"high school sweethearts", still together? |
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 Feb 28 2005, 10:41 PM
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hey i'm soo curious if any of you have been with your girlfriend/boyfriend since highschool or somethin and are still together after so many years, even through college or after?
i've been with my boyfriend since 2years ago and in a few months he's going to enter college soon and i'll be following on in less than a year myself! =) i'm just wondering wat its like to go through all those years together? im not doubting that we'll fade apart after everything we've been through, we're in so much love! its just i wanna know how much of this happens? even if u know someone else whose gone through it.. i see it on tv all the time but how bout in reality.. is it usual n everything? wats it like? |
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Feb 28 2005, 10:46 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Wow. Well, my boyfriend is also going to college next year, and me the next year. But we're also so much in love and we really want to spend forever together. And I really hope we will.
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| *stephinika* |
Mar 1 2005, 12:11 AM
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well we're still in high school but we've been going out for over a year...its been 1 year 4 months and a bit.
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Mar 1 2005, 12:43 AM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
i dont have a boyfriend right now.. but my friend's parents have been together since sophomore year in highschool.. her dad was a basketball player and her mom was a cheerleader. the cliche highschool couple...
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Mar 1 2005, 04:25 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Mar 1 2005, 1:11 AM) well we're still in high school but we've been going out for over a year...its been 1 year 4 months and a bit.  aww , I didnt know you had a boyfriend. |
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Mar 1 2005, 04:52 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
my boyfriends parents have been together for almost 30 years. high school sweethearts and still crazy about eachother
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| *jooleeah* |
Mar 1 2005, 08:33 PM
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^ That is adorable.
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Mar 1 2005, 08:56 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i currently don't have a girlfriend but i think that most high school "sweethearts" don't work out. =/
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Mar 1 2005, 09:05 PM
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My boyfriend and I got together October of our freshmen year and we're still together now. I really think we could last for years and years if there weren't some uncontrollable outside forces (read: parents) trying to have their say. My parents were on and off highschool sweethearts and they broke up for awhile when my mom was in college. My mom had me when she was 25 and they were married when I was 12. I'm optimistic about highschool couples because of my parents lol
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Mar 1 2005, 11:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
QUOTE([Mediocre]Artist @ Mar 2 2005, 3:05 AM) My boyfriend and I got together October of our freshmen year and we're still together now. I really think we could last for years and years if there weren't some uncontrollable outside forces (read: parents) trying to have their say. My parents were on and off highschool sweethearts and they broke up for awhile when my mom was in college. My mom had me when she was 25 and they were married when I was 12. I'm optimistic about highschool couples because of my parents lol aw thats cool to hear =) do you have a topic called 'parents' or sth? hahah sorry its jus when u said 'READ': parents, i presumer u got a topic? sorry i sound so clueless D; i jus cant find ur topic, i mean i dont even know how =/ thanks for the reply! =) |
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Mar 2 2005, 12:01 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Hey, who knows what the future might bring?
 It's been 2 years and 3 months since my boyfriend and I got together (Freshman year). My boyfriend's half-brother was married to his highschool sweetheart, but they divorced and yea. I hope I don't end up like them.  My half-sister is STILL engaged to her highschool sweetheart and it's been like what..7 years?!?!? They've been dating since freshman year in high school! And she's 32 right now! 17 years! That's like.. almost half their life so far! lol I truly think it could work.. I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I'll work hard to achieve that goal.. :] Good luck with you and your boyfriend, cewinee! |
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| *Azarel* |
Mar 2 2005, 12:20 AM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Mar 1 2005, 9:01 PM) My half-sister is STILL engaged to her highschool sweetheart and it's been like what..7 years?!?!? They've been dating since freshman year in high school! And she's 32 right now! 17 years! That's like.. almost half their life so far! lol Aw, that's cute.
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Mar 2 2005, 09:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Mar 2 2005, 6:01 AM) Hey, who knows what the future might bring? It's been 2 years and 3 months since my boyfriend and I got together (Freshman year). My boyfriend's half-brother was married to his highschool sweetheart, but they divorced and yea. I hope I don't end up like them. My half-sister is STILL engaged to her highschool sweetheart and it's been like what..7 years?!?!? They've been dating since freshman year in high school! And she's 32 right now! 17 years! That's like.. almost half their life so far! lol I truly think it could work.. I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I'll work hard to achieve that goal.. :] Good luck with you and your boyfriend, cewinee! i like you and love your replies haha XD thanks man =) my bf and i want that to happen too between us ^_^ thanks again for the inspiration =) u rock XD haha |
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Mar 2 2005, 09:29 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Many of my friends have been together for like 3 years or more since high school and I was the only one that dated different girls but, oh well I guess in some sort of way I was jealous and wished that I had the same type of thing then I realize, at least I know how its like to date around.
