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girls and lesbian/bisexual friends, are you ok with lesbian friends?
myownhappyending
post Oct 14 2007, 06:47 PM
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When I was in middle school I came out to my friends and began dating a girl (I'm female if you haven't guessed yet). I had some heartbreak over that, and I have not dated anyone, guy or girl since. Many of my friends who knew me then, have avoided the subject of me liking women. I feel really self-concious around them now and am always worried that they will think I am attracted to them or hitting on them when I could NEVER think that about my friends. What makes it worse is we have a hotel-stay during the year and I am in a room with 3 other women and I am always worried they think I am staring at them!

I guess I am curious about how other girls respond to their friends or would respond to their friends if they were lesbian or bisexual. Would you be suspicious of behaviour? Would you be ok staying in a room with them?
 

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myownhappyending   girls and lesbian/bisexual friends   Oct 14 2007, 06:47 PM
kimchikimi   i have gay and lesbian friends. id never treat my ...   Oct 14 2007, 06:52 PM
Dianavontease   Im bisexual.And i used to have some bitchass frien...   Oct 14 2007, 07:04 PM
RAWRstephishere   Id be okay with it, because I know they dont like ...   Oct 14 2007, 07:05 PM
TheReasonWhy   one of my best friend is a lesbian and i used to g...   Oct 17 2007, 10:55 PM
misoshiru   yeah i'm completely fine. then again, i'm...   Oct 17 2007, 11:10 PM
nosylilme   I had and still have friends who are bi. I never f...   Oct 17 2007, 11:13 PM
misoshiru   while still thinking about that, i'm probably ...   Oct 17 2007, 11:28 PM
Steven   ^would you eat another girl out?   Oct 17 2007, 11:57 PM
misoshiru   i've never ate a girl out before, but i don...   Oct 18 2007, 12:01 AM
madgamer   I wouldn't judge my friends by their sexual or...   Oct 18 2007, 12:50 AM
alovesopure   I have quite a few bi/lesbian friends. It doesn...   Oct 18 2007, 12:56 AM
jammylise   I have no problem with Gay people. Who cares? My b...   Oct 18 2007, 02:42 AM
S-Majere   I have had several bisexual or gay friends and it ...   Oct 18 2007, 07:10 AM
littleswallow   I don't really mind having lesbian or bisexual...   Oct 18 2007, 07:17 AM
stolen   Well...I wouldn't mind about bisexuality or Le...   Oct 18 2007, 09:40 AM
jeanna   i have a lesbian friend. she came out in high scho...   Oct 18 2007, 11:22 AM
Synesthesia   I don't have any lesbian friends currently, bu...   Oct 18 2007, 03:03 PM
LilbabyZakuro   I'm cool with my gay and bisexual friends.   Oct 18 2007, 04:35 PM
karmakiller   It doesn't bother me. The only way that it...   Oct 18 2007, 08:05 PM
stephinika   I don't have any actually, but honestly, I wou...   Oct 19 2007, 03:51 AM
Sandraaa   I told my friends that I was bisexual BUT that I w...   Oct 23 2007, 09:04 AM
LimeStickyNotes   the only reason I hesitated in telling my friends ...   Oct 23 2007, 11:53 AM
barbieeedollxo   i have plenty of gay and lesbians friends. i don...   Oct 23 2007, 12:19 PM


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