Jealous boyfriend Options

[COLDasICE]

My problem is that my boyfriend is to the point where he's really caught up on being his jealous old self and I dont really like it because it makes me push him away and it makes me soo mad. When I talk about a guy friend the first question he'd always ask "Do you like him? Do you think he's cute?".. The first couple of times he started doing that were okay because it was a joke you know, but it got to that point where he was really serious about it and he knows that he really hurts my feelings when he does that to me but he still continues to talk about it and he wont stop until I cry. And when I cry that's when he stops the whole thing and apologize. But then the next time, he does it all over again.. I mean he knows that I love him and all but I dont really see the reason why he still feel the need to ask me when he tells me he loves me back and trusts me. He tells me that he just doesn't trust the guy but I mean it takes 2 to tango right?? This whole thing has been going on for like a few months and I'm really fed up with all that. I keep telling him how I feel towards that and still he keeps doing it... Last night, I told him that if it ever comes up again then I think it's time that we should just go on our separate ways because I don't really deserve that out of a relationship... Oh may I add that it's not always about a guy friend or any guy but he talks about me too.. Like when I want to dress nice he's against it but it's not like I show anything really sexy or whatnot but rather casual/dressy than I usually dress.. Love isn't fair...

Errr.. I dunno what else to do now...

[mznina]

My problem is that my boyfriend is to the point where he's really caught up on being his jealous old self and I dont really like it because it makes me push him away and it makes me soo mad. When I talk about a guy friend the first question he'd always ask "Do you like him? Do you think he's cute?".. The first couple of times he started doing that were okay because it was a joke you know, but it got to that point where he was really serious about it and he knows that he really hurts my feelings when he does that to me but he still continues to talk about it and he wont stop until I cry. And when I cry that's when he stops the whole thing and apologize. But then the next time, he does it all over again.. I mean he knows that I love him and all but I dont really see the reason why he still feel the need to ask me when he tells me he loves me back and trusts me. He tells me that he just doesn't trust the guy but I mean it takes 2 to tango right?? This whole thing has been going on for like a few months and I'm really fed up with all that. I keep telling him how I feel towards that and still he keeps doing it... Last night, I told him that if it ever comes up again then I think it's time that we should just go on our separate ways because I don't really deserve that out of a relationship...  Oh may I add that it's not always about a guy friend or any guy but he talks about me too.. Like when I want to dress nice he's against it but it's not like I show anything really sexy or whatnot but rather casual/dressy than I usually dress.. Love isn't fair...

Errr.. I dunno what else to do now... 

ive been thru it too!....you begin to push him away from you...becuase of those things. thats what happened to me.

I think guys do that because they r so insecure of himself, maybe he thinks you will leave him..for someone better...but he knows you love him, you need to tell him to Chill OUT!, u dont give him the 3rd degree do you? so there is no for him to be asking u all those questions either. You are probably a beautiful girl, and he doesnt want to lose you, and him up ur butt like that isnt going to make you stay any longer, tell him that. He needs to TRUST you more. without trust theres no relationship. and a girl needs to feel pretty too, so wear whatever you want...and if he has somethin negative to say about it..maybe he isnt worth your time. because you know damn right, if some other girl were to walk by with a mini skirt..or what not he would be staring!...but noo he says you cant wear that? you see what i mean..because he doesnt want guys to stare at YOU!? ahh tell him to get a hold of himself, and that you love him and only him..and if he still seems to be askign those questions...yeh i think a break is the only thing..see where it goes from there..maybe he will realize hes doing u wrong. well good luck hun.