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Why do I still like him?, what can I do?
runforfun529
post Feb 17 2005, 04:41 PM
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About two Mondays ago (the 7th) my boyfriend (ex now) broke up with me. He told me he still cared about me and thought I was hott (yea, that sounded really weird) but he just didn't like me anymore (sounded more of an "excuse" than a reason). His final words were that he hoped I felt better (I was crying really badly). He then called one of his and my mutual friends and told her all about it, while I called one of our mutual friends and just cried. The girl that he talked to told me that he sounded really sad and he felt bad about dumping me. I thought that maybe we could go back to the way things were before we started dating, even though I still liked him. We were really good friends before we got together. I didn't even see him until about 2 days after because our paths don't really cross during the day. During that time, I said hi and he just kept walking and didn't even pay attention, even though I know he heard me. The next time I saw him was 2 days after that. He was going to get some mallets out of the band room while I was at lunch. My friend said something about him and then called his name and all he did was flick off our table. Even through that, I still liked him. Then he wasn't at school on Monday or Tuesday, and yesterday I asked him to please call me so that we could talk about some of the things I had heard (him calling me a bitch and stuff like that) and that we could hopefully just work some stuff out. He never called. I still like him, but he won't even talk about me or to me. I tried calling him about 30 minutes ago and he hung up on me. My friend Carolyn tried to ask him something about our breakup and he just told her to shut up. I really don't know what to do. If I can just talk to him about it, it will be so much better for the both of us, but he won't talk.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 04:45 PM
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you stil like him b/c you cant have him anymore. it'll fade

for gods sake dont get your friends to harass him. thats the most annoying thing hit him. last itme i broke up with my g/f her best friedn hit me. it was not appreciated.

anyway it'll cool off in time. and then you can be his friend. if he still wont have you for a friend... f**k him you deserve better _smile.gif
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 05:14 PM
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from what you just said...you do deserve better. you like him because you still have feelings for him....mainly because the fact that he ended it and not you. if you really want to talk to him...just stop him one day in the hallway instead of just saying "hi." console.gif
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 05:30 PM
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ahh don't worry it'sz totally natural I mean you can't expect yourself to get over him in like two weeksz it'll take sometime, think it over (why do you like him? What's so good about him that other people don't have?) etc. Treat yourself to other things that you never got to do with him ( Go for ice cream, Walk in the Park.) There are other fishesz in the sea, G'luck hun and chin up.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 06:05 PM
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he doesnt deserve you.

do your best to get over him.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 08:47 PM
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Thanks you guys. I just don't know how to stop him in the hall because I can never see him. Btw, I didn't get my friends to harass him, they just went to talk to him on their own. I think I just need to do stuff to relax. Everyone keeps telling me to just forget him because he obviously hates me (great advice, eh?) but I can't, its just so hard, its not like I haven't tried to tell myself all the bad things he has done, its just that, the good things outweigh the bad, at least in my mind.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 08:49 PM
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Think about something else you like whenever you think about him think about the other thing like ice cream. it worked for me ;] you'll get over him
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 09:40 PM
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having your friends consistingly try to talk to him can really be annoying, so back off from that.

anyway, you'll get over him eventually
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 10:29 PM
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stubborn.gif he is a TOTAL jerk. HE was the one who broke up with you so why is HE the one who's flicking you off and insulting you?? you'll get over him... it just takes time _dry.gif
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 10:56 PM
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Girl, get over him. He's obviously is very annoyed by you, so nows the time to wave bye-bye and get a new crush.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 11:10 PM
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QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Feb 17 2005, 10:56 PM)
Girl, get over him. He's obviously is very annoyed by you, so nows the time to wave bye-bye and get a new crush.
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Its really not that easy. And I know hes annoyed with me, but all I want to know is why, like what I did.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 11:15 PM
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its hard when u first break up with ur bf...but u shouldnt bother him anymore....and u should give ur self some time..and try to get over him...and u eventually get over him..
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 06:47 AM
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QUOTE
Its really not that easy. And I know hes annoyed with me, but all I want to know is why, like what I did.


teenage guys are jerks, its the way of the world. we are living proof that females have a sense of humour

he probably just got bored, to be frank. hars hbut fair. either that or on eof his close friends hates you, so they pressured him into it
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 09:16 AM
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its only been 2 weeks , i got over my ex in about 2 moinths.
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 09:58 AM
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people always want what they can't have...it may hurt but it will pass mellow.gif
 

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