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 Feb 3 2005, 12:14 AM
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 -yeah, i*m that good kinda whore-  Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,897  |
my b*f and i have been going out for a lil over 2 months ... we go to different schools, which i guess is cool cause it gives us more privacy ... well i always complain and bug him about cheating, and how i would die if he cheated on me, but he swears up and down he*ll never cheat and he loves me so much! well of course the one weekend i spend away from him i go over to some guys house ... i ended up hooking up with this kid i just met (he*s like a year younger then me, and four years younger then my b*f) at first is was kinda like a joke.. but then i started to realize that i*m kinda like a big whore, i flirt with everyone and make plans with other guys to do stuff ... but then i love my b*f
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 3 2005, 12:17 AM
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i'm not so sure if i'd use the word "love" when it comes to you and your bf cause it doesn't sound like it.
 and i'd stop the cheating/flirting...
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| *Azarel* |
Feb 3 2005, 12:17 AM
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QUOTE(JessyMarie @ Feb 2 2005, 9:14 PM) but then i love my b*f Um. No, you don't.
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Feb 3 2005, 12:44 AM
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if you love him soo much, why would you want to hurt him by cheating?
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Feb 3 2005, 12:49 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I agree with Azarel. You obviously don't love him if you can't even stay true to him. Does he KNOW that you cheated on him? So you think of yourself as a big "whore?" It's going to do A LOT more damage if you don't tell your boyfriend as soon as possible.. waiting and telling him at the last minute will ruin everything.
Maybe, JUST MAYBE, you don't deserve a guy like your boyfriend.. No offense, but if you can't even stay true to him, how can you expect the relationship to last? You get angry at him and accuse him of cheating, yet you go and cheat on him. You're a hypocrite. He'll probably tell you that as well. Pssh, telling someone to not to do something, yet you go and do the thing you told that someone not to do.  Sorry, but I loathe people like you. |
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Feb 3 2005, 01:00 AM
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i agree with everyone. there is no way you could love this guy if you cheated on him and realized you try to do a lot of things with other guys. if i were you.. i'd break up with your boyfriend out of respect for him. do it now so he can move on and you can have your fun. you are young, so you don't have to be tied down. obviously that's not something you aren't mature enough to handle such a serious relationship right now.
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Feb 3 2005, 01:59 AM
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The rapture or the anguish -- you decide! Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,572 |
People flirt all the time, so I have no issues with that. However, if you're in a relationship, there are certain lines you should not cross. You broke, smashed, destroyed and severed that line.
If you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't hook up with other guys. And what you just said is hypocritical. You can't worry about someone cheating if you do it yourself. And maybe it's only me, but dating for over two months usually means a relationship is just starting ... assuming you weren't friends with your boyfriend before the relationship, how can you fall in love with someone in two months? (If you two were friends before the relationship ... how could you do that to him?) End the relationship and move on. It's obvious you're not ready. |
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Feb 3 2005, 03:09 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
like everyone said, you obviously don't love your boyfriend if you would cheat on him. you are a hypocrite, and you should break up with him do you don't hurt him anymore.
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Feb 3 2005, 03:56 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i agree with everyone. you obviously don't love you bf. you're being hypocrtical by bugging him about cheating when you're the one who cheats. you can't commit to relationships either since you've been in a relationship for only two months and you've already cheated on him.
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Feb 3 2005, 06:26 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with everyone, if you said you love your bf alot, then why did you cheat on him?!?! that's going to hurt your bf alot i think you just broke the trust between the both of you.
 like everyone else i think you should just break it off with him
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Feb 3 2005, 03:51 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
why on earth would you do something like that to your boyfriend?
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| *Solipsist* |
Feb 3 2005, 04:00 PM
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You should tell him about how big of a whore you are.
