Self-confidence, I need it... |
 Feb 7 2005, 10:25 PM
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I really need more self-confidence! My family has been saying that, as well as my friends. They support me by telling me I'm pretty or smart or whatever, and at times, it really does help, but I still find myself comparing myself to my friends or something. Also, this may be why people sometimes take "advantage" of me because I don't "stand up" to those who critisize things such as my art, writing . . . whatever.
~ Yeah, and this is my first post, lol. <--- Still a newbie!  //KK, I'd really like it if some of you could give me some advice . . . |
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Feb 8 2005, 06:35 PM
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I used to really lack self confidence. One way to change this is to change your mindset. Like think about it this way; there will always be someone prettier, smarter, nicer, cooler, etc than you and you just got to deal with it. You can't preoccupy yourself with those little nonsense worries because it won't get you anywhere. And with looks, well just don't worry too much about yourself because you know what? Everyone is so caught up on what they look like that they don't really give a damn on what you look like. Haha it's the truth. But yeah, just try to listen to what people say and TRUST them. Your friends wouldn't lie to you and say you are great at something when you absolutely suck (at least a good friend wouldn't.) So trust what they say.
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xblueradiance Self-confidence Feb 7 2005, 10:25 PM
royalfreshness I understand how you feel. I sometimes think that... Feb 7 2005, 10:29 PM xblueradiance Thanks! Feb 7 2005, 10:31 PM llpurpleskyll yeah i feel the same way and my aunt always tells ... Feb 7 2005, 10:31 PM babyxyelloe <\3 i know how you feel. just know that yo... Feb 8 2005, 12:03 AM angel_revelation yea i feel like that a lot. and when somebody com... Feb 8 2005, 12:44 AM Misao Don't worri. =) That happen to me a lot..but i... Feb 8 2005, 01:21 AM Shattered_Hope the day that you realize that what people think do... Feb 8 2005, 04:45 PM electric shock Ooh, I need more self-confidence too.
Really, if y... Feb 8 2005, 04:47 PM sammehmyst maybe they mean that you need to be more optomisti... Feb 8 2005, 05:07 PM OriskybusinessO I feel the same. At home im always happy and feel ... Feb 8 2005, 05:15 PM M1SSxCHR1SSY eek double post! Feb 8 2005, 06:36 PM xblueradiance Thank, everyone. That really does help.
QUOTE(M1S... Feb 8 2005, 06:50 PM fantasy_dreamz i lack in self confidence too, but hm i guess my w... Feb 8 2005, 06:56 PM stephinika hmm yeah just this year actually, i've built u... Feb 8 2005, 07:28 PM xj_liana_tx people take advantages of me because of that too, ... Feb 8 2005, 07:30 PM LittleLulu well..now i am definately NOT a pretty girl. but i... Feb 8 2005, 07:48 PM sheepy hey who cares if you're not as pretty as her, ... Feb 8 2005, 07:59 PM ThePrincessofTKD it`s okay to have low self-confidence. it make... Feb 8 2005, 08:18 PM cheri_pi try to b more carefree- dont care about what ppl t... Feb 8 2005, 08:35 PM mouse_3k only you can do tht.. Feb 8 2005, 08:36 PM Wishful_Dream i want self-confidence too. all my friends say i ... Feb 8 2005, 09:56 PM angel-roh You don't always need to have it, but it's... Feb 9 2005, 04:47 AM
catcatc absolutely, i totally agree with you.
sometimes, i... Feb 9 2005, 09:18 AM |
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