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Mar 2 2005, 10:56 AM
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 i [heart] pink sapphires Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,482 |
my husband and i started dating our junior year of high school. he joined the army and i went off to college. for some strange twisted reason we ended up 45 min. from each other and we were able to continue our relationship. i know that if it weren't for that coincidence we wouldn't be together today. we had our obvious ups and downs. i mean c'mon, military guys are crazy and meet tons of girls and being in college is like being a kid in a candy store--but we stuck through it. we've been together for about 8 years now, and i'm only 23. we got married after dating for 5 years. all i'm saying is that if it's meant to be, it'll happen. don't focus too much on what will be, rather live it day by day. college is demanding. have fun.
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Mar 2 2005, 11:17 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
well me n my boyfriend met in high school and dated about 2 months after he graduated and have been off and on for about 2 years since then...but u wanna hear a happy story? My aunt cindy grew up across the street from my uncle bobby. they went to school together, but only a year cuz hes 3 years older than her. they got married out of high school and are still together. They have a daughter and have been married for over 20 years, but their relationship dated back about 30. aww. Isnt that sweet?!
 I love my aunt cindy and my uncle bobby. :D
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Mar 2 2005, 07:04 PM
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QUOTE(gabyram @ Mar 2 2005, 4:56 PM) my husband and i started dating our junior year of high school. he joined the army and i went off to college. for some strange twisted reason we ended up 45 min. from each other and we were able to continue our relationship. i know that if it weren't for that coincidence we wouldn't be together today. we had our obvious ups and downs. i mean c'mon, military guys are crazy and meet tons of girls and being in college is like being a kid in a candy store--but we stuck through it. we've been together for about 8 years now, and i'm only 23. we got married after dating for 5 years. all i'm saying is that if it's meant to be, it'll happen. don't focus too much on what will be, rather live it day by day. college is demanding. have fun. aw hey you're absolutely right =) thats wat i said to my boyfriend.. its a complicated story but everything's fine now, i guess we jus had one of those 'downs' in our relationship which is really tough in the situation we're in but we've been through ALOT together in the passed 2 years(long distant) n if we could make it through that, we could make it through anything together if its meant to be =) thanks ^_^ send love to ur kid =) im happy for you n ur family XD |
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Mar 2 2005, 07:05 PM
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QUOTE(karamelle @ Mar 2 2005, 5:17 PM) well me n my boyfriend met in high school and dated about 2 months after he graduated and have been off and on for about 2 years since then...but u wanna hear a happy story? My aunt cindy grew up across the street from my uncle bobby. they went to school together, but only a year cuz hes 3 years older than her. they got married out of high school and are still together. They have a daughter and have been married for over 20 years, but their relationship dated back about 30. aww. Isnt that sweet?! I love my aunt cindy and my uncle bobby. :Daww thats so sweet! thanks for tellin me that story! =) great to hear it happens XD |
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Mar 2 2005, 07:07 PM
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QUOTE(fh119 @ Mar 3 2005, 1:06 AM) My friends parents have been dating since 7th grade and they're happily married. I think that's the cutest thing that they found each other so young. But they still had a whole lot of time to date other people as well. OMG wow!! thats so great n sweet to hear!! hahah aw man thats awesome! god im so happy this actually happens! thanks for the reply ^_^ |
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Mar 3 2005, 11:31 PM
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Ohh I WISH me and my boyfriend would be together forever, usually it doesnt happen;
but if you two were truly meant for each other then you will! My b/f shuai is graduating this year, and i'm graduating next year. Sometimes i get sad because we're not in the same grade, and we dont have any classes together, but in a way its good, because if you be with someone too much, you will probably get tired of them (i know i might!!!)...lol, sry for the off-topic paragraph!  In high school, kids arn't mature yet, so its soo hard to stay with a relationship, you know wat im sayin? My longest was 3 months  And my DREAM was to stay with one guy for over a year. I'm trying to fulfill that now. I want to be with my boyfriend forever. (Haha, i even tell my friends that if i even THINK about breaking up with him to HIT ME REALLY HARD!!!! lol ) So just think to yourself if you want to stay with him "Is this my Mr. Right?" I do that EVERY TIME I go into a relationship, and then realize "hey, what the hell am i dating this guy for??? Sure hes cute and sweet, but theres soo many personal qualities I don't like about him."I hope I helped! 
