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If you ever need anyone to listen, you know my AIM. :]
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Feb 15 2005, 08:22 PM
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Uh, well if we're all listening to eachother then who the hell is talking?
A friend can solve your problems. |
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Feb 15 2005, 08:41 PM
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I know how you feel. Everytime I vent to someone they are just like, yeah. They give me no feedback. Or they just stare at me blankly.
Quite annoying. |
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Feb 15 2005, 09:18 PM
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yeah, i kinda feel liek that too.
i feel like i'm always there for my friends liek the time one of them wanted to cut herself, and i talked her out of it. but, when it's my turn, they're just like,"yeah, whatever...your problems aren't mine" so I vent on my xanga, or I just cry myself to sleep |
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Feb 15 2005, 10:15 PM
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Yeah, you wait until the other person is done talking, but it's kinda mean like that... it's ok funky buddha...
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Feb 15 2005, 10:32 PM
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 A.K.A. Simplicityxx Group: Member Posts: 1,878 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,813 |
I don't have many problems, so I listen to my friends and just help with what they need.
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Feb 15 2005, 10:38 PM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Feb 15 2005, 2:36 AM) I don't see you listening.   amen... |
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Feb 15 2005, 10:48 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 15 2005, 4:50 PM) ^^Is it really? I try to, I end up not though. I do, I really do try to listen and help out but its really hard because I myself have my own problems that I want to talk about... meh.. That's a bad mentality. You should WANT to help and listen to him. You shouldn't want to listen to him just so you can use him as a rantbox later. Don't expect anything in return, and you'll get a rep that says "Hey, I listen. I care." and people will recognize that, and listen to you. Just my Two Cents. Of course, I already have a friend that listens to me and vise versa. |
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Feb 15 2005, 10:50 PM
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^^I was sort of being sarcastic on the first sentence. I help people out a lot, its just now that I have my own problems that I msyelf want to rant about people just don't want to listen...
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Feb 15 2005, 10:54 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean. I had the same trouble myself, but I just told her that I couldn't always do this.
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Feb 15 2005, 11:14 PM
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白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 15 2005, 7:50 PM) ^^I was sort of being sarcastic on the first sentence. I help people out a lot, its just now that I have my own problems that I msyelf want to rant about people just don't want to listen... Then make a mental note that those people aren't the best of friends (or even a friend, for that matter.) Xanga's purpose (before the customization frenzy) was to let anonymous people rant and give out their problems, and others will comment and help out. |
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Feb 16 2005, 12:52 AM
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QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Feb 15 2005, 5:22 PM) Uh, well if we're all listening to each other then who the hell is talking? Ilu Eve. 
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Feb 16 2005, 01:28 AM
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QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 14 2005, 11:28 PM) Why is it so damn hard to find someone who can just listen to you vent? Why is it so damn hard to find someone who is willing to just listen and not expect something in return? WHy is it so damn hard to find someone who can listen without butting in and rambling on about thier own situation? I swear, im sure u all already probably know this but geez, if people took just an extra minute each day to listen to each other, rather then be so selfish, then we would seriously be much MUCH better off. it's not hard. i found 6 people that would do that to me. and trust me, they are my best friends. wait, one's my close friend. =p o.o okay, you can tell me bout your problems =/ i wont' say anything but go *nod* lolss! =x |
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Feb 16 2005, 08:49 PM
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i really agree with you. i mean sometimes its so hard to find someone that will listen; and when we finally do.. its like i'm afraid to talk. afraid of what they might think, say, or such. i mean to tell and vent to someone, i think we need trust between that.
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Feb 16 2005, 09:07 PM
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nobody likes to hear anyone complain all the time. try talking/discussing your problems, instead of "venting," which sort of implies ranting/complaining. be willing to listen to others, as well. it's mutual concern that defines friendship. :]
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Feb 16 2005, 09:10 PM
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QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Feb 15 2005, 3:12 AM) isnt that what xanga's original purpose was for? ^  Anyways, im not the person who rambles on and on. I don't even have any problems to start with. But if my friend was talking and complaining, i wouldn't butt in. |
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Feb 17 2005, 08:59 PM
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that's why xanga is there; for me atleast. i feel alot better if i "tell" it to my xanga lol
sometimes i like to talk to myself.... i dont know if i'm just insane or it really helps. |
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Feb 17 2005, 09:03 PM
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you have a good point.
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Feb 18 2005, 02:07 AM
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I agree, all my friends including my classmate are like that kind of person. THey make fun of you and jump out of conclusion. They dont care about anyone converstation and doesnt know the hell i'm talking about. They lack manners, respect, stalkers and selfish. I have a friend who acts like me and take ALL MY closest friends away from so he can be more like " me ". I hate selfish friends who try to be like others. Now, i dont listen to him that much cuz it only make things worse for me cuz if i tell him stuff he would be that " stuff " . isnt is irritating ? He use to be nice, generous, and A PLAIN PERSON. Ever since when i became friends w/ him, he acts totally acts like me. I'm starting to regret being such a great friend to him and he always took advantage of who i am, Now he's getting more acknowledgement and " important " ... blahhhhhhhhh ! i talk too much and grammer errors also .. ! pardon me !!
and more to come ..... i am always there for my friends who need help .. when i need help . they dont even listen or care about it .. they just wanna have fun instead of just helping me out. |
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Feb 18 2005, 02:11 AM
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 *.'.'._gillie_.'.'.* Group: Member Posts: 563 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,217 |
yea i understand the whole needin sum1 to vent to but it duz get annoyin when the person thats ventin to u vents about the same stuff over and over again..and never learns....
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