div box/ video player problem... Options

[xxhellhathnofury...]

OK, so I want my site to look like [this] but with a video player...but when I put in the code for a video player, I get [this]. Both sites are mine.
Here's the code I'm using...I'll just put the dix box so you don't have to sort through 20 pages of script...

CODE

<div style=" background: #ffffff;
background-image: url();
background-repeat: repeat;
background-position: top left;
background-attachment: fixed;
BORDER-RIGHT: 1px solid #000000;
BORDER-LEFT: 1px solid #000000;
BORDER-top: 1px solid #000000;
BORDER-bottom: 1px solid #000000;
width: 423px; height: 100%;"><FONT style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT: normal 7px small fonts; LINE-HEIGHT: 15px; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">
<img src="http://img508.imageshack.us/img508/1236/sum36gc.png"><br><a href="http://www.xanga.com">XANGA</a> +
<a href= "http://www.xanga.com/CLAF"> LOOK & FEEL</a> +
<a href="http://www.xanga.com/signin.aspx">   SIGN IN</a> +
<a href="http://www.xanga.com/private">   PRIVATE</a> +
<a href="http://www.xanga.com/Private/SubscribeTo.aspx?user=ash_x0x0"> ADD ME?</a> +
<a href="http://www.xanga.com/private/subs.aspx"> SUBS</a> +
<a  href="http://www.xanga.com/logout.aspx?mode=logout"> SIGN OUT</a><BR>
<img src="http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y5/xxhellhathnofuryxx/june13060032.jpg" width="241" border="1px black" align=left>
<FONT style="FONT-WEIGHT: italic; FONT: normal 15px georgia; LINE-HEIGHT: 13px; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; color: #FF97B6"><i>scream</i></font><FONT style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT: normal 9px small fonts; LINE-HEIGHT: 10px; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; color: #DD9DFF">: <b>Ashlee</b></font><br>
<FONT style="FONT-WEIGHT: italic; FONT: normal 15px georgia; LINE-HEIGHT: 13px; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; color: #FF97B6"><i>born</i></font><FONT style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT: normal 9px small fonts; LINE-HEIGHT: 10px; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; color: #DD9DFF">: <b>04-06-1989</b></font><br>
<FONT style="FONT-WEIGHT: italic; FONT: normal 15px georgia; LINE-HEIGHT: 13px; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; color: #FF97B6"><i>sex</i></font><FONT style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT: normal 9px small fonts; LINE-HEIGHT: 10px; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt; color: #DD9DFF">:<b> female</b></font><br>
<object id="darkplayer" codeBase="http://activex.microsoft.com/activex/controls/mplayer/en/nsmp2inf.cab#Version=5,1,52,701" type="application/x-oleobject" height="106" standby="Loading Microsoft Windows Media Player components..." width="170" classid="CLSID:22d6f312-b0f6-11d0-94ab-0080c74c7e95"><Br>
<param NAME VALUE>
<param NAME="ShowControls" VALUE="0">
<param NAME="ShowStatusBar" VALUE="0">
<param NAME="ShowDisplay" VALUE="0">
<param NAME="DefaultFrame" VALUE="Slide">
<param NAME="Autostart" VALUE="1">
<param NAME="Loop" VALUE="False">
</object>
<form name="form"><table align="center">
<select style="WIDTH: 110; height:10" name="playlist" size="1">
<option value="0">gasolina</option>
<option value="1">let u go</option>
<option value="2">the geeks get the girls</option>
</select><Br>
<input TYPE="BUTTON" NAME="darkplay" VALUE="play" OnClick="play(document.forms['form'].playlist);">
<input TYPE="BUTTON" NAME="darkpause" VALUE="pause" OnClick="document.darkplayer.pause(); playstate=2;">
<input TYPE="BUTTON" NAME="darkstop" VALUE="stop" OnClick="document.darkplayer.stop(); playstate=2;"></form>
<script language="JavaScript">
<!--
var playstate = 1;
shuffle = 0;  // set to 0 to always play first song in list
              // set to 1 to randomly choose the first song to play
// www.xanga.com/smartypants91780
  // unlimited songs, just copy and paste the song line and change the number
songs=new Array();
songs[0]="http://videocodes4u.com/video/file_36504.asx"
songs[1]="http://videocodes4u.com/video/file_47383.asx"
songs[2]="http://videocodes4u.com/video/file_34225.asx"
if (shuffle == 1) {
var randsg = Math.floor(Math.random()*songs.length);
document.darkplayer.FileName = songs[randsg];
document.darkplayer.scr = songs[randsg];
document.forms['form'].playlist.options[randsg].selected = true;
}
function play(list) {
if (playstate == 2) {
document.darkplayer.Play();
} else {
var snum = list.options[list.selectedIndex].value
document.darkplayer.FileName = songs[snum];
document.darkplayer.scr = songs[snum];
}
playstate = 1;
}
//--></script><br><img src="http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y5/xxhellhathnofuryxx/june13060036.jpg" width="48" border="1px black">
<img src="http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y5/xxhellhathnofuryxx/june13060035.jpg" width="48" border="1px black">
<img src="http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y5/xxhellhathnofuryxx/june13060034.jpg" width="48" border="1px black">
<br><BR>
</div>


</CENTER></DIV>

Please help me!