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 Feb 25 2005, 11:18 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else!  Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752  |
what do you think is the hardest thing about getting over guys and all...? it usually takes me a LONG time, but by then i found out that i was just a dumb fool to feel that way about some "dude", but i guess it depends on the guy that your willing to move on...
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Feb 26 2005, 12:05 AM
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im a guy, and i get over girls REALLY easily, i dont kno y.
i guess the hardest thing would be that to forget the good and bad times you had with them because you kno they're still there, but you have to move on. thats just my opinion, i could be wrong ^_^ ~stealthspy12 
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Feb 26 2005, 04:23 AM
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i think its hard. n i didn't even really like the guy that much!!! >=(!! it sucks.. but.. finnaly... im over it
i just occupy my mind withh.. all those other guys out there.. |
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Feb 26 2005, 05:12 AM
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 I watch you while you sleep. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,068 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,685 |
It was hard for me to get over the guy that I was infatuated with.
We used to talk to each other daily, and then all of a sudden, he`s not there anymore. xo, Pauline |
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Feb 26 2005, 11:59 AM
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liek i just get over a guy the less i see him and the more i see another guy
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Feb 26 2005, 12:00 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
im guessing the fact that when ur alone u miss the good things that was in ur relationship like how he tells you he loves you or how he holds you when ur cold or how he tells you things are gonna be okay when things look gloom, or how he will believe you when no one else can.
Loneliness makes it hard. (i'm a guy, im just guessing) |
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Feb 26 2005, 12:26 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
just liking guys that didn't like me back i get over quickly bc i know i dont have a chance wit them anyway but my ex-boyfriend.. i am still trying to get over him bc i know he loved me and i still cud go back to him but i wudn't do that to myself bc he didnt wanna be wit me anymore even tho he said he still loved me. so i think its really hard wit getting ova a boyfriend not always just a guy u liked.
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Feb 26 2005, 01:11 PM
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The hardest is when I have memory-stirring songs/items/etc. I try to get over him, but than I re-read his love letter, or I hear 'the song.' It's really hard when all those distractions get in the way, so I just tune 'em out after a while.
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Feb 26 2005, 02:19 PM
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QUOTE(mcshieldsniper @ Feb 25 2005, 9:05 PM) i guess the hardest thing would be that to forget the good and bad times you had with them because you kno they're still there, but you have to move on. thats just my opinion, i could be wrong ^_^ ~stealthspy12  I agree. I would say the same thing. |
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Feb 26 2005, 02:42 PM
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The hardest thing about getting over someone you used to be with would be the memories that are inside of you.
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Feb 26 2005, 05:16 PM
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i think it`s hard if you don`t fall for people that easily. i usually get over a guy by finding a new guy (i know i sound kinda trashy but ahh). anyways, it takes me awhile to find a new guy so yeahh.
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Feb 26 2005, 05:55 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
get a new one.
lol. the toughest part of splitting from ym gf was dealling with the fact thatit divided our group of friends, and it all got really childish and side-taking. but once we go tot be able to be together without fighting it was all ok so to answer your question, the hardest part about getin over someone is dealing with the condflict which comes with it |
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Feb 26 2005, 10:00 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
the thing that makes getting over the guy is the memories to me
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Feb 26 2005, 10:13 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
it was only hard for me with one guy..i had been with him for 2 and a half years..so i think the hardest thing was just living my life without him because i always had him there by my side for 2.5 years..right now im with a guy that i have been with for 4 years and 9 months and i dont know WHAT i would do if he decided to leave me..or even if i decided to leave him..it would be so hard because he is all that i have known for the past almost 5 years..
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Feb 26 2005, 10:20 PM
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 Azn at heart Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,772 |
Iv never had a guy "to get over"
So I cant help... |
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Feb 26 2005, 10:23 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
it doesnt take that long, well it hasnt and i'm still with my current one now, so i'm hoping that we dont break up because i would be devestated. =\
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Feb 28 2005, 05:58 AM
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for me, it depends on how much i think of the guy when i liked him.
i liked this one guy, but didn't think about him much, so it was easy to get over him. yeah so the less i think of someone, i can easily move on quicker. |
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Feb 28 2005, 02:23 PM
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the hardest thing? well two years ago, i had a huge crush on this guy that i wanted to get over but i couldn't...it was just an issue of time i suppose cause i eventually did.
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