Really, what is he trying to do? Options

[xj_liana_tx]

I have a really big crush on this guy, and he seems really honest (on relationship thing) to me, but today, i was just asking a friend if he flirts with this girl (who i think he might like because she is prettier, preppier, dresses much better than me, and she is much better at cheerleading, furthermore she is mixed, but she is dumber) in class, and she said that he sort of does because they talk in the beginning of class (He talks to her more than he talks to me, far more), and she also told me that she heard that he made out with some girls at homecoming (he is probably always wasted at dances). It gets me really jealous even if he wasn't really flirting, and i get into a really bad mood because it makes me wonder if he was just getting my hopes really high for fun

(refer back to this topic http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=62007 where it explains how he got my attention)


I really like this guy and i just feel really low right now because of these things my friend told me (it's not unbelievable)
What do you think he is trying to do?
I am really confused, and since our valentines' day dance is canceled, that's less chance for me to get to know his true feelings.
Please tell me what you think, i am feeling desperate because everything seems to be on the bad side right now.
Thanks.

[Xprezsion]

Hey, I know exactly what you are going through. I like this guy and he is a year older than me. I met him last year and we said hi and made small talk and he hugged me and defended me against these guys that were bothering me, so I thought he really liked me. But he is the hot type that is really popular and flirts with every hot girl in the school. So my friend over heard him ask this other girl who is in his grade and is more popular and prettier that me to be his valentine and I was really crushed. Since then for about a week I haven't spoken to him even when it is obvious we made eye contact. It pains me to see him, because of how hurt I feel, I'm trying to get over him because I know nothing will ever be, I don't even think we are friends anymore. On valentine's day I was going to give him a box of chocolate and tell him how I feel, but now I decided that would be a bad idea in my situation. If it is possible, you could try that if the time is right, otherwise try to move on and forget about him. Sorry I wrote like an essay, goodluck with everything!

[xj_liana_tx]

Hey, I know exactly what you are going through.  I like this guy and he is a year older than me.  I met him last year and we said hi and made small talk and he hugged me and defended me against these guys that were bothering me, so I thought he really liked me.  But he is the hot type that is really popular and flirts with every hot girl in the school.  So my friend over heard him ask this other girl who is in his grade and is more popular and prettier that me to be his valentine and I was really crushed.  Since then for about a week I haven't spoken to him even when it is obvious we made eye contact.  It pains me to see him, because of how hurt I feel, I'm trying to get over him because I know nothing will ever be, I don't even think we are friends anymore.  On valentine's day I was going to give him a box of chocolate and tell him how I feel, but now I decided that would be a bad idea in my situation.  If it is possible, you could try that if the time is right, otherwise try to move on and forget about him.  Sorry I wrote like an essay, goodluck with everything!

that's exactly how i feel, i am trying to find the right opportunity, but... it seems like forever. It hurts me so much whenever he is talking to some other girls..