help with my skin Options

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<style type="text/css">

input.whateverlife3 {color: ffffff !important;
background-image:url("");
font-size:8pt !important;
width:200px !important;
height:15px !important;
font-family: 'Lucida Grande' !important;
background-color: 000000 !important;
border-color:ff3399 !important;
border-width:1px !important;
border-style:solid !important;
letter-spacing:0px !important;
text-transform:uppercase !important;
line-height:7px !important;
font-weight: bold !important;}

textarea.whateverlife2{
background-image:url("http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/ashbernie311/welife/tvnoise_animated.gif");
background-color:yellow!important;
width:200px !important;
height:60px !important;
font-family: 'Lucida Grande' !important;
color: ffffff !important;
line-height:17px !important;
font-size:18px !important;
border-color:ff3399 !important;
border-style:solid !important;
border-width:1px !important;
letter-spacing:-2px !important;
font-weight:bold !important;
}</style></center>



<style type="text/css">

body
{background-color: ff0066;}

</style>



<style type="text/css">
table {direction:rtl;}
table table table {direction:ltr;}
</style>



<style type="text/css"> .contacttable {display:none;} table table td img {display:none;} table table table td img {display:inline;} table td td {width:0px;} table {width:450px;} table table {width:auto;} table table td {padding:15px;} table table table td {padding:0px;} table table table {width:220px !important; height:0px;} td.text td a img {width:auto !important;} table table table table table, table table table table table td { width:0px !important; padding:0px !important;} td.text a img {width:100px !important;} td.text td.text a img {width:150px !important;} td td td div strong {width:170px !important; display:block;} textarea, input, font, a, table, td, div, b {font-size:8pt !important;} span {font-size:8pt !important;} embed, object {display:block; width:220px; height:38px;} .orangetext15, .blacktext10 { display:block; width:110px; font-size:8pt !important;} td.text td.text .orangetext15, td.text td.text table table div {display:visible;} </style><style type="text/css">
td.text td.text table table table, td.text td.text table br, td.text td.text table .orangetext15, td.text td.text .redlink, td.text td.text span.btext {overflow: visible; display:visible;}

body table div font a, body table div div {visbility:visible;}
body table table div font a, body table table div div {visibility:visible;}

<style>
.redbtext, .redtext {display:visible;}
</style><style type="text/css">
td.text td.text table table table, td.text td.text table br, td.text td.text table .orangetext15, td.text td.text .redlink, td.text td.text span.btext {display:visible;}
td.text td.text table {background-color:transparent;}
td.text td.text table td, td.text td.text table {height:0;padding:0;border:0;}
td.text td.text table table td {padding:3;}
td.text td.text table table br {display:inline;}
</style><style type="text/css">
table t..
table tbody td table tbody tr td.text table table, table tbody td table tbody tr td.text table table tbody td.text {visibility:visible;}
.up{position:absolute; top: 190px;}</style><style type="text/css">
body, html {visibility:visible !important; display:block !important}

</style><style type="text/css"> .contacttable {display:none;} table table td img {display:visible;} table table table td img {display:inline;} table td td {width:0px;} table {width:550px;} table table {width:auto;} table table td {padding:3px;} table table table td {padding:0px;} table table table {width:220px !important; height:0px;} td.text td a img {width:auto !important;} table table table table table, table table table table table td { width:0px !important; padding:0px !important;} td.text a img {width:130px !important;} td.text td.text a img {width:55px !important;} td td td div strong {width:170px !important; display:block;} textarea, input, font, a, table, td, div, b {font-size:8pt !important;} span {font-size:8pt !important;} embed, object {display:block; width:220px; height:38px;} .orangetext15, .blacktext10 { display:block; width:110px; font-size:8pt !important;} td.text td.text .orangetext15, td.text td.text table table div {display:none;} </style><style type="text/css">p {align=justify}
body{cursor: url(http://content.cometsystems.com/czcontent/cursors/tinyh.cur);}
a {cursor: url(http://content.cometsystems.com/czcontent/cursors/tinyh.cur);}
</style><style type="text/css">
.contacttable {display: none;}
</style><style type="text/css">
.. </style><style type='text/css'>td.text td.text td td a, .redlink, td.text td.text td b a {visibility:visible!important;}td.text td.text td a {visibility:hidden;}</style><style type="text/css">
input, form, td.text input, td input {visibility: visible !important;}
</style><style type="text/css">
td.text a img {
width: 130px !important;}
td.text td.text a img {
width: 60px !important;}
</style><style type="text/css">
textarea {background-color:none; background-image:url(http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b336/brynneverbel/yea.jpg);
border-width:0px; border-style:;
border-color: none; color: black;
font-family:arial;} input {background-color: none;
border-width:0px; border-style:double;
border-color: none; color: black;
font-family:arial;}
</style><style type="text/css">
body, html {visibility:visible !important; display:block !important}
</style>


<style type="text/css">
td.text td.text table table table, td.text td.text table br, td.text td.text table .orangetext15, td.text td.text .redlink, td.text td.text span.btext {display:none;}
td.text td.text table {background-color:transparent;}
td.text td.text table td, td.text td.text table {height:0;padding:0;border:0;}
td.text td.text table table td {padding:3;}
td.text td.text table table br {display:inline;}
</style>


</td></tr></table><table style='display:none'><tr><td>

<style type="text/css">
table td table tr td.text table {visibility:hidden;}
table td table tr td.text table table, table td table tr td.text table table td.text {visibility:visible;}
td.text table {position:relative; top:-180px;}
td.text table table {position:static;}

</style>

<Style type="text/css" source="http://www.strikefile.com/" author="Thomas Zwaagstra">
body, div, p, strong, td, .text, .blacktext10, .blacktext12, a.searchlinkSmall, a.searchlinkSmall:link, a.searchlinkSmall:visited{
color:rgb(0,0,0);
font-size:8pt;
font-weight:normal;
font-style:normal;
text-decoration:none;
text-transform:none;
font-family:arial,sans-serif;
}

.orangetext15, strong, .lightbluetext8, .whitetext12, .nametext, .btext, .redtext, .redbtext{
color:rgb(153,0,153);
font-size:8pt;
font-weight:bold;
font-style:normal;
text-decoration:none;
text-transform:none;
font-family:arial,sans-serif;
}

a, a font, a:link, a:visited, a.navbar, a.navbar:link, a.navbar:visited, a.man, a.man:link, a.man:visited, a.man font, a.redlink, a.redlink:visited{
color:rgb(0,0,0);
font-weight:normal;
font-style:normal;
text-decoration:none;
text-transform:none;
font-family:arial,sans-serif;
}

a:hover, a:hover font, a:active, a.navbar:hover, a.navbar:active, a.man:hover, a.man:active, a.man:hover font, a.searchlinkSmall:hover, a.searchlinkSmall:active, a.redlink:hover, a.redlink:hover{
color:rgb(0,0,0);
font-size:8pt;
font-weight:normal;
font-style:normal;
text-decoration:none;
text-transform:none;
font-family:arial,sans-serif;
}

body{
scrollbar-face-color:rgb(153,0,153);
scrollbar-base-color:rgb(153,0,153);
scrollbar-3dlight-color:rgb(0,0,0);
scrollbar-shadow-color:rgb(0,0,0);
scrollbar-darkshadow-color:rgb(0,0,0);
scrollbar-highlight-color:rgb(0,0,0);
scrollbar-track-color:rgb(0,0,0);
scrollbar-arrow-color:rgb(0,0,0);
}

</style>

this is it but what i need help on is what i shud add in or erase to make that box pop back up that lets you message me and whatnot...where it says send message, add as a friend, etc.

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