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blackmyeyes
post Feb 13 2005, 11:03 PM
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my stepdad threw a glass of water at me... and he didn't miss... isn't that technically abuse? ermm.gif



i wanna get him in trouble. i refuse to take that BS....


and my mom won't believe me... she always takes his side
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:06 PM
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How often does he abuse you ? IF he does crap to you every week, that's abusing .. if he does crap to you once in a while, then that's okay.
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:06 PM
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Isn't all hitting abuse? My teacher says, even hitting for discpline can be abusing. Learn to use words, not physical ability to teach your child a lesson.

or, uh, something like that.

My grandma once whacked me because I wouldn't let go of the phone. GOSH DARNIT, I WAS TRYING TO SAY GOODBYE AS SHE HUNG ME UP!
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:08 PM
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eh... whenever i make him too mad or make my sister cry, i ususally get the crap beaten out of me... that's not discpline... that's messed up... it's not my fault she's a drama queen.. you can like tap her and she'll cry... it's not hard to make her cry lol (she's just 6 but still)
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:08 PM
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Isn't all hitting abuse? My teacher says, even hitting for discpline can be abusing. Learn to use words, not physical ability to teach your child a lesson.

or, uh, something like that.

My grandma once whacked me because I wouldn't let go of the phone. GOSH DARNIT, I WAS TRYING TO SAY GOODBYE AS SHE HUNG ME UP
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As long she is still a good person.

My Mom always spank me every week and she blame everything on me when i didnt do anything. That's call " abusing " but she stop doing it.

HELL IS GONE _smile.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:10 PM
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QUOTE(blackmyeyes @ Feb 13 2005, 11:08 PM)
eh... whenever i make him too mad or make my sister cry, i ususally get the crap beaten out of me... that's not discpline... that's messed up... it's not my fault she's a drama queen.. you can like tap her and she'll cry... it's not hard to make her cry lol (she's just 6 but still)
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My grandma was screaming at me because.. I just said I missed Vanna. (This little baby that was our neighbour's. She went to hong kong) And she started yelling.. wtf?! mellow.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:10 PM
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Sounds like abuse to me.
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:13 PM
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if he does this alot...and it's a habit, then it's abuse..if it's once in a while then no, it's not "technically abuse". happy.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:13 PM
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Yes, that is considered abuse. How can someone 'beating the crap out of you' on a regular basis not be abuse? There are laws against what your step dad is doing to you, you should report him. Take care and good luck
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:15 PM
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i say...kill him while hes sleeping and eat him for dinner ^_^...

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no, but seriously, i am sorry about your situation...thats pretty bad...you should tell another adult like a teacher or something about it....i remember when i was in elementary schol...this one girl's dad used to hang her up the ceiling with rope tied around her wrist..n whipped her..so her wrists would have all these marks...pretty horrible.
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:16 PM
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^ ohmy.gif that is horrible cry.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:21 PM
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QUOTE(llpurpleskyll @ Feb 13 2005, 11:15 PM)
i say...kill him while hes sleeping and eat him for dinner ^_^...

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no, but seriously, i am sorry about your situation...thats pretty bad...you should tell another adult like a teacher or something about it....i remember when i was in elementary schol...this one girl's dad used to hang her up the ceiling with rope tied around her wrist..n whipped her..so her wrists would have all these marks...pretty horrible.
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I agree with the killing him while hes sleeping, then eat him for dinner. hehe.gif

Oh, that's horrible. What his dad did to his dauhter in the elementry school thing.. That's sad. =\
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:23 PM
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I hope he ain't drunk or something... LOL jk jk tell your mom... i hope she'll belive you though...
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:29 PM
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actually he's not sober at all... he's usually trashed or high or somehow really messed up... he's pretty twisted... he strapped himself up to the novacaine machine and turned it up on high and zoned out for a while... how sick is that??



and it's not a daily basis... i pretty much avoid him so it's not that often... that's why i'm usually on the computer... i feel safer...
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:35 PM
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...You should really report him. That's unsafe...
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:39 PM
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i am tomorrow... i'm gonna go to my school and say i'm not comfortable at home anymore
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:39 PM
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report his ass! immediately..you dont need that kind of shit..
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:41 PM
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QUOTE(blackmyeyes @ Feb 13 2005, 11:39 PM)
i am tomorrow... i'm gonna go to my school and say i'm not comfortable at home anymore
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i'm never comfortable at home. Even if only few rough things goes around. cry.gif I need to learn how to live!
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:43 PM
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Like others said, you should DEFINTELY tell someone. He's hurting you physically, maybe even mentally! And it's not right... that's child abuse. Don't take that kind of bs from him! Remember that no one is allowed to hurt you (um.. unless it's the government or cops because you committed a felany and they shoot a bullet at you) or abuse you in any way (unless you wanted them to... mellow.gif ).

Aww console.gif You shouldn't even question this.. Report him. Are you bleeding?
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:45 PM
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no but he's hit me and i did bleed for it fallen.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:46 PM
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You should tell someone pinch.gif aww that's horrbile. I hope you feel better
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:52 PM
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o gosh..my dad did that at me too..but instead it hit me..but i dont think u can do anything about it...once when my family had a problem like this and the police came, they said its not abuse b/c we r still minors and thats how our parents r making us listen to them...im not sure but they said something like that...and i hope u feel better...i understand what ur going through..i went through the same thing as you..
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 12:08 AM
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Yeah, get help immediatley, call a hotline, the police or tell anyone you know who is responsible, trust-worthy and who would believe you
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 12:12 AM
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if he beats the crap out of you, like you say, the yes, THATS ABUSE.


you nedd to contact anyone, a schhol counseler even. Throwing glass at you qualifies.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 12:36 AM
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Eh. I get abused all the time..

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Get used to it.
 
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