Guys like me for the wrong reason..., How can i change that? |
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 Feb 19 2005, 05:06 PM
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 blah  Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663  |
ok, let me give you the whole situation. i am in 8th grade, and i just got boobs and a butt. i was always skinny, but now i got this butt, and size c boobs, and i live in a small town, and go to a small school (250 kids for 6grades), and guys like me because of my boobs, and my body, and my eyes, but never for me. i want to change that, but, i cant change my body. how do i make a guy like me for me, and not for my looks?
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Feb 19 2005, 05:08 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
it is not you, it is just the guys. the guys are shallow and only care about that stuff. you are in 8th grade so hormones are going crazy!
 but whenever you get older than you already are, guy will probably still be attracted to you because of your beauty and features, but then they will get to know the real you and like you for who you are. i have a friend who is just like you but she finally found the right person.  wow...i can't believe i just typed something like that! 
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Feb 19 2005, 05:09 PM
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 School's out...Summer's IN Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,177 |
u cant change dat....well if there is a boy who approaches you and u r interested in him then get to know him n c if u really like him and if he actually likes u...
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Feb 19 2005, 05:10 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
lol...but still, i am worried about me getting a bad label..such as slut, which is so stupid, because girls are already calling me that, and i havent even had a boyfriend, or kissed a guy!
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Feb 19 2005, 05:15 PM
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School's out...Summer's IN Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,177 |
they just jealous cuz they aint got what u got...don't let them get to u
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Feb 19 2005, 05:17 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
well, when you live in a small town...that names follows you around. and soon, i will be known as the town slut
 . which i am not pleased about...at all.
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Feb 19 2005, 05:28 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
You can't really change that. Just don't pay any attention to those guys. Remember your the one who picks the guy.. so pick a guy that likes you for who you are and you will be set.
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Feb 19 2005, 05:30 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
ok..i will try...but, that can be hard, trying to find out what a guys real intention is
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Feb 19 2005, 05:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
^oh, it's pretty obvious .. you'll tell .. just wait .. tha right guy will come .. pshh .. i've been waiting for like .. 2 years since my last gf ..
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Feb 19 2005, 05:44 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
lol, and how old are you?
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Feb 19 2005, 06:24 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
You could always wear loose shirts that aren't that revealing...
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Feb 19 2005, 06:31 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't pay any attention to those guys, they're just shallow. just wait the right guy will come along some day. as for the girls, they're just jealous, they just wanna call ppl names to make themselves feel better. ignore them
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Feb 19 2005, 07:16 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
ok. i will try to keep that in mind. thanks for all your guys help.
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Feb 19 2005, 07:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
woah your a C in the 8th grade!? you can't really do anything to those boys....but it doesn't matter, it is not like you would date them, anyway..
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Feb 19 2005, 07:26 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
yeah i am....and i am afraid i am not done growing....peachy...no not really. it sucks. and all the guys here are all jerks. shallow jerks.
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Feb 19 2005, 07:38 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
well...i still dont like this whole situation. it sucks.
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Feb 19 2005, 07:47 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
I'm so sorry! Yeah, Guys are just like that. Horny lil 8th graders. Cn'at do anything about that except, loose, high cut shirts. Which, I know, not very stylish...
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Feb 19 2005, 07:50 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
i dont wear high cut shirts..or tight ones...the guys just seem to notice...which is sad.
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Feb 19 2005, 08:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
it's not your fault. it's the guys. there's nothing you can do. just don't go out with the guys there, if you think they are going for your looks because you deserve better than that.
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Feb 19 2005, 08:17 PM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
Well dont dress as provacativly? Err... try not to flaunt it around I guess... But be freinds with someone that has the same interests as you...
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Feb 19 2005, 08:44 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(ChellyDasWassup @ Feb 19 2005, 12:15 PM) they just jealous cuz they aint got what u got...don't let them get to u  i agree...just act like how u used to act...and dress normally...u cant change hu u r...just act normal and they probably will realize that u arent like what they think u r... |
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Feb 19 2005, 08:48 PM
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 Vyna Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,332 |
I think you should ignore those jerks, play it hard to get but still express yourself so the guys would get an understand of who you really are. This way, you can see which guy is really worth it, depending on how hard he tries to get to you..
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Feb 19 2005, 09:05 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Aww sorry to hear that, try to tell them how you feel and slap them up a few times hmm, well I guess only time will tell (I sound corny), goodluck ;]!
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Feb 19 2005, 09:14 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
ok thanks everyone...i will remember those tips..i hope
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Feb 19 2005, 09:20 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(VGyrl88 @ Feb 20 2005, 9:48 AM) I think you should ignore those jerks, play it hard to get but still express yourself so the guys would get an understand of who you really are. This way, you can see which guy is really worth it, depending on how hard he tries to get to you.. Oh yes, definately play "hard to get". You'll start to notice which guys are the horny assholes and which guys really care about you for you. |
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