friend help Options

[Zer_Wil_De_Mach]

ok there are two ppl who are my fwens.....one guy asked me out and i said ya..then later on my other fwen told stuff about the guy who asked me out...then i broke it off...then they both want to fight with each other...just about the things they said about each other...what should i do?? i dont want them to fight

[runforfun529]

Wow, that post was hard to understand.

Umm... anyway I think you are saying that your two friends are fighting and you don't want them to. Just tell them that you won't get involved with a fight between them. But you can't control them. They do what they want.

[Zer_Wil_De_Mach]

im sorri if my post is hard to understand lemme make it clear...when i was with this guy.....may friend told me things about my bf....like he has a gf right now....then i broke it off with my bf...so later when i was hanging out with my other friend, the other guy, my bf said things about him too...they were both talking stuff about them...and now they want to fight.... and this fighting thing was all my fault idk what to do...and i dont want them to fight..they are both my fwens i cant let that happen

[Zer_Wil_De_Mach]

sorri if its the same topic from before but when i was with this guy.....my friend told me things about my bf....like he has a gf right now....then i broke it off with my bf...so later when i was hanging out with my other friend, the other guy, my bf said things about him too...they were both talking stuff about them...and now they want to fight.... and this fighting thing was all my fault idk what to do...and i dont want them to fight..they are both my fwens i cant let that happen

[Just_Dream]

I think I understand.. somewhat.

Maybe you should tell them both that you don't want to see them fight. Talk calmly with them. Have them both in front of you and ask the friend (not your ex) if the things he said were true. Find out if what he said was legit.. Try to solve the problem verbally, rather than physically.

Maybe the friend who became your boyfriend then you broke up with him still wants to be with you? Dunno..

[Zer_Wil_De_Mach]

ya my ex was wanting to be with me again...but now hes with someone.. i just hope nothing else will happen since he has someone

[Looow]

I don't understand your whole story..

[Nugget]

um i did not understand wut u said

[topsyturvy]

Okay.. let me get this straight. Basically, your two guy friends (you've dated one of them) are fighting over the fact that they backstabbed each other. Is that right?

If that's the case, this has nothing to do with you. Like runforfun529 says, let them be. This is a problem between them, so I dunno.. you might somehow get involved in a negative way if you don't stay out.

On the other hand, you might want to stick up for both sides, or just ignore both of them completely to show that a) you care about both of them equally, and b) you want them to cut the fighting.

Sorry if that didn't make sense.

[*stephinika*]

^^
i agree...its like you're only involved in an out-of-the-way kinda way...haha wow that didn't make sense. anyways, tell them to cut it out or just try not to get involved. good luck.