love hurts<3, i kno its stupid, but i need help! |
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 Feb 12 2005, 11:11 PM
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i like my friend brent. well more than like, love, at least thats what my hearts telling me. ive told him i like him. i even called him and told him and confessed a few things in person. he seems to like me too. he was gonna ask me out at one point, but i didnt know it then. the only problem is he has a girlfriend. he never told me and basically led me on...i found out about his gf by myself. i tell myself every night "i can live being his friend. i exaggerate things too much" but once i see him and his girlfriend my heart breaks everytime and i get all depressed again. i get mad at him a lot but once im with him in person i cant help but apologize 4 everything. i dont know what to do. should i just give up on him? or should i really tell him how i feel and how much hes hurt me cuz i dont think hes getting the picture even though ive confronted him about it.
XOXO kellerbeller U dOnT dO iT oN pUrPoSe BuT u MaKe Me ShAkE |
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Feb 12 2005, 11:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
For me..for someone who leads me on when they are taken, I would smack him in the face because that's what he deserves.
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Feb 12 2005, 11:26 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
honey...i don't think that you're getting the picture...he has a girlfriend, you admit that he's leading you on and when you get mad at him, you apologize...
you have no reason to apologize, he's the ass that led you on, you have a right to be mad...this is just going to hurt you and he seems like a horrible friend...break it off as soon as you can...the more you let this go on, the more hurt you'll end up trust me 
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Feb 12 2005, 11:34 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
QUOTE honey...i don't think that you're getting the picture...he has a girlfriend, you admit that he's leading you on and when you get mad at him, you apologize... you have no reason to apologize, he's the ass that led you on, you have a right to be mad...this is just going to hurt you and he seems like a horrible friend...break it off as soon as you can...the more you let this go on, the more hurt you'll end up trust me Yeah, I agree with chii. |
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Feb 12 2005, 11:34 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
 Love DOES hurt.Well, just follow what your heart says. you don't exactly have to give up being friends with him. You could talk to him about how you feel - open up to him. Maybe he'll understand. Like you said, if he likes you, too, wouldn't he dumb his girlfriend for you? I give bad advice.  Sorry. Feel better.
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Feb 12 2005, 11:36 PM
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 sugar coated bombs on your head Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,249 |
QUOTE(kellerbeller @ Feb 12 2005, 8:11 PM) but once i see him and his girlfriend my heart breaks everytime and i get all depressed again.  ^I know exactly how that feels... except it was with an ex-girlfriend who i'm still friends with. Unfortunately the only way I have found to make it better is to forget about it all and start over. i know it sucks but hes probably not just going to dump his gf for you. so unless something crazy happens like he suddently breaks up with his gf or something, i suggest you try to forget it. although, if you just wait then eventually he'll break up with her anyway, but that may or may not happen soon. i hope you feel better about the whole thing, dont let it get to you. |
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Feb 12 2005, 11:53 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(chii @ Feb 12 2005, 6:26 PM) honey...i don't think that you're getting the picture...he has a girlfriend, you admit that he's leading you on and when you get mad at him, you apologize... you have no reason to apologize, he's the ass that led you on, you have a right to be mad...this is just going to hurt you and he seems like a horrible friend...break it off as soon as you can...the more you let this go on, the more hurt you'll end up trust me i agree...its better if u let go of him and find someone else..theres many other boys in this world thats better than him.. |
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Feb 12 2005, 11:56 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(chii @ Feb 12 2005, 11:26 PM) honey...i don't think that you're getting the picture...he has a girlfriend, you admit that he's leading you on and when you get mad at him, you apologize... you have no reason to apologize, he's the ass that led you on, you have a right to be mad...this is just going to hurt you and he seems like a horrible friend...break it off as soon as you can...the more you let this go on, the more hurt you'll end up trust me Not to be a johnny-come-lately, but I must agree too. She hit the nail on the head with that one. |
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Feb 13 2005, 12:02 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
i think you shouldnt forget him..you said he liked you and almost about to ask you out..that means he had feelings before..and if you continue to talk to him...one day he'll break up with his gf..and his old feelings for you might be revalitize. =]
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Feb 13 2005, 12:07 AM
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heyy, do both. tell him you know bout the girl, how much it hurts you n then break it off.. his reaction will either be denial or bs charm, either way he seems like a liar. i dont know him personally so its not easy for me to jus say that but thats the impression i get. if he's otherwise then do wat ur heart tells u, not ur mind. if he hurts u alot emotionally i dont think its worth it cuz.. from experience its jus gona be a routine building up n u will get hurt more n more til its unbearable in the end. it sounds dramatic but it happens when u end up with guys like that.
