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 Feb 19 2005, 11:34 PM
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 ..hawaiian pride..  Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,150  |
i've been going out wit dis boy 4 2 weeks...hes my first bf and i just found out from one of his friends that hes been cheating on me wit this girl he met on the internet! all my friends are telling me to dump him, but i really like him. what should i do?
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Feb 19 2005, 11:41 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
deck him.
 *ahem* but really....a guy who's gonna cheat on you after just two weeks is really not worth it....there'll be other guys..you just haven't met them yet. Leave him now...rather than later because it'll be more painful if you let the feelings develope. 
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Feb 20 2005, 12:00 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Feb 19 2005, 11:41 PM) deck him. *ahem* but really....a guy who's gonna cheat on you after just two weeks is really not worth it....there'll be other guys..you just haven't met them yet. Leave him now...rather than later because it'll be more painful if you let the feelings develope.  yeah...it's only been 2 weeks, think about how many times he'll cheat on you if it turned into 2 months? if he can't keep a committment within 2 weeks, he's just trash...toss it out before it lingers and traps you |
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Feb 20 2005, 02:12 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(chii @ Feb 20 2005, 12:00 AM) yeah...it's only been 2 weeks, think about how many times he'll cheat on you if it turned into 2 months? if he can't keep a committment within 2 weeks, he's just trash...toss it out before it lingers and traps you agreed. and also, it was on the internet. if he is unfaithful online imagine how it might be in real life 
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Feb 20 2005, 02:17 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Hold on now. How are you so sure he's cheating? Maybe you should find out somehow or get evidence so that you know for sure.
But if you're sure, then I dunno.. how is he cheating? Is he just talking to another girl or swapping pictures or what? |
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Feb 20 2005, 02:27 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Talk to him about it, and if he says "No im not cheating on you" blah blah... ask his friends (the ones that told you) to get edvidence to proove he's cheating on you.
Since he's your first boyfriend, it's going to be hard for you to break up with him because you feel like you wont ever have another boyfriend. But these things take COMMITMENT and time. So, go with your heart... If you'd rather be with a guy that might be cheating on you and end up hurt later on, rather than wait for a guy that will be loyal to you, than stay with him... |
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Feb 20 2005, 08:41 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
bah. break up. shoot him. move on. he sucks monkey butt.
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Feb 20 2005, 12:04 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
talk to him if he says he'll change don't believe him. he won't. he did it once he might just do it again.
i suggest you break up with him |
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Feb 20 2005, 12:23 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
2 weeks?
ask him if its true. and if you really want just stay with the guy. |
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Feb 20 2005, 12:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,274 |
How do you even know this is true? Talking to him would be nice. Then hit him if he seems like he's lieing.
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Feb 20 2005, 01:40 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
dump him! no matter how much you like someone, they don't like you as much if they cheat on you! if he really liked you, he would be with you...only you! drop him like he's hot.
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Feb 20 2005, 04:42 PM
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i agree with everyone so far...if he's started cheating on you so early, it shows how much of an arse he is.
dump his ass. |
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Feb 20 2005, 06:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i know that he is your first which makes it harder but you HAVE to, you can't just stay with him and say everything is fine when it's not
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Feb 20 2005, 06:21 PM
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HE'S A GUY! HE'S GONNA CHEAT! ITZ JUST THE NATURE OF GAME.
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Feb 20 2005, 08:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
if you really like this guy.. you should keep going out with him. As long as hes not cheating on you anymore.
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Feb 21 2005, 04:33 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
You have two options ..... broke up or still be w/ him as long he stop cheating ? simple ?
getting over it and moving on is the best thing if he doesnt likes u anymore .. |
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Feb 21 2005, 06:51 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if he's really cheating, dump him.
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