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[vietbabiiix3]

My boyfriend and I have been going out for five months now. He's a really awesome guy, and he cares for me a lot. However, in his past relationship, his ex-girlfriend had hurt him a lot when she dumped him for another guy. So, he's really sensitive and emotional. And in turn, he would tell me that if I ever broke up with him, he would 'hurt himself' or 'there's no point in living' without me, etc. Whenever we got in a huge argument before, he had cut himself before and even cried. I think he is crazy in love with me.

Anyway, I don't know how to pull away from this. I feel awkward when I'm with him. I don't get that feeling when I'm with him. I feel so bad, because it's so unfair to him at times, seeing how much he cares for me, but in return, I don't give out much. He never gave me the feeling that I got when I was with my ex-boyfriend.

We just don't fit together, and other people may seem to think that we're the perfect couple, but in reality, I don't feel for him the way he feels for me. So I don't know whether I should continue on with this relationship or not, and if I decide to just end it, I'm so afraid of the things he might do to himself.

A few months before, I had already tried to break up with him, but I didn't know what to say, because I really didn't want to hurt him. Am I confusing anyone? Because this whole thing is confusing me myself.

I think I am such an ass for saying all this...