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Mar 4 2005, 07:20 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
been with my boyfriend since christmas of soph yr. im now out of highschool n nineteen years old. we're still in love n i hope that we end up marrying each other. we both want to be together in the end. u have more responsibilities and u have so many decisions to make...like whether u should move in together or wait. if u should help him with bills or if he should help u...u know...stuff like that. u get to take care of each other more than u use to...it's nice tho. i like it. i love helping him out.
but u know thats kinda funny cuz my boyfriend was in the military too. he was only in training tho and he got so lucky n was able to get permanent leave. but during that time was crazy cuz bfore and during his military training we had our share of a lot of ups and downs. mostly downs. n we're still together. i was always worried that he would cheat on me but he didnt thankfully but then he never went to war. |
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Mar 4 2005, 11:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Mar 5 2005, 1:20 AM) been with my boyfriend since christmas of soph yr. im now out of highschool n nineteen years old. we're still in love n i hope that we end up marrying each other. we both want to be together in the end. u have more responsibilities and u have so many decisions to make...like whether u should move in together or wait. if u should help him with bills or if he should help u...u know...stuff like that. u get to take care of each other more than u use to...it's nice tho. i like it. i love helping him out. but u know thats kinda funny cuz my boyfriend was in the military too. he was only in training tho and he got so lucky n was able to get permanent leave. but during that time was crazy cuz bfore and during his military training we had our share of a lot of ups and downs. mostly downs. n we're still together. i was always worried that he would cheat on me but he didnt thankfully but then he never went to war. aww shit hey thanks alot for that =) gives me a lot more hope for me n my boyfriend for the future together =) we've jus recently had one of those 'downs' in every usual distant relationship, i guess i jus freaked out n wanted to know that couples do and CAN make it together through the future and im sure we will =) thanks again!! gluck to you and ur boyfriend, im sure you'll get married =) i hope you do after everything you've been through together =)
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Mar 4 2005, 11:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
QUOTE(Asian_Love @ Mar 4 2005, 5:31 AM) Ohh I WISH me and my boyfriend would be together forever, usually it doesnt happen; but if you two were truly meant for each other then you will! My b/f shuai is graduating this year, and i'm graduating next year. Sometimes i get sad because we're not in the same grade, and we dont have any classes together, but in a way its good, because if you be with someone too much, you will probably get tired of them (i know i might!!!)...lol, sry for the off-topic paragraph! In high school, kids arn't mature yet, so its soo hard to stay with a relationship, you know wat im sayin? My longest was 3 months And my DREAM was to stay with one guy for over a year. I'm trying to fulfill that now. I want to be with my boyfriend forever. (Haha, i even tell my friends that if i even THINK about breaking up with him to HIT ME REALLY HARD!!!! lol ) So just think to yourself if you want to stay with him "Is this my Mr. Right?" I do that EVERY TIME I go into a relationship, and then realize "hey, what the hell am i dating this guy for??? Sure hes cute and sweet, but theres soo many personal qualities I don't like about him."I hope I helped! aw i hope you find a serious relationship one day, u will i promise you ^_^ we all do! =) jus takes time and patience =D not every guy will be ur mr. right! thats why theres loads of em out there to see who it is ^_^ my bf and i have been together over 2 years now and still growing strong, its incredible =) take care n have fun!
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Mar 5 2005, 05:03 PM
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 Liz Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,374 |
Well, right now I am a sophmore in High School, but I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half now. We love eachother very much, and we feel as if we will make it through High School together. We talk about moving in with eachother after graduation. I know we can make it.
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Mar 5 2005, 05:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
QUOTE my boyfriends parents have been together for almost 30 years. high school sweethearts and still crazy about eachother aw sweet. but nah, i don't know any couple that are still together after hs... but don't let the amount of couples that are still together even after hs get to you. |
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