Question on Sex!, Does it hurt the first time? o.O |
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 Feb 17 2005, 09:57 PM
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 dakishimetainoni...  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318  |
no, it is not supposed to hurt whether your hymen is still attached to you or not
when a girl is really ready to have sex, it won't hurt. but if she's unsure, her vagina stays shut because her body is telling her that she's not ready and also, you're not supposed to bleed anytime you have sex...if you do then the guy must have torn some of your inner tissues it's something like that, that's what i learned in sex ed, this sex therapist lady came in |
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| *mzkandi* |
Feb 17 2005, 11:34 PM
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QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Feb 13 2005, 1:21 PM) Go ask your mommy.  lol..exactly |
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Feb 17 2005, 11:44 PM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
i dunno
but ppl keep making sound of moarning or scream when sex happen =P so yes i think it must hurt first time! |
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Feb 18 2005, 02:33 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(chii @ Feb 17 2005, 7:57 PM) no, it is not supposed to hurt whether your hymen is still attached to you or not when a girl is really ready to have sex, it won't hurt. but if she's unsure, her vagina stays shut because her body is telling her that she's not ready and also, you're not supposed to bleed anytime you have sex...if you do then the guy must have torn some of your inner tissues it's something like that, that's what i learned in sex ed, this sex therapist lady came in no. if the girl has done OTHER things before having sex then it won't hurt as much..but if not, its obviously going to hurt |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Feb 18 2005, 02:37 PM
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My first time didn't hurt... at all [yes, because we did "other things before]. It wasn't till the 2nd and 3rd times that it did
 But it's bearable. 
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Feb 18 2005, 02:38 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Feb 13 2005, 3:06 AM) Depends on how the guy is doing it.  lmao exactly |
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Feb 18 2005, 03:08 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
If hes too big (in that way >__>) he could tear you open and then it gets all bloody and ooky and just plain icky.
We're gonna scare this girl so much shes never going to have sex... In all seriousness, it does but only because your cherry's popping. For some girls it already may have becuause of tampons. |
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Feb 18 2005, 10:38 PM
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I wouldn't know because i didn't have sex & i'm saving it 'til marriage.
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Feb 18 2005, 10:47 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
hmm yea ive heard it hurts...
but i guess pleasure overpowers pain~
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Feb 18 2005, 10:53 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE If hes too big (in that way >__>) he could tear you open and then it gets all bloody and ooky and just plain icky. aww..dont scare her lol |
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Feb 18 2005, 11:06 PM
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... your like 12.. "7 February 1992"
jesus dont even worry about sex or you'll prolly end up liek a slut in grade school god i hated those girls... my g/f said it didnt hurt and im pretty well equipt she doesnt play alot of sports but then again i was gentle so idk what to tell you maybe you should wait till your older to worry about it |
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Feb 18 2005, 11:10 PM
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 she doesn't even know Group: Member Posts: 501 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,065 |
QUOTE(XxSpitBubblexX @ Feb 13 2005, 1:20 PM) **Jessica posting** My first time didn't hurt. Don't get grossed out by this, but if you have your guy finger you a lot before you do it...not like right before but I mean like if you guys hang out and stuff and if he fingers you every so often then and then you guys have sex...because of him fingering you it stretches you out. I am pretty sure that's why my first time didn't hurt... :-) that's sorto..... different. 
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Feb 18 2005, 11:40 PM
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Yes. it does. I was 6 when I did it. Hurts like a mothereffer
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Feb 19 2005, 01:05 AM
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wouldnt know... but i heard taht for alot of girls it does =P
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Feb 19 2005, 01:27 AM
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 ambition would be made of stronger stuff Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,098 |
QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Feb 13 2005, 1:51 PM) you'll probably die. so dont do it. yup yup. lmao. and just repeating for like the 100th time, it depends. 
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Feb 19 2005, 12:18 PM
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 School's out...Summer's IN Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,177 |
yeh when he starts entering for the first time it hurts..but all that screaming is unnecessary..it feels good after a while..n ditto to "it depends on the guy"
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Feb 19 2005, 01:11 PM
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 Turn your lights down low... Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 |
Wow whats up with everyone tellin her not to have sex...she never sad she was going to shes just asking a question...so dont give her a bunch of crap she doesnt want to hear.
And like everyone said it depends on how "loose" you are and whether or not your hymen has been broken. For some it doesnt hurt at all and I know some people who had to try a few times before they succeeded becuase of the pain. |
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Feb 19 2005, 01:11 PM
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Turn your lights down low... Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 |
Wow whats up with everyone tellin her not to have sex...she never sad she was going to shes just asking a question...so dont give her a bunch of crap she doesnt want to hear.
And like everyone said it depends on how "loose" you are and whether or not your hymen has been broken. For some it doesnt hurt at all and I know some people who had to try a few times before they succeeded becuase of the pain. EDIT:sorry for the double post |
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| *Weird addiction* |
Feb 19 2005, 01:15 PM
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yep it does
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Feb 19 2005, 02:24 PM
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ask yourself, do you want to die?
i think not 
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| *salcha* |
Feb 19 2005, 05:15 PM
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yeah, a lot of people who do sports probably already have their hymen torn
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Feb 19 2005, 10:26 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(x uHoH iTs Lo x @ Feb 18 2005, 9:40 PM) Yes. it does. I was 6 when I did it. Hurts like a mothereffer are you joking??? if not, im so sorry! |
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Feb 19 2005, 10:42 PM
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Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE Yes. it does. I was 6 when I did it. Hurts like a mothereffer Umm...im hoping you're either joking, or..hmm..yea |
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Feb 19 2005, 10:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
yes i am joking
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Mar 12 2005, 05:49 PM
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 kriz Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,105 |
yea it does da first time (if ur a grl)...unless ur hylm (spelling?) has already been broken somehow..
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