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 Feb 14 2005, 12:48 AM
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QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Feb 14 2005, 12:36 AM) Eh. I get abused all the time.. ... Get used to it.  .. Meanie. |
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Feb 14 2005, 01:15 AM
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yeah if he repeatedly does that then yes its abuse. i'm sorry to hear that, go get help.
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Feb 14 2005, 01:19 AM
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did that crap crack or hurt you bad? dang.... I mean slapping ain't gonna kill you but a glass of water? mmm.... *thinks* Go tell someone.... who'll believe you or something.
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Feb 14 2005, 09:12 AM
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my english teacher hammered me on the head with a stick.. it hurted so bad... and yes, it's abuse.. x.x" all type of hitting is abuse.. there's physical abuse, emotional abuse, and sexual abuse.. x.x"
i think you are being physically abuse.. maybe you should sneak a videocamera somewhere and tape it if your stepdad ever hits you... x.x" or tell an adult you trust.. NOT your mom.. ><" |
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Feb 14 2005, 09:54 AM
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is it on a regular basis? but anyways, if you cant stand it, then report him. it'll probably be better if you do.
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Feb 14 2005, 11:37 AM
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heh, tell a councelor.
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Feb 14 2005, 12:15 PM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 13 2005, 11:43 PM) Aww  You shouldn't even question this.. Report him. Are you bleeding? Bleeding?From a glass of water? 
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Feb 14 2005, 03:19 PM
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If you did something wrong or didnt do what your stepdad told you to that *unless its unreasonable* then it aint abuse.if he just came home and threw a glass of water on you, then thats abuse.
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Feb 14 2005, 04:53 PM
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that's awful...with intentions to hurt, that is definitly abuse, you need to take a stand. if it ever happens at all like that again, dont sit around and wait you have to do something about it...and nick, didn't she mean the glass..the cup and all?
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Feb 14 2005, 05:27 PM
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i'm sorry
 i really think you should report it or at least tell someone if anyone HURTS you physically that IS abuse - and no, a paper cut does not count... lol my friend thought that was abuse when her bigger brother ACCIDENTALLY gave her a paper cut 
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Feb 14 2005, 06:38 PM
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 the chick who is the alien Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,327 |
it sorta is. If he does it all the time then it definately is. My mom doesnt believe me with my step dad when he verbally abuses me but I learned to ignore it. I dont like him that much
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Feb 14 2005, 06:43 PM
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my mom slaped me a few times, yelled at me many of times, got sh*t thown at me.. i got use to it then i moved out
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Feb 14 2005, 06:58 PM
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get help immediately. that's WRONG.
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Feb 14 2005, 07:05 PM
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report him, or wait till things get worse and report him so he'll get more punishment
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Feb 14 2005, 07:07 PM
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i think it if if he does things like that all the time, but if its just once-in-awhile, i don't think he;ll get in big trouble
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Feb 14 2005, 07:09 PM
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don't you have scars, you don't need to take taht shit from him, first talk to a consuler in school
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Feb 14 2005, 07:11 PM
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i'd try going to ur guidance counselor once the skool gets involved those bastards wont know when to quit trust me worst case scenario would b a restraining order
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Feb 14 2005, 07:25 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
you NEED to tell someone!
it is not right for him to be throwing a glass of water at you. (not even a glass but whenever it is filled with water...)tell your mom and MAKE her believe you. you are her daughter. good luck. 
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Feb 14 2005, 07:54 PM
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QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Feb 14 2005, 1:36 AM) Eh. I get abused all the time.. ... Get used to it. that just isnt right.. theres a millon and one things wrong about that sentence. |
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Feb 14 2005, 07:57 PM
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QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Feb 14 2005, 12:36 AM) Eh. I get abused all the time.. ... Get used to it. yah my parents hit me wiht the "gay mo so" it's this chinese hitting stick with chicker feathers. |
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Feb 15 2005, 08:57 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Does your dad do that all the time? If he did that to you once, then I don't call that an abuse? Wait... nevermind. It's called an abuse if your dad did that.
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