To love or not to love..., That is the question ::so dramatic:: Options

[royalfreshness]

Ok everyone.. I have a question:
Would rather never have a boyfriend or girlfriend
OR
Have a boyfriend or girlfriend and become really attached to them?

And when I say attached to them I mean, you would refuse breakups and if they dump you for any reason whatsoever you would do anything by all means to get them back because you love them so much.

I'm asking cos I've never had a BF and my friend only had one and she is soooo attached to him and everytime he breaks up with her she insists to get back with him and talks him back into and all. I look at that and just think of how thankful I am to not have to go through somehthing like that although I wouldn't mind sharing my feelings with someone.

EDIT: Never have a someone as in haven't had a relationship yet.

This post has been edited by royalfreshness: Feb 7 2005, 09:53 PM

[dahding]

b/w love and obsession is madness. oh don't worry, it's there. it's hard to tell sometimes. i'd rather go out with a girl, enjoy our relationship, and if some serious problems came up that we couldn't fix over a long period of time, we would be able to break it off nice and easily, while still remaining best friends who can confide in each other. like how i am with my ex. we still talk a lot and we tell each other a bunch of stuff. no need for long term grudges.


and besides. who the hell would never want a bf or a gf? i ain't dying as a virgin. lol.