however! shit happens u know? but so do go things :) so time will heal k? he could break up with his gf n go for u :) but i recomment u dont get with him so fast after he breaks off with his gf cuzz its too easy. anyway i hope u figure out wat to do hang in there ok :) but no matter wat he has to know u know n how u feel.. |
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Feb 13 2005, 01:30 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I think you should tell him how you feel and see his reaction..
and i also agree with chii |
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Feb 13 2005, 02:58 AM
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 the chick who is the alien Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,327 |
thats how i was like with my friend. I finally said screw it. Ill be by myself. I found someone though and im very happy with him. i try not to think about the past
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Feb 13 2005, 03:13 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
stickes n stones can break ur bones.. but love hurts the most...
>.<..........i feel ur pain |
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Feb 13 2005, 04:02 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
If you like him, and he doesn't like you but likes his girlfriend, there's nothing you can do about it.
But that boy needs to get his priorities straight. |
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Feb 13 2005, 09:59 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
wtf. he led u on. and u apologize? u should kick his ass..
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Feb 13 2005, 10:34 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
Love hurts but that's life, some were meant to be and others weren't
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Feb 13 2005, 11:13 AM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
that's happened kind of to me before. let time go by, you'll eventually get over him.
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Feb 13 2005, 08:43 PM
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QUOTE(chii @ Feb 12 2005, 8:26 PM) honey...i don't think that you're getting the picture...he has a girlfriend, you admit that he's leading you on and when you get mad at him, you apologize... you have no reason to apologize, he's the ass that led you on, you have a right to be mad...this is just going to hurt you and he seems like a horrible friend...break it off as soon as you can...the more you let this go on, the more hurt you'll end up trust me i completely agree. as hard as it is, you have to try and let go and move on. good luck. 
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Feb 13 2005, 10:00 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE i like my friend brent. well more than like, love, at least thats what my hearts telling me. honestly I think thats a bunch of bull. he has a gf, so forget about him. dont be those stupid girls that take a taken man. |
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Feb 14 2005, 03:21 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
he's being an ass. specifically a player. get over him.
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Feb 14 2005, 01:53 PM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
Love hurts and it sux.
I <3 Jackie I <3 Christina I <3 Kim. Where yall at?!?! IM or call me up darn it! |
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Feb 14 2005, 04:35 PM
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 ^ I might look scary but i'm the nicest person in cb! Group: Member Posts: 1,364 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,979 |
love hurt
haha i use to think love hurt when ppl have sex and it hurt. That why ppl scream like crazy when they have sex. ya love hurt emotionally and physically (abuse) |
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Feb 14 2005, 05:52 PM
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 bad apple Group: Member Posts: 168 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,009 |
everyone here is exactly right. Take up a hobby to get your mind off of what he did to you ... like kickboxing
 (picture its his head your aiming for) or maybe dance! Not only would it be fun, but it would be healthy. But .. yea. Forget about him. He's a loser and he is just trying to be a playa. Get as many girls as he can, without any of them figuring about the others. Love can hurt, but when you find the right person .. it won't hurt nearly as much. Keep smiling, it looks good on ya! 
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Feb 15 2005, 04:02 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,401 |
just so everyone knows i do take dance! 10 YEARS BABY GO ME!!! it helps most definitely lol. so dont worry i already have a hobby
XOXO kellerbeller |
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Feb 15 2005, 04:45 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
Punch him. Right in the balls. He doesnt deserve you....he hsouldnt have lead you on like that.
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