losing grip, distance between friends |
losing grip, distance between friends |
| *islandgirl4eva* |
Feb 7 2005, 09:38 PM
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I'm a little bit afraid right now. I'm at the point where I feel distance between myself and...well...everyone. I feel there's even a strain between my best friend and I, and I really don't know what to do about it. It frustrates me to the point where I want to pull out my hair, scream, cry, break something...I'm losing grips on myself and who I am. It feels like I've been sucked into a place where I depend on another person to be happy, and I hate that.
I mean, I love my best friend...but I need some "me" time. The thing about that is when I'm without her for too long, I feel even worse. If you even read this, thank you so much, I know there was a lot to read and I'm sorry about that. Sometimes it just feels good to vent and know that someone out there sees what you're saying. Naomi This post has been edited by islandgirl4eva: Feb 7 2005, 11:41 PM |
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Feb 8 2005, 01:19 PM
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Yawn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I was in that situation before. It's ok to just take a lil "me" time or whatever. Tell your friend whats up...if she's really ur best friend or whatever she'll understand. When this happened i went a few months not talking to my best friend lauren. And i mean i felt so much better, but yah of course i missed her. But the thing is when we did start talking again i realized that she wasn't the kinda person i would want to be friends with. And it turned out i was right. So i suggest you choose your friends wisely. If you're feeling like this then just be careful girl
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islandgirl4eva losing grip Feb 7 2005, 09:38 PM
mishyerr I think first, you should find what is causing thi... Feb 7 2005, 11:33 PM
islandgirl4eva Hmmm, I know what you mean. I guess I shouldn... Feb 7 2005, 11:41 PM
mishyerr No problem. =) Though venting online isn't as ... Feb 7 2005, 11:50 PM
LittleLulu well i was never in ur situation before... maybe y... Feb 8 2005, 12:02 AM
yukichan i kinda was in ur situation before...well i would ... Feb 8 2005, 02:45 AM
Shattered_Hope everyone goes through this...you need to talk to s... Feb 8 2005, 05:11 PM
stephinika yeah i've been through that before so try not ... Feb 8 2005, 07:40 PM
xj_liana_tx i can relate, just act like nothing is wrong and k... Feb 8 2005, 07:49 PM
supahstah_luv Hey, it's nothing we all haven't gone thro... Feb 8 2005, 11:30 PM
DaTru KataLYST hey im in that situation right now! we can be ... Feb 9 2005, 03:07 AM![]() ![]() |