help with music please, an error message with real player Options

[scoffalot]

Everytime I enter my site
I keep getting an error message with real player saying

A general error has ocurred
http://www.xanga.com/Private/width=0
More information is available at the Real Networks Customer blady blah

-_- i'm sorry to be so newbish, but I can't get it to stop and it hella pisses me off

and also my songs will only play if you hit the refresh button >.<

someone please help???

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