Self-confidence, I need it... |
 Feb 7 2005, 10:25 PM
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I really need more self-confidence! My family has been saying that, as well as my friends. They support me by telling me I'm pretty or smart or whatever, and at times, it really does help, but I still find myself comparing myself to my friends or something. Also, this may be why people sometimes take "advantage" of me because I don't "stand up" to those who critisize things such as my art, writing . . . whatever.
~ Yeah, and this is my first post, lol. <--- Still a newbie!  //KK, I'd really like it if some of you could give me some advice . . . |
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Feb 8 2005, 06:56 PM
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i lack in self confidence too, but hm i guess my way of getting over that is sayinf F*ck all of them, i dont need their stupid complaints about how good they look or if they look okay? or just the stupid idiot 3rd grade sh*t they do.
i know too many people who are concited and are fake. no one needs that type of people around them. sorry im not giving the best advice but just live life and see how it goes. another good idea would be to find a friend you can complain with, like "gah i hate when people always tell me to do this or that" like regular stuff that really annoy you but you never tend to say leave me alone or something like that >_<! sorry if i dont make any sense, its just my view on people and on how i "deal' with things, hope your confidence in yourself builds up ^-^ |
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xblueradiance Self-confidence Feb 7 2005, 10:25 PM
royalfreshness I understand how you feel. I sometimes think that... Feb 7 2005, 10:29 PM xblueradiance Thanks! Feb 7 2005, 10:31 PM llpurpleskyll yeah i feel the same way and my aunt always tells ... Feb 7 2005, 10:31 PM babyxyelloe <\3 i know how you feel. just know that yo... Feb 8 2005, 12:03 AM angel_revelation yea i feel like that a lot. and when somebody com... Feb 8 2005, 12:44 AM Misao Don't worri. =) That happen to me a lot..but i... Feb 8 2005, 01:21 AM Shattered_Hope the day that you realize that what people think do... Feb 8 2005, 04:45 PM electric shock Ooh, I need more self-confidence too.
Really, if y... Feb 8 2005, 04:47 PM sammehmyst maybe they mean that you need to be more optomisti... Feb 8 2005, 05:07 PM OriskybusinessO I feel the same. At home im always happy and feel ... Feb 8 2005, 05:15 PM M1SSxCHR1SSY I used to really lack self confidence. One way to ... Feb 8 2005, 06:35 PM M1SSxCHR1SSY eek double post! Feb 8 2005, 06:36 PM xblueradiance Thank, everyone. That really does help.
QUOTE(M1S... Feb 8 2005, 06:50 PM stephinika hmm yeah just this year actually, i've built u... Feb 8 2005, 07:28 PM xj_liana_tx people take advantages of me because of that too, ... Feb 8 2005, 07:30 PM LittleLulu well..now i am definately NOT a pretty girl. but i... Feb 8 2005, 07:48 PM sheepy hey who cares if you're not as pretty as her, ... Feb 8 2005, 07:59 PM ThePrincessofTKD it`s okay to have low self-confidence. it make... Feb 8 2005, 08:18 PM cheri_pi try to b more carefree- dont care about what ppl t... Feb 8 2005, 08:35 PM mouse_3k only you can do tht.. Feb 8 2005, 08:36 PM Wishful_Dream i want self-confidence too. all my friends say i ... Feb 8 2005, 09:56 PM angel-roh You don't always need to have it, but it's... Feb 9 2005, 04:47 AM
catcatc absolutely, i totally agree with you.
sometimes, i... Feb 9 2005, 09:18 AM |
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