of something really sweet, adorable, cute, sexy, or whatever to say to him. something special and unique. not some cheesy one liner crap.

gopher it lilly.

[WrathOfOnigo]

Try to build up a relationship with him BEFORE you tell him about your feelings towards him. If you tell him while he's thinking of another girl it could put him in a really tough spot!

If someone liked me i would be flattered .

[EmmalieV]

Well , what i would do is basically flirt and ask him general questions like " If we werent so close would you date me? " etc.

[Skyline Drive]

Thanks for your help everyone only I just found out that he has definately been thinking about this other girl So I guess I won't be telling him anymore or at least not any time soon.

I am just going to let this crush pass.. fow now.

[rainnydaiis]

Crushes are painful when other people come into it.. But one must fight for the prize no? A guy can think about more than 1 girl at a time... He might have a little space and why not make it a big space? Just my opinion..

[mcshieldsniper]

Try to build up a relationship with him BEFORE you tell him about your feelings towards him.  If you tell him while he's thinking of another girl it could put him in a really tough spot!

If someone liked me i would be flattered  .

that would work, but u need to make sure that u guys dont become friends, cuz then you'd hate it AFTER u guys break up and u dont talk to each other at all; i kno this from first-hand experience.

~stealthspy12

[amhso]

hmm..before you do any of that, make sure hez not taken ;)...then just say it to him. If someone said that to me (and i wasnt already taken) id say, hell yes wanan f*ck...jk, it wud stick in my mind tho.