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 Feb 18 2005, 08:12 PM
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 07 isz coming  Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490  |
hmm k theres this grl, i absolutely HATE>> 4 variouz reasons.... she used to be my best friend last yr, but aftr i realized how 2faced she was being, i lost interest in having any contact w/ her
anywyssss, a few days ago she was crying a LOT> n evry1 thought it was because she didnt get the part she wanted in the school play. turns out her dad is going to iraq- i knew he was in the military n all, but i nvr knew he was going..... n now i feel pretty bad for her. i dunno, i want to do something for her, anything... should i 4get evrythng she's done2 me & my friends and just be there for her now or wht?? i dont evn know -how- 2 be there for her cuz we're not real close anymore. sry i just need advice, thnks !!! |
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Feb 18 2005, 08:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,476 |
I think you should help her instead...as she is not doing the right thing,if you still wanna be with her and you want her to be happy with you...
Forgive her...thats the hardest part,but it is also the most powerful... I have a very best friend since 2000,we sticked together every day but i never knew when she started hating me...until 2004 i found her had been stealing my books,my purses,my belongings,and she spread bad messages about me to all other classmates... I can't say i never hate her about that,but my sadness was more than anger,although i show how i dislike her in front of her,i was always wanting to be as close as we were at the beginning... last month i wrote her a letter saying that whatever she had done i still wanna be with her,i was too rude at that time...blablabla,and now?she wrote me back a letter of apology and regret for what she had done...and we are close fds again! Forgiving a person is very difficult,but with your greatest love on her things will get easier... |
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Feb 18 2005, 09:35 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ i agree
be there for her right now, she's probably having a hard time. forgive her |
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Feb 18 2005, 10:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
Just as the Earth can change, so can people. Everyone deserves a second chance to fix their mistakes and she is a person. Be there for her this time. If she screws you over again, Sianara sister!!!
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Feb 18 2005, 10:56 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
it's up to you. but I think you should be there for her at least if you dont want to forgive her.
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Feb 18 2005, 11:09 PM
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The n000bie oneee :D Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,327 |
forgive her
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Feb 19 2005, 05:07 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
let her know you're there for her, if she needs you. if she still doesnt like you/doesnt want your sympathy or w.e (for whatever reason) then let it be
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Feb 19 2005, 05:10 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
you can still not be friends but this is a time of need for her. just be kind to her and be friends just for a little while. it will probably make her feel better during this time. just try to be nice.
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Feb 19 2005, 05:20 PM
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 School's out...Summer's IN Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,177 |
forgive her but dont forget what she has done...let it be a reminder y u stopped befriending her....dont get too close r she just might hurt u again...
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Feb 19 2005, 05:36 PM
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 Vyna Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,332 |
She needs someone right now, so it's a good idea for you to step in and be a hero you know? Though she may turn on you again, in your heart you'd still feel good because you've done a good deed! But doing such favor may change her in a positive way..so who knows?
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Feb 19 2005, 06:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
I would forgive her. She's having a really hard time .. She obviously needs somebody to with her.
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Feb 19 2005, 06:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
I would forgive her. She's having a really hard time .. She obviously needs somebody to with her.
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Feb 19 2005, 07:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
just be her friend for that moment till she's over it....
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