I dont know if i should say something...., guy cheats on gurl situation |
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 Feb 24 2005, 10:32 PM
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[FONT=Arial] well I have this guy friend and weve been friends for a while.... he is going out with one of my friends.... cassie......... my guy friend and I are not really like in the have feelings for each other mode but theres times (before they were together) that something would over come us and we went into just a weird mode and had a ***great time*** not sex im not that kind of a person......but making out heavely.....Well like two weeks ago (when their going out) he starts his stuff when we were in a house alone and im not gonna lie i got into it and I did make out with him 4 a while then... i pulled away telling him i couldent do it... cause of cassie.... and he was making up some lie about her cheating on him but i just walked out.. i know i did the right thing..... well their relationship is drifting away.... he is flirting with girls behind her back hes even tried his stuff again!! and shes always talking to me on how im such a trustworthy friend.. and shes soo in luv with him
 im beginning to feel so bad and whenever im around her im feel tense..... I dont know if i should say something or what i should do... I dont know im lost 
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Feb 24 2005, 10:36 PM
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 Until the end of time... Group: Member Posts: 456 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 460 |
You should let her know bout what's happening. U wouldn't want her to get hurt even more in the end. Those are my thoughts.
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Feb 24 2005, 10:36 PM
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alright if no one can help i understand
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Feb 24 2005, 10:37 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,786 |
okay okay i get what your saying thanxs!!!
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Feb 24 2005, 10:44 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
oh em gee, u damn backstabbing b****. u damn well better tell her! she should kno if ONE OF HER FRIENDS is making out with her bf behind her back. u sicken me..and so does that bf of her. u two should be ashamed of urselves!
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Feb 25 2005, 12:23 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
tell her you have to tell her something, and not to say or respond until you are fully done .
Say that before her and her boyfriend were going out, u use to mess around with him, but it was just innocent boredom and fun =] , and recently blah kissed me, i told him that i couldnt because ur my friend , and i feel that you should know because ur my friend and i dont want u dating someone that is foolin around with other girls :O |
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Feb 25 2005, 12:34 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Don't double post...
Tell your friend.. Be honest. You'll feel alot better after you tell her. She might get mad at you... but she will be less hurt if you tell her now rather than having her find out on her own. |
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Feb 25 2005, 03:28 AM
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 i <3 giraffes & hamsters Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 |
wow i thought you were a guy .. but then i noticed the pink thing next to your account name
anyways, i think it`s good that you`re trying to get advice on something like this; it shows you care. i think you should have a talk with your friend, cassie, first. like, explain to her that her boyfriend isn`t the guy that she thinks she is. then, explain what happened between you two, but also tell her that you tried to pull away. you should also tell her that her boyfriend told you that you were cheating on him .. that`s pretty much all i can say |
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Feb 25 2005, 06:37 AM
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well first of all you shouldn't have done that -.-' and secondly yes, of course tell her i mean she deserves to know. tell her now before she gets hurt even more
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Feb 25 2005, 10:07 AM
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^^
agreed. you shouldn't have done that in the first place...but yeah go tell her. she deserves to know what a great boyfriend and friend she has. 
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Feb 25 2005, 10:13 AM
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^Agreed and agreed.
You have to tell her. If you don't tell her, she'll find out anyway. She'll also find out that you made out with her boyfriend if you aren't the one to tell her. Its your choice. I'm still amazed you did that. |
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Feb 25 2005, 07:29 PM
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You should tell her, she has a right to know. She's your friend, you should be a good friend & tell her what's happening behind her back.
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Feb 26 2005, 02:12 PM
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You shouldn't have made out with him in the first place if you knew he had a girlfriend already.
But I would tell Cassie what's happening so she can get out of that relationship before she gets hurt even more. |
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Feb 26 2005, 03:25 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
YOU SHOULD SAY SOMETHING. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU. WHAT KINDA FRIEND ARE YOU. YOU WERE RIGHT TO WALK OUT ON THAT GUY..BUT YOU'RE NOT RIGHT WHEN YOU DON'T TELL YOUR FRIEND HER B/F IS CHEATING ON HER.
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