I'm sure he'll understand and not slap you that hard. Then again, I might be wrong. Maybe he'll smack you upside the head - until a chunk of your brain pops out of your nose and your eyeballs fall off - just like how a true pro would do it. THE POINT IS, he deserves to know. - Solipsist |
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Feb 3 2005, 04:40 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE i started to realize that i*m kinda like a big whore, i flirt with everyone and make plans with other guys to do stuff ... but then i love my b*f #1. no s*it ur a slut #2. bullsh*t you love your bf I say you should jump off a building because you obviously dont deserve a man right now. i say your bf should dump YOU cause honestly you are a whore and you dont deserve NE good men. People like you piss me off so I suggest you leave all the good men alone so us good girls can take em. you cheaters...i hate you all.. |
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Feb 3 2005, 04:43 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i dont think theres anything wrong with flirting...just so long as yu dont have interest in tha guy..lols..but cheating on him str8 up? now thas just wrong...how can you call it love when your cheating on tha person yu supposely "love"...people throw that word around too much...(no offense)
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Feb 3 2005, 04:46 PM
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so you are hurting someone you love.......you pimp...you need to tell the truth to your bf
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Feb 3 2005, 04:51 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
sorry girl, but i can't stand cheaters. How can you say that you love this guy, and that you would die if HE cheated on you, but then you turn around and cheat on him?? That is so low. You should tell your boyfriend what you did. Seriously. It's not fair to him. ugh. Don't throw around the word "love" because it is so strong, you have to be so careful on what you say. And it is very obvious that you don't love him, because you want HIM to stay true to YOU, but it's OK for YOU to go out and hook up with guys? man, i really wish i could say somethan and give you some sympathy, but i've been hurt by guys who did exactly what you did wayy too many times. So the point is, Tell him. He needs to know. atleast give him that much respect.
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Feb 3 2005, 05:17 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
do me a favor, please?
shoot urself at point blank range. u don't deserve any guy in the world. u think u know what love is? pfft. |
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Feb 3 2005, 05:21 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
you dont love him. and I wont be suprized when he finds out...and when he does, he's probably never gonna forgive you. If you know he loves you and he wont cheat on you, and you go and cheat on him, you dont deserve him.
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Feb 3 2005, 05:48 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Feb 3 2005, 4:40 PM) #1. no s*it ur a slut #2. bullsh*t you love your bf I say you should jump off a building because you obviously dont deserve a man right now. i say your bf should dump YOU cause honestly you are a whore and you dont deserve NE good men. People like you piss me off so I suggest you leave all the good men alone so us good girls can take em. you cheaters...i hate you all..  ^agreed i think you should just own up and tell him, even if you don't i hope he finds out and you can't blame him if he dumps you, it's your fault in the first place . i mean someone like him doesn't deserve someone like you |
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Feb 3 2005, 06:15 PM
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That's complete BS that you love your boyfriend. Now you wait for him to dump you.
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Feb 3 2005, 07:11 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,113 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 3 2005, 12:49 AM) You're a hypocrite. He'll probably tell you that as well. Pssh, telling someone to not to do something, yet you go and do the thing you told that someone not to do. Sorry, but shes right... |
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Feb 3 2005, 07:18 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
if you 'loved' him, then why wuld u cheat on him.
end urself now u cheating whore. |
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Feb 3 2005, 07:21 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
all i have to say is that i wouldn't want you as my girlfriend.
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Feb 3 2005, 07:22 PM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
all i have to say is that i wouldn't want you as my girlfriend.
EDIT grr! i hate my computer! sorry about the double post! //EDIT |
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Feb 3 2005, 07:29 PM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 630 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,163 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 2 2005, 9:49 PM) I agree with Azarel. You obviously don't love him if you can't even stay true to him. Does he KNOW that you cheated on him? So you think of yourself as a big "whore?" It's going to do A LOT more damage if you don't tell your boyfriend as soon as possible.. waiting and telling him at the last minute will ruin everything. Maybe, JUST MAYBE, you don't deserve a guy like your boyfriend.. No offense, but if you can't even stay true to him, how can you expect the relationship to last? You get angry at him and accuse him of cheating, yet you go and cheat on him. You're a hypocrite. He'll probably tell you that as well. Pssh, telling someone to not to do something, yet you go and do the thing you told that someone not to do. Sorry, but I loathe people like you. Hypocrite!! You don't love your boyfriend. It's actually vice versa. He loves you, and you are a slut that cheated on him. I agree with Christina. I loathe people like